OldBull4youngcpl

Love this woman's take on all things cuckolding....I am linking to one page but it is ALL worth perusing no matter which side of the cuckold/hotwife/Bull paradigm you happen to fall on:

http://thