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	About petitelinguiste WARNING: Any and all institutions, individuals and/or media using this or any other adult site for projects or personal use - YOU ABSOLUTELY DO NOT have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum - both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and you can bet your sorry ass that it will be subject to legal action. While I’d say I primarily identify as submissive, in daily life I am very dominant. I’m admittedly argumentative, confrontational and opinionated. At the same time, I’d like to think that I execute these aggressive aspects of my personality with utmost grace and refinement… There isn’t a question I loathe more than: “How did you get into BDSM?” This isn’t a book club, a sport or a hobby for me. I have always known these desires, felt these impulses. When it comes to my sexuality my idea of basic/average/normal has never coincided with the mainstream. While I’ve been aware that I was probably a bit different, I never realized just how far from “normal” I was. While I am confident in my interests and abilities, I feel I am learning and understanding more about myself each and every day. I’ve always owned my femininity. I’ve craved to balance it with someone possessing a comparable, complementary level of masculinity. While I’ve never had trouble finding love interests, I failed to find relationships that truly satisfied me. My entire life I (almost eagerly) expected all males to be testosterone-driven egotistic chauvinists with insatiable sex drives… just waiting to objectify and take advantage of me … once they earned the privilege to do so, that is. I oh-so-optimistically assumed that even those who were otherwise viewed as polite, intellectual gentlemen were animalistic rapists behind closed doors. Boy, was I wrong…. I found myself rather nauseated by the overly soft, egalitarian sexual dynamic I shared with majority of my love interests and play things. Of course, they were incapable of interpreting my body language and sensing my desires, and usually they didn’t understand their own as well as I did. More often than not, I assumed the dominant role and was the more sexually aggressive than my partner. Which I found to be boring, but what really drove me insane were the reactions I’d get when I flat out asked for what I wanted. I’d just get flowery speeches about how they cared about me/respected me too much to ever treat me like the fucktoy I was so openly offering to be. As if I was suggesting it entirely for their pleasure… Anyway, I think you get the picture. I didn’t “get into” BDSM. This is who I am, it just took finding the right partners to realize the full extent of my perversions. Up until this summer I would have sworn under oath that I was purely submissive. Even now, I would have to say that for the most part I am. I think I’ve made that mostly clear thus far in this rant… but yes – whether I’m in being used or doing the using, my level of fulfillment is fully dependent on my ability to satisfy my subject. I’m fairly confident when say that I’ll enjoy their orgasm(s) more than they will. While I prefer to be mercilessly degraded and put in my place by a deserving alpha male, I recently found that I very much enjoy taking charge of an eager, whimpering bitchboy. It turns out the “vanilla” side of me wasn’t at all that vanilla. But to my surprise, when I unleash my demanding and cruel sadistic side on a submissive, it isn’t nearly as miserable as it was with my vanilla suitors. Submissives don’t complain, talk back or question me…hell, they'll eagerly lap up my arrogance and bitchtasticness. Knowing that it pleases them makes the whole experience much more fun for me (see, I’m totally a submissive at heart!). The two dynamics do totally different things for me, and I don’t feel I could ever be both submissive and dominant with one, same partner. I believe dominance is relative, and while there’s a small number of men out there who are worthy of my submission, there’s an even larger number of pathetic male submissives deserving of my discipline (but that doesn’t mean I’ll give it to them).

And while I'm ranting, I'd like all of you sad, lonely people with 30 CollarMe accounts who feel compelled to try to convince me that I will be banned for being a male to not even bother overflowing my bulk inbox with your nonsense.

For anyone else dealing with this problem, rest assured, your account isn't going anywhere... at least, not based on any gender-related allegations:

From: Support

Dated: 6/14/11 01:22 PM

Note: This is an administrative message from Collarme.com *

petitelinguiste,

You are correct in this: Part of me feels that this could be two instances of insanely bored individuals fabricating a situation to get me on cam

At this time, we do not require anyone to prove who they are (except for some rare instances of our younger-looking users).

With regard,

The Collarme Support Team

I've been receiving an overwhelming number of messages regarding the chunk of text posted at the very beginning of my profile.

While I usually just ignore these, sometimes a very bored me will be tempted to respond with fiery scorn or a slew of snarky comments.

I thought I'd just save myself any time that could potentially be wasted in the future by publicly posting a thorough rant here. Now when I receive these moronic messages I can ignore them knowing that the jackass didn't even read my profile, or direct them to this entry should I feel so inclined.

I want to begin by saying that I think it's pretty clear that I have no reason for legal involvement, period. I'm careful enough to post minimal information that could be used to identify and/or blackmail me.

To be perfectly honest, posting that block of text serves as quite a nice litmus test - exposing the nature of those like yourself, with the convenient bonus of scaring off legally illiterate apes in the process. But if my original motives must be revealed, so be it.

When one enters your handle as a query on the site of any given popular search engine, your CollarMe listing appears in the results. I don't know about you, but I'd much rather have regurgitated nonsense be displayed in the snippet as opposed to than my own words. Someone may know my handle from other websites. Now, I'm not suggesting this is at all foolproof, but it certainly decreases the likelihood that an individual will look further (which is the reason you'll find this spiel at the top of my page).

Someone who becomes so dramatically disgruntled over this absolutely extraneous detail is quite pathetic, really. If one is going to take the time to troll a site like CollarMe, harassing individuals in such an irrelevant manner, he or she is clearly acting out in response to some sort of deep-seated frustration. If I had to take a stab, I'd say that individual doesn't handle rejection very well.

So, here's my message to all of you silly little wastes of space:

I'm not the reason you're having such bad luck on here, but my guess would be that your immaturity and blatant overcompensation for some kind of inferiority complex could be to blame.

Grow up, find a less annoying hobby, or do everyone a favor and get back to your dead end job and collection of pirated porn. Quit it with the paralegal pretend time (as if anyone would take you for a lawyer!). Anyone with half a brain or a remotely respectful day job wouldn't have the time or desire to pester people with no plausible cause for doing so.

Sincerely,

petitelinguiste

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There isn’t a question I loathe more than: “How did you get into BDSM?”