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About Sir2BObeyed
Male Dominant ... seeking a slavegirl. I am a natural leader and in charge in all that I do ... I am highly educated and financially secure. I require complete submission and total obedience ... of course, the right slave will "grow" into this degree of submission and obedience. I am not looking for a doormat or a mindless slave - I seek one who can hold a conversation and who can present herself well in any crowd. At the same time, I need a slave who recognizes her Master as the absolute authority and accepts his dominance on a 24/7 basis. Being a Master also means that I accept responsibility for my slave, for her care, guidance, growth and nurturing. As a Master, I love my slave, but with a Dominant love that comes from her submission and my Dominance. I believe that as a slave serves her Master that she deserves reward, just as she would deserve punishment for failing to properly serve. It's like Yin and Yang ... something that should remain in balance.
I do not view a Master/slave relationship as something that happens in the bedroom only - it is a total power exchange that is only real when it is 24/7. Of course, there are times when it is disguised from others, but the Dominance still exists - its just very subtle. If you have reservations about being able to do this ... don't worry, as long as you are willing to learn, I am willing to teach. In fact, I am willing to teach the right slave anything you need to know.
I do believe in discipline, and am capable of satisfying the most needy pain-slut. I punish when necessary, as well ... but punishment is intense; punishment is intended to cause a change in behavior ... and punishment from me usually does, eventually.
I enjoy true control and dominance ... there is nothing that opens my heart more than full submission from a loving slave who wants to please.
This is not something I do - it is who I am. I seek a slavegirl who recognizes her place at my feet and knows this life is who she is too. Having met someone who was almost perfect, I realized that I need to post this requirement: I am a non-smoker and I am not into drugs either. You must also be a non-smoker and drug-free or we will not be compatible.
Not seeking players ... or online relationships.
I do not post a profile photo because I have a high profile job, but my photo is available on request.
If you think you might be the right slave, please email me here. I'd like to discuss the possibilities with you and ultimately see you naked on your knees, in front of me, offering me the total submissive surrender that you so deeply need to be complete, yourself.
-Sir to be Obeyed. |
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I have noticed that the quality of people that I chat with, as well as the sincerity of their interest, and actually how kinky, submissive and genuine they are ... seems to vary with the phase of the moon.
I am the LAST one to proclaim this to be a general property or truth ... but I wonder if anyone else has noticed this too?? |
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I believe that a Master can love his slave, and even be in love with her, but that does not change the fact that she is still a slave, nor does it change the way she is required to obey or be treated. Love between a Master and slave can be so much deeper than married couples ever experience, yet also is a completely different dynamic.
My current feeling is that Master/slave relationship is not compatible with being married, because a marriage is a relationship of equals whereas a Master/slave relationship is based on the fact that it is not equal at all. On the other hand, I am looking for permanence, for a live-in slavegirl, and for a very long term commitment and relationship with my chosen slavegirl.
After having given considerable thought to this, I seek a slavegirl between the ages of 20-38, and if you are under 25 or so, I would only consider a mature slavegirl. It does not matter to me whether you are single or married, however if married, your submission must either be with husband's consent, or you should be giving serious thought to ending the marriage once you are accepted as a permanent slavegirl.
I am seeking a realtime connection ... it can start online, but unless you plan on it becoming real ... or at least are seriously open to that possibility, we will not be compatible.
Finally ... I believe that the only dumb question is the one you didn't ask. If you want to know something, PLEASE ASK rather than assume. I welcome questions from prospective slavegirls ... how else will you figure this all out from this online start?
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Things you Need to Know ... For those that want to know me, or think they might -
1. I am very busy. If I dont answer immediately that only verifies I am busy. If I am not interested, I have no problem saying so.
2. I do not stalk or pester slaves online. If you are not interested because you think I am too old, too extreme, not extreme enough, or whatever, **just say so** ... it helps me to know why you are not a match, if you aren't. I can take you off my list more easily. Otherwise I may check back with you in 3 to 6 months to see if things have changed.
3. If you are serious, be prepared to get to know me first, but also expect to disclose your identity and (eventually) have your background checked (e,g, before I accept you on a long term basis). There are too many scammers to not do this.
4. Do not ask me for money. I dont care what your situation is. I can provide transportation, and pretty much whatever you need, but do not ask for money - its not going to happen.
5. No underage girls. See #3. I will check.
6. Absolutely no men, no tv's, cd's, tg's or any variation thereof. If you weren't born a female and still are female, thanks for your interest, but look elsewhere.
7. I am ONLY interested in a slave girl to serve me, in person. I do not trade slaves, loan slaves, have multiple slaves, or do anything illegal. If you are interested in a one-on-one relationship with a BDSM Master ... then talk to me.
Finally, thanks for reading this far. You get points with me by telling me you read all the requirements in my journal. -Sir. |
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I have a theory, one that I have had for a long time.?
It goes something like this ...
Most people on sites like these are either those who fantasize about BDSM, or those who try to scam others.?
As time goes on, this statistic tends to prove itself more and more.? The number of people who are serious about what they've said online seems to be less than 1/10th of 1 percent, and some of those are questionable.
I'd love to be proven wrong.
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