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I'm on FetLife. If serious contact me there. If not serious then you won't even know what the hell that is or be able to find me. Profile is alyssa_black - I could link it but do like people who make the effort :) I'm trans, not a TV or a cross dresser. Know the difference before you hit on me otherwise you're going to embarass yourself. Don't hit on me because you want 'the best of both worlds' or have some predefined idea of an ideal trans woman. Get to know me as a person first. Linking me your favourite video on shemaleyum.com is not a good approach FYI. I hit a lot of fetish events in London. I'm known on the London scene by quite a lot of regulars. Collarspace is an idle time thing for me - I am looking for a Dom/me, owner or whatever you term it for a long term BDSM relationship but understand that the chances of finding anyone existing in the real world on collarspace are bloody slim to none. However trolling wannabes does amuse me from time to time. I have been described by people I have played with as a 'fucking unicorn' or 'hardcore' (by more than a few professional Dommes as well). To put it simply, I have a pretty good pain threshold to start with that just goes up with arousal, my list of limits is quite short and I have no problems with being marked. I love rough play, and keep coming back for more, and am not shy in coming forward. Oh, and my throat is *very* accommodating... I also do not top from the bottom, nor do I enjoy being micro managed. I'm there to make my Dominant's life easier, whether that is sexually, through massage or other forms of stress relief or via being an amusing plaything. I have a list of fantasies and kinks I'm happy to share and discuss but I don't expect them all to be fulfilled in any way (unless I've been a *really* good girl first...) I might sound opinionated, bratty or condescending. Trust me when I can say I value my submission. Someone worthy of it will come along, but if you think you can dominate me from the first email conversation I *will* mock you. About me bit: Best way to meet me - go where I go! Always happy to chat. You'll recognise me as the tall trans girl currently rocking collar length blond hair (hint: it's mine!). Not everyone knows me on the London scene, but a fair few people do! Tad infamous/notorious at times... Some of what turns me on is here. Not exhaustive. But most things on this list float my boat. No, none of the photos are of me. Yet. It is definitely NSFW and decidedly kinky so you have been warned :) http://sissy-alyssa.tumblr.com Final thoughts: Grammar: a delightful set of rules that spell the difference between knowing you're shit and knowing your shit.
7/27/2016 7:07:30 AM
So I'm polyamorous.  That means I'm not looking for  someone for 24x7, but I'm looking for regular meetings and a relationship that isn't exclusive.

Expect exclusivity?  Move on.

I currently have one poly girlfriend (cis girl) that fulfils a lot of my vanilla needs so I'm really more interested in kink.
4/25/2016 2:16:03 AM
Age ranges.  Why do people put 'only younger than me' on their profiles?

I've been on the fetish scene in London for ages now and one thing I have come to realise is that attraction is not based on age.  I've played with people 20 years either side of my age in different roles now, and they have all been amazing fun.

Don't limit yourself to 'under 40' for god sake.  Because that rules me out (just), and there is no way in hell I look or act like I'm 40!!!
1/18/2016 6:41:48 AM
From a 'Dom' (deliberate air quotes) after I wasn't available to immediately take his Skype call at 11:30pm on a school night.  This is during the 'still getting to know you' phase:


  ALL TS are highly unlevelled due to hormones dysfunction
I am happy to stop all contacts
I changed my profile and stop seeking one as since years they act the same way
bye

Note: I haven't corrected the grammar.  It's not me, it's you.  Perhaps!?!

Please don't apply to be my Dom if you instantly expect me to jump to answer you on Skype (especially when it shows that I'm offline).  Once we have established a relationship (note: this starts with us actually meeting) then sure, you can have my private number and I can be on call 24x7 if that's how we want stuff to work.  Until then hell no.



1/4/2016 9:36:05 AM
So someone locked my chastity cage on me on the weekend.  Feeling someone else click that padlock closed was a pretty intense moment.

I then went out clubbing that night in London to AntiChrist (one of my favourite fetish clubs, in a great venue) caged.  Spent the evening being an outrageous flirt, getting solidly punished in the dungeon and generally causing mayhem as always.

