SierraMisty

Well, I am feeling more submissive as well.  I have removed most of the piercings and focused on dressing more submissive following a nice fire that took care of my apartment and older clothes line.  The flames apparently have a way of ensuring you don't go back to your older style.  So tighter, less black, and just less "domme" looking as a whole...

I am also thinking differently and learning to be a bit less competitive with other women on looks and less into looks as a whole.  I am even doing my best not to flirt with other girl's boyfriends in general.  I am constantly having to remind myself that other women should indeed be better than me particularly if they are domme, switch, or alpha than myself.  It is slowly kicking in as I adjust. 

I am not looking to relocate permanently a long ways away, but can visit.  If you want a permanent live in though and are far away, that doesn't make sense unless you are moving out to Boston soon.  Also, as for the makeover tips, they definitely are interesting and I am taking them seriously and will post pics if I do some of them. 

As for why to do them?  We all know it is the internal thoughts and behavior that are critical, but it doesn't hurt to have the exterior match the interior.  Also, I have come to the conclusion that to do this transition right, I cannot just go sub.  I think I need to go to slave level and then I can adjust with those that own me as needed.  That goes for my looks and behavior.

Yes, I know I need to look more demure and you all want a nude shot.  We shall see, but I know that is all very subbie.  I have been thinking about it and I want more slave than sub and my goal is 24/7 I think.  If you think though that I am just going to run out and meet you after two emails, you are dreaming and there is a good chance I will quickly ignore you.

In addition to needing more training and inner soul searching to be broken into a slave, I have been listening to your ideas and I do agree the piercings look a bit domme, but I love them.  I think small piercings are doable though for now.  If you own me, you can pull them out.  As for the other ideas, I like my tan!  I am not ridding myself of it, that is sorta silly.  I doubt I could anyways as I am Italian.  As for getting my hair color made more mild, that is doable as is a haircut if it makes sense.

I am not interested in switching back to domme!!!  I will delete your emails if you ask.  Doesn't anyone even read profiles on here?  I really think it is partially my looks.  Perhaps I just need to lose some piercings and start wearing lots of pink.