Richard6ft6in

I am an assertive, strict but loving man 49yo who likes above all feminine, intelligent women of all kinds. I am either dominant or vanilla but always loving. The phrase power exchange is often used - I like it - it presupposes the sub has power to exchange and that is the great compliment a sub pays to her Dominant - giving him control and trusting him to use her fully but at the same time look after her best interests.

Some dominants are born not made. From a puberty I had fantasies about controlling women and having them chained up for me to play with. Of course I didnt have a lot of idea what to do with them then. I am fairly experienced but also very open to trying anything new that is sane and safe..

A good D/s relationship is mental first off and far deeper than a marriage it is about mutual commitment, and trust.

I like intelligent women who want to be proud of there servitude and the man who controls them

If I am honest the idea of owning a couple her as my girl friend or slut has a definate appeal although I am not particularly interested in men.

I am looking for either a relationship with a sub girlfriend or slave who needs to be used for their owners pleasure and benefit over the long term.

I also like the idea of owning a pet from time to time so someone interested in pet play and dehumanification is also of interest.

A poly household with me as the Alpha male has its attractions

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