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Female Dominant, 40, Upstate, Alabama
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Female Submissive, 39, Duncannon, Pennsylvania
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Male Dominant, Seattle, Washington
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About ravengreymoon
If you just viewed me and the only thing on your profile is some link to a website I will report you as a scammer. If your legitimate you may want to remove it this instant.
I am different sorta person and really do not fit in anywhere very well. My interests include goth industrial music, camping, gaming, paganism, bdsm, leather work, and fandom.
I attend pagan festivals, Scifi, fantasy, horror, gaming, and furry conventions.
I do consider myself a furry my species is a Crux if you must know. Me and my submissive are in an open relationship as well.
I find it hilarious, both the amount of cross over in all these subcultures that I am a member of as well as how many people who claim to be out there having an open mind. Yet, they close up when they hear that what I do isnt 100 what they do. Fluffyswitch was collared Samhain October 2008 and there might be room for more.
We are open to other play partners and lovers. We would also like a service submissive to help around the household and give back rubs. We have overlapping schedules so this would likely be an arrangement where you would be with me most of the time unless your a morning person.
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A troll Seriously?, Wow, get a hobby. |
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Posted this on another site. Going to put this here see if anyone wants to discuss this topic. Its bothering me. --begin--
Lately I been getting more and more restless. A little history the cliff notes version, my primary partner of 10 years has severe PTSD from an attack that occurred right before I met her. The result of this is I can not engage in oral sex with her, any predatory behavior scares her, and she does not act in my book what would be considered seductive. I have had numerous secondary partners. (we are poly) but as of late I have had a bit of a slow spell. I am getting older and the women just aren't lining up like they used to plus I find my living situation too embarrassing to bring anyone over and do not have the time money or drive to resolve it. I recently wasted my time waiting for a dead end job to promote me falling for the bullshit of the type of boss who tells you whatever you want to hear in order to get what he wants. Yeah I was a sucker. All of this has made me both sexually and sadistically frustrated.
The problem: I am feeling extremely aggressive right now and when I was younger I would get some younger unsuspecting consenting adult and use her like a tenderized piece of meat. However, Now, I have lived with a PTSD suffering feminist who has given me an incredible amount of guilt. That being said. I am not a rapist. I never did anything that could even be mistaken as rape but I am hesitant to tap into this primal feeling that is built up and quite frankly backed up because my partners life history makes me feel like a rapist. My inner predator is so scared to come out right now especially when I really don't think I know anyone who would enjoy it. I feel wishy washy asking for consent and don't even know if I have it when they say yes lets do this quite obviously. I feel me asking repeatedly ruins it for the potential prey and they usually end up thinking I am wishy washy and moving on to someone else.
The other problem: I am only attracting masochists right now who have no interest in sex. Yeah OK I love giving a good beating but sometimes actually more lately I just want to slam someone against the ground and fill them with a load maybe after a good chase in the woods with a lot of growling and scratching. Sad part is I have a few friends. Multiple friends who I know would be into this but because I been so wishy washy because a fore mentioned male identity crisis they drop me into the friends zone and don't consider me capable of their type of fun. The girls I been keeping the interest of only want to be beat but have no interest in my cock.
I just really hate this feeling. I am feeling guilt because I want it like this and I possibly could get it like this if I was just not feeling so guilty because of what some son of a bitch did to my primary partner 10 years ago.
Whats worse is I did try to communitcate this to someone when I was feeling too horny to shut the fuck up and I fear I may just scare her away and loose my friendship with her. |
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Ow look a new message. Nope Bot |
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It would be nice if someone other than a but or scammer would msg me. Ya know just saying. I really don't know what I am doing on this site anymore. |
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It would be nice if someone other than a but or scammer would msg me. Ya know just saying. I really don't know what I am doing on this site anymore. |
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It would be nice if someone other than a but or scammer would msg me. Ya know just saying. I really don't know what I am doing on this site anymore. |
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Today I lost my job. Not because of performance but because I realised I don't need it anymore. I don't need to take the horse shit that came with it anymore. So about a month ago I stopped bending over for the man. I need a job that pays better provides benefits and values its employees and what they give to the company. Most of all I need a job where people fucking respect me. I will probably take a little while off. Maybe a few weeks maybe 2 months. Then I will get hard hitting and get that better job and it will pay more than where I was this morning.
I will get bored pretty quickly. Already kind of am. |
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Debt, I have been in it so long that prospective that I will soon not only be free from it but actually have a sizable nest egg is somewhat terrifying. One gets very used to living a certain way and then suddenly the need to is gone. Strange isn't it. |
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Campground is closed I am shut up in the house for the winter. I really hate this time of year. Used to look forward to it when I was a lot younger. I used to Ski 3 or 4 times a week. But not anymore. I get the blues in the winter. Really hate it now. Cant wait until may. |
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Dodge ball at the park with the group was fun. Its been a while since I been out its nice to know people haven't totally forgotten about us. Thinking about doing the munch tomorrow its close by to somewhere else I wanna go to. |
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Sometimes I read thru my girls emails on here and wonder what the fuck is wrong with some of the men on here. |
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Are there only bots on here now? |
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If you just viewed me and the only thing on your profile is some link to a website I will report you as a scammer. If your legitimate you may want to remove it this instant. |
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I find it amazing how many women have a nude/boob picture on here but not a normal one. I can understand being anonymous I suppose..... |
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Ok time to upgrade. I have been aware of a rope maker friend of mine for quite some time. He unfortunately moved before I got my moneys in order but I think I am ready to buy from him. He has been kind enough to send me samples of his work but I have to make up my mind on the width and material. He makes both Hemp and Bamboo rope of fairly high quality and is regarded as one of the best at least around local circles.
I haven't even settled on a color I just know it wont be white black or red as that is getting fairly common. His name is Giotto or DeGiotto rope. I am thinking 6mm to 8mm I want this for mostly harness work with the goal of doing more suspensions.
His stuff is here. If anyone has any feedback as to what my best choice should be please now's the time. I got 1 - 2 hundred to drop on this so I can do up to 200 feet of hemp or 100 feet of bamboo.
http://www.degiottorope.com/ProductDetails.asp?ProductCode=7HC |
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I just love it when I ask someone a question thinking they are a real person and get an automated spam message as a reply. I see a lot of subs complain about fakes on here but I dont think they mean as literal as some of the profiles I have emailed who are actually fake people. Not real. Do not exist. Ahh well. |
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I see one of the new girls got herself snatched up by a 21 year old dominant with 5 years experience. Ok, that's one out of 3 lies right there. Age, Experience, or both. If it is the truth that is almost worst. I call shenanigans. People are so full of it. I dont understand why people rush into things so fast either. Took me almost 6 months before I even gave f the consideration collar and over a year after that before I officially took her as my own. Then again I see collared on first date and married after a week craziness all over the place. Wouldn't it be a good idea to uhh I dunno maybe, know the person first? Paws up. Head down in shame. Sometimes it seems I am far more sane than a lot of people and that really scares me. |
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If your going to email me I will respond. If your going to not respond to my response. Well that gives me a sad. Sorry I spent the time to respond. |
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Sometimes I am a Dom because I am a big softy and want to make sure every one is all right and safe and I want to beat them profusely when they dont listen to me and end up getting themselves in trouble. Had one of those moments recently. |
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I haven't been around a whole lot lately. Just me and my girl at home. Work and go home. I play some video games and be the bare minimal required of social as I have to but I just don't really like people right now. The ones I liked are dead or moved away or simply dont want to deal with me. The rest I just dont trust. I got more than my fair share of backstabbing this summer and I got to say I just don't like anyone right now. Guilt by association I suppose. Your human or at least claim to be ergo I just don't want to deal with you. Shrug. That's how it is. |
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