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i hate personal ads. i never seem to say the right things.

slave for most of my life, old enough to know better but young enough to still dare.

lover of the arts, opera, literrature my favorite authors are Kundera, Jardin and Laberge. passionate about life and all it has to offer i seek to meet my One and only, for now and forever.

i don't share nor do i play well with others. 15 years of experience has taught me my likes and my dislikes as well as what i seek for in partners. i'm not a typical slave, i'm not looking for someone to take over my life because it is too hard, i'm looking for someone to take over and mold what is already there into the person i want to be, for Him.

i was trained in the Old Guard ways and seek someone to continue on this journey that has taught me who i am.

see, i really hate personal ads! there's tons more, just ask.

addendum: i don't msn on the first email, i won't call you master until i am collared to you, this is my real life and i don't spend my days on this website so the email responses could take some time. i don't believe in submitting without meeting or knowing who you really are. so voila.

petite fille perdue
7/9/2009 12:25:28 PM
i wish i could reply to all the emails sent but truth is, if the email didn't speak out to me, if the profile doesn't fit what i'm looking for, there's a big chance that i won't reply to your email.

it may sound rude but figure that girls on here get bombarded by emails daily so replying to all of them is not going to be part of the program.

my apologies to those who are offended by this.
7/9/2009 12:18:57 PM
oh, it's not that i'm a bitch. it's that i've been here before and i know what to look for and what not to look for.

i believe in common courtesy, in proper conversations, in a life outside D/s. i believe in a 50's style marriage, Father Knows Best type of life, along with D/s.

i want to know your name. i want to use it. i want to go grocery shopping on a saturday morning. i want a life, not just part of a life, because 24/7 D/s isn't sustainable, there needs to be a frame work outside of the play to make sure that the relationship endures the ups and downs of life.

sure it's about play. but it's also about running after children, birthday parties, mothers in law and many many more...
7/9/2009 12:09:56 PM

i am a true master and you will obey me.

seriously, is that a way to start a conversation? i mean, didn't your mother give you a name? do you have an address, a home, pets? are you a real person or a real master who cares just about being a real master?

i don't get it. what's the need to be so dominant on the first try? why do you even have to try? it's simple, either you are, or you aren't. no if's and's or but's about it.

i won't submit to you on the first email. i won't submit to you on the first meeting.  i will be courteous, polite, respectful on the first email but i won't submit on the first try.

that's it for today's rant.

5/5/2009 5:11:59 PM
Limits and SSC.

many have asked what my limits are and whether or not i practise SSC.

i've had these discussions many a time over the last 15 years.

limits fluctuate. other than poop, kids, animals and or death, nothing will pop to mind on the first few tries.

some of my limits include: no cutting off of my eyelashes. no harming me physically without a contingency plan in action *ie: you hurt me enough that i can't work, you need to be able to pay for me to stay at home and recover.

i'm not bisexual, as much as you want me to be or think that i will change my mind, it won't happen, limit.

SSC.

IMO, SSC is a crock.

nothing we do is safe or sane. consensual can vary. but lets not kid ourselves, nothing is 100% safe. nothing is 100% safe. my need for near death play is anything but safe or sane. it can be made as safe as possible but it's not totally.

semantics apply here and that's why i have nothing really interesting to say about limits.

i've done stupid shit in the name of slavery. nothing that i regret but things i wouldn't do now that i'm older and wiser. 

so that's that. i needed to get it off my chest.

petitefilleperdue
sophia79
 
 Age: 33
 Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania