i'll tell you what i'm NOT looking for first....someone who is married (or already involved with another), a player who is just wanting kinky sex, liars, or cheats.

What i am looking for is someone who IS available for and wanting a LTR, honest and upfront, SSC, has a sense of humor, is patient & knowledgeable, actually likes sex and has a libido, (because even though i know life & the lifestyle has many aspects and is not all about sex, it's something that is important to me). He is also a firm, strong, caring Dom who knows what he wants and knows that what he wants is me!!!! (In time of course *chuckle*)

my submission is a gift, not to be rushed or forced (as i believe one's Dominance is also) and i take it seriously! i am not one to give it to just anyone! It takes time, trust, and a comfort level with each other, so don't expect to dominate me with the first second or third contact (so...don't expect to scene or have sex on the first meeting *pointing back up to what i'm NOT looking for*). i tend to be more on the curious, but also cautious side and i like to take time to get to know someone and vice versa. i do have some rt experience, although with the right one, with trust and respect i am eager and willing to learn and explore so much more! *warm smile*