Today I'm still locked up - beginning two weeks (at least!) of chastity after not having come since Xmas day anyway.  Sadly my current key-holder is only in a play relationship and nothing more, but it's still plenty of fun!
12/19/2015 11:55:49 AM
Just to give you an idea - this is the kind of play I enjoy.

A house mistress invites me over to a spanking bench.  I slide out of my dress and leave it on the floor, leaving myself exposed in the middle of the club in my lingerie.

I position myself on the bench, breath deeply and relax - gentle warm up spankings and flogging ensues until the cane is reached for.  'Six' is whispered into my ear and then six fairly heavy swipes connect with my exposed rear.  A friend is whispering encouragement in my ear.  The last blow is harder and my back arches with the impact.  'Good girl' is said in the background (always gets me going).

The house mistress changes implements - this time it's a broader paddle.  Again it's six.  The impact is thuddier this time so easier to bear.  I'm asked if I can take more so response with a polite 'Yes Please'!  Back to the cane, another six strokes, and this time harder.

Endorphins have kicked in a little this time and there are some serious swipes.  My back definitely arches and there is a very sharp intake of breath.

I'm then pinned down on the bench as my breathing quickens.  Hands appear on my body, belonging to various people I know.  Spiky needle point gloves are run over my back and shoulders, someone it biting my other shoulder and then strong powerful hands belonging to a man are holding me in place.

His hands take over the punishment on my backside, still tender from the caning.  The caresses, bites, spanks and various hands go on for a while, all the time my body is shivering and shaking with stimulation.

Then, of course, as a thank you I had to go down on at least two of the people that were helping me out.
12/7/2015 3:26:52 AM
Please do a tiny bit of researching on being transgender, or at least know what it means, before getting in touch with me.

Mis-gendering me is the quickest route to having me block you, and confusing me with a cross-dresser is the second quickest.  I don't look down on cross-dressers, everyone has their kink or way of expressing their gender.  I'm just not one.

I'm in transition at the moment - this does complicate things as I still have to work as a boy for the next few months.  It will come to an end and I will be 24x7 female.  So bear that in mind.

Finally whilst I'm on feminizing hormones at the moment I've no idea what surgeries I'm going to have or need at the moment - don't presume anything!
11/4/2015 12:39:52 PM
FYI this is not a good opening message: Are you an Owned \ Unowned Slave or Sub ? Are you willing to Relocate or Travel ? Do you have any limits as a Slave ? Do you have Whatsapp messenger or skype ?
8/11/2015 9:52:21 AM
Things that put me off your profile:

1. Referring to yourself in the third person and/or as 'Master/Sir'.  If the only way to enforce your dominance is to describe it like that then clearly you don't have it.

2. Assuming that my submission is guaranteed.  It isn't.  It's something I give to you, not something you take.  Failure to understand this means we won't get on...

3. Really bad grammar, punctuation and txt speak.  Your profile is the first impression I make of you, make it the best it can be!

4. Not having a pic.  I have plenty.  Include one with your mail; I'm not going to cyber stalk you, I don't have the time or patience.

5. Empty profiles.  Unless your first message contains everything required.

Which unfortunately is about 95% of collarspace :|

Or, frankly, just rock up at an event I'm attending and say hi...
8/7/2015 5:31:45 AM
And this is why I love collarspace.  From a profile with no pix and two lines that is listed as straight looking for submissive women:

You look real hot and I would like to fuck the shit out of you , but I am a short guy , if that is a problem with you ...fuck off ! 

Interested in serving me , cunt ?


Clearly I jumped straight into bed with this guy, a girl can hardly refuse such a tantalising invite...
8/6/2015 5:39:37 AM
Hey collarspace users,

You might notice that my profile is mostly links to profiles on two other sites.  That's purely because I find it easier to communicate on those sites.  Just thought I'd update you to what I'm up to so I can weed out the fantasists and timewasters on here.

I hit fetish events regularly in London - AntiChrist, Torture Garden, Subversion, private play parties, Candy Girls and a variety of others on the trans scene as well.  You will find me there, I tend to stick out a bit (I like heels, and I'm already 6', plus I  do tend to dress up rather than down - rarely the one all in black put it that way!).  I do look like my photos as well which helps (the primary photo was from last month), some say better :)

Do come say hi, I'm friendly and sociable.  We might even end up playing, who knows!

Meeting up from messages on websites like this *is* possible, but I have to say I get a lot of male interest (profiles on 4 websites at least) and there is no way I can possible meet all of you (I do need to earn a living somehow!).  So you'll have to stick out in some way (and being the kind polite one doesn't work sadly).

If you are a cute trans girl or cis Domme then your chances of meeting me are dramatically higher!
7/25/2013 4:05:05 AM

So I've been on here while (and this may well be my fourth or fifth profile) and I still see a lot of the same faces on here

 

And people still don't fill out profiles!  Whilst your nickname might give me a vague indication what you are looking for, it's very hard to determine whether I should initiate contact or not.

 

I am seriously looking at the moment - I have met people I've chatted to online and I have had various levels of naughtiness with them.  So not a timewaster.

 

Do you fit the bill for me?

5/17/2013 12:20:23 PM

stories....

 

not sure whether I'd like to be the dom or the victim in this one (I kinda wrote it from both angles...)

 

My car pulls up into the driveway outside your house, and you nervously watch me walk up to your door. 

 

It's late evening, summer, the sky is darkening but there is still plenty of light.  It's a warm evening.

 

My footsteps crunch ominously into the gravel driveway as I approach the door.  You are already there, hiding yourself behind the door.

 

As discussed, you are dressed in black nylon stockings, matching boned satin corset with suspenders, strappy heels and a thong.  The corset is long, covering your body well, but you feel quite naked from the waist down!

 

"Step out, please" I instruct, wanting to see the full impact of your outfit.

 

Sheepishly, you step out from behind the door, your head bowed slightly in a little shame. 

 

"Most impressive...you do look stunning" I state.

 

The complement takes you by surprise, your face lights up a tiny bit.  Perhaps today won't end in you feeling used and degraded...

 

"Now get in the car, slut" I bark.

 

Nope, it does look like an evening of abuse is ahead.  Secretly that's what you crave and desire.

 

You slide into the leather seats of my car, the warm soft fabric enveloping your naked backside.  The corset is tight around your midriff, and certainly boosting your not inconsiderable assets upwards.

 

I pull out from the house, and drive slowly down your street.  Your outfit has been designed to not show off your body to passers-by, but to maximise your humiliation when we reach our destination.

 

"Today, my little slut, we are going dogging" I inform you, as we turn onto a major road.  "There is a spot not too far from here where people go to have sex.  Strangers come to watch, and sometimes join in.  Today I am going to take you there, I am going to fuck you hard, and you are going to let anyone who wants to watch.  They might even join in if you put on a good enough show"

 

"As always," I continue, "if you don't want this to happen you can say so.  I'll pull the car over and you can walk home."

 

My language and tone causes you to wriggle in your seat - you can feel your pussy start to moisten at the thought.  The idea of public sex has aroused you for quite some time, but you've never had the guts to go and do it.  Now your choice is somewhat limited...

 

The idea of walking home dressed like this along a dark major road fills you with dread.  The idea of being dragged to a seedy dogging location to be fucked in front of strangers fills you with a mix of excitement and fear.

 

"You will be safe," I reassure, "if you do not like the look of someone a simple shake of the head will mean we move on, or I encourage them to leave.  I want you to feel comfortable to be as wanton as I know you can be.  Is that ok?"

 

You nod your head, confident in my authority and ability to control the situation should things go awry.

 

The night grows a little darker and we pull into a car park near a large wooded area.

 

"We are here, you will follow me out of the car and stay close.  Remember I am your only way home..."

 

The last sentence doesn't come across as a threat, but as a warning.

 

I walk around to your side of the car and open your door.  There are cars parked nearby, and you can see one of them is definitely rocking back and forth! 

 

I help you out of the car, and we walk towards the woodland.  Your heels scuff along in the gravel and you're legs feel like jelly - you've never done something this depraved before!

 

A short walk and we are in the woods - enclosed by trees and branches you feel a little more confident.  I point out a park bench, and we walk over to it.

 

"Let’s get started shall we!" I say, grabbing a handful of your hair and pushing you down onto your knees, unbuckling my fly with the other hand. "This is going to be rough..."

 

My semi hard cock springs out, straight into your mouth.  It's clean, warm, and tastes of delicious pre cum.  Forgetting where you are, you greedily suck it into your mouth and enjoy that perverse pleasure from feeling me grow inside your mouth.  My hands are holding your head steady, and you know that I'm going to test your deep throating skills.

 

Holding your head steady you remember the training we went through - working the muscles at the back of your throat you open your throat up for me, and then swallow the tip of my cock into your throat, feeling it tighten around my cock.  You focus your attention on where my cock is, your pussy literally dripping with the experience.  My cock slides in and out a few times, then I let you up for air.

 

Gasping in the warm evening air, you open your mouth for another go.  This time I force my cock in a little harder, and fuck your mouth for much longer.  I pull my cock out, and pull you up to your feet as you gasp for air, my tongue exploring your mouth.

 

 

"Mmm…you are getting good at that" I state, my hand cupping your pussy mound as I push my tongue back into your mouth. "And you appear to be enjoying it very much, judging my how wet your pussy is."

 

I turn you around, and push your knees into the park bench.  You kneel on the bench, and bend over it, and feel me lift your thong to one side.  My cock nuzzles gently at the entrance to your pussy and slowly slides in.  It fills you up nicely, and you feel my hips bang against yours as I thrust inside.

 

You let out a soft moan of pleasure, and push back onto my cock, wanting me deep inside you, pumping away hard to make me cum.

 

Just then you hear footsteps;a man walks along the pathway, and stops to look at you.  Here you are, bent over a park bench being fucked from behind and a total stranger is watching.

 

He doesn't approach;you see his hand is in his pocket, moving around.  I lean down and whisper in your ear "He won't approach; but he will cum in his pants watching you.  Hold his gaze, he'll come quicker and go."

 

You do as instructed, locking your gaze on this roaming pervert.  His hands move more frantically, and you watch his eyes roll back into his head as he fills up his pants with his own seed.  You feel a little disgusted that this weirdo has just masturbated over you, but you also feel a little power - you've made him cum without touching him!

 

He scuttles off into the distance, clearly in need of a fresh pair of pants.

 

Meanwhile, I lift a foot onto the bench to get a bit more leverage.  My thrusting has got more intense and you can feel something building up inside you.

 

"Well done, slut, you may finger yourself" I whisper into your ear.  It would appear you have pleased me with your behavious, without hesitation you shove your fingers onto your clit and start gently rubbing your most delicate spot.

 

Your orgasm comes very quickly, washing over you in a big wave.  The degradation of the weirdo has you all hot and bothered, and you cum hard, arching your back and biting your tongue not to cry out loud.  Even then a fairly loud moan escapes your lips as you finish shuddering on the bench.

 

"She looks like she enjoyed that" says a stranger’s voice.  Your head whips round to see a couple standing by the park bench, cuddling each other.  It's the girl’s voice you heard.  She leans up to kiss her partner on the cheek and you notice that her hand is quite firmly wrapped around his cock.

 

You scope them out quickly, your heart pounding very fast in your chest, both from the orgasm still rippling through your system and the sheer shock of discovery.  She's tall, white, blonde, dressed a little sluttish but nowhere near your current level.  He's just as tall, quite good looking, very well built and black.  His cock is certainly a magnificent site.

 

"She did", I answer, pulling my cock out of you and turning to face the couple.  I calmly walk around in front of you, and hold my cock up to your mouth to clean.  I look down at you and judge your reaction; this is your chance to shake your head, but you can't do it; you're still aroused from the orgasm, the stranger and the situation you are in.  You've never felt quite so wanton at this point.  Your head remains steady, and you open your mouth willingly for my cock.

 

In your head you know that reaction is exactly what I wanted, and means you are now going to get fucked by a total stranger.  But you just couldn't help it, you had to submit, you wanted to submit.  That feeling alone has you just as excited as the thought of what is to come...

 

I push my cock back into your mouth, and knowing that you have just implicitly agreed, raise my head up to the two strangers and says "But I think she'd love some more..."

 

You can't see, but the stranger girl leads her partner over by the cock and guides it straight into your wet dripping pussy.  You feel her fingers run across your backside, running up the side of your corset and back underneath you.  His cock slowly slides into you, and feels so big!

 

He's definitely bigger than me, and you soon feel his hips butting up against yours, this time understanding just how full your pussy can be!

 

The girl walks around, clearly feeling a little left out, and her face comes up to yours. 

 

"He's got a nice big cock, hasn't he?  He's going to fuck you really hard now, and I'm going to watch you cum on his cock.  Would you like that?"

 

You nod your head as best you can with my cock still in it.  She lifts her hands up to my cock, and pulls it out of your mouth, and runs her tongue around the tip. 

 

"Mmm...I can still taste your pussy." she says, sliding my cock into her mouth and taking it all the way in.  Her hands cup my balls and you watch as they tense up - clearly the situation is arousing for me as well!

 

She slides my cock out, and puts it back into your mouth.  "Suck him, you little whore, and hold his cum in your mouth when he comes." she instructs, and starts wanking my cock into your mouth.

 

Now you're being fucked at both ends again, and you know you are about to get a mouthful of cum.  This unknown girl is wanking my cock into your mouth, and you are totally under our spell.  Your pussy is totally full of black cock, and you are clearly going to cum again.

 

My cum spurts into your mouth, filling it up and tasting delicious.  You resist the urge to swallow, not wanting to offend this nasty looking girl.  My cock slides out, and is replaced by her tongue!

 

The mixture of her tongue in your mouth, my cum swirling between your two mouths and the big, thick cock pounding your pussy puts you over the edge.  Her hands grip your hair and your face, holding your face to hers, her eyes fixed on you, and you cum hard.  The guy fucking your pussy just keeps pounding away at you, and she keeps sucking on your tongue the whole way through your orgasm.

 

She pulls away, licking the few strands of cum from her lips and swallowing everything.

 

"She enjoyed that more," she comments to me.  "Now it's my turn..."

 

The black guy pulls out of your pussy; you feel a loss at the presence of his cock going, your pussy feels empty now, but your understand that this other girl needs her pleasure.

 

You are roughly lied down on the bench, lengthways, and before you know it her pussy is lowering itself onto your face.  It's already creamy from all the excitement she's had so far, and she pushes it down hard onto your face.  Her open palm smacks down between your thighs, right onto your pussy lips, and she barks out "Lick my clit, now, or I'll make your pussy raw"

 

Your tongue obediently slides into her pussy, running up to her clit and circling it.  It tastes delicious, and you feel her body collapse onto your slightly.  The black guy walks around, and you watch his big thick cock slide into her pussy from below.  You can't resist running your tongue along his cock as it slides in, tasting your pussy on there!

 

*Smack* - your pussy lights up with fire as she brings her hand down on it hard again.  "I said lick *MY* pussy."

 

Reprimanded, you resume your duties.  Her pussy presses down onto your face hard, and the black guy has started with that constant pounding you were getting earlier.  You can feel her body convulsing and writhing with pleasure - she's going to cum fairly quickly. 

 

Without warning, the black guy thrusts into her a little harder, and you hear his grunting as he spurts wave after wave of cum into her pussy.  This puts her over the edge, and she pushes down harder on your mouth, cumming on your tongue really hard, and writhing around on your face.

 

The black guys cock slides out of her pussy, and he pushes it into your mouth, milking the last few drops of his cum into your mouth.

 

"Good little slut" the woman says, standing up and patting you on the cheek, "She'll serve you well Master R" she comments to me, as she walks off, holding her partners hand this time.

 

You spin round to me, smiling on the bench, holding my hard cock in my hand again.  Was that really coincidence?

5/10/2013 8:46:01 AM

First week on here, and I've flicked through most of the profiles for what I think I want.

 

Initial impressions - people need to put more in their profiles!  So many blank profiles it's maddening.  Or very brief descriptions.

 

Well done to those that have put the effort in.  Although it is much nicer if people talk in sentences and try and spell words correctly.

 

So right now I'm mostly browsing Bi Doms - if that's you, check me out!

SexyBBWDomme
 
 Age: 30
 Evansville, Indiana