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Female Submissive, 22, omaha, Nebraska
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About pet70
UPDATE: Having a rethink. This may not be the best way to achieve what I wanted. Leaving my profile intact so that I can refer back to it, but going inactive for now. Goodbye and thanks for all the fish :D
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I am looking for something quite specific and I don't know yet whether this is the right place for it or not - we shall see!
I will start this off by saying that I am not submissive except for when it comes to situations where I feel like I don't really know what I'm doing. Under those circumstances, and only those circumstances, I much prefer to be told and shown what to do by someone who knows their stuff and who is a naturally dominant person, so that I feel confident in their ability to teach me and to control the situation.
The reason I'm on here is because I'm currently not feeling very confident about sex. I was with the same guy for 20 years and knew what he liked, but post-separation I've had a couple of partners and felt like I didn't really know what to do to turn them on either mentally or physically, and I really didn't feel comfortable asking them to give me instructions. I would like to not be in the same situation with any future partners. And this is where you come in.
I would like a teacher, please. I am not bothered about your age or your appearance (although if you don't remind me of my dad it would be good!) - I just want to be able to learn how to give pleasure to a man from you. I am therefore looking for someone within reasonable travelling distance who I think will be suitable. Please note that I am looking for a dominant not a sadist, I have no desire to be humiliated, and I am not interested in learning how to be a good submissive. I will behave submissively during our lessons because that's what I am like when I am learning, but that's all. In return I will do my best to be teacher's pet.
I am not interested in a relationship and therefore your marital status is between you and your conscience. I do not wish you to come to my house, so we would have to agree on where our meetings would take place. I am happy to do all the travelling, although if you live further than half an hour's drive from me I will only be available every other weekend, and I can't realistically afford the cost if you're over 100 miles away.
There are a few things you should bear in mind before you message me, however.
1) This is not an opportunity for anyone who fancies themselves as an experienced Dom to have a new sub to use, abuse and train; that is not what I am here for. I'm here to learn technique, which means you have to be naturally dominant so that I feel comfortable giving you control, you have to be good at teaching so that I know I can learn from you, and you have to be able to connect with me in such a way that I will feel comfortable being intimate with you. I will know from your style of communication and from your profile whether or not you will be a suitable teacher for me.
2) Chances are I am just as dominant as you outside the bedroom, if not more so. I therefore strongly suggest that you keep the tone of your messages polite and respectful rather than bossy and demanding if you want it to lead to something. I have no desire to be rude to people, or to delete messages and block senders without replying with at least a "no thankyou", but some of you guys are really testing my patience here.
3) No means no. If I've said that I think we aren't suited to each other and you start pestering me to change my mind, I will block you.
Thankyou for taking the time to read all of that. I look forward to hearing from you. :) |
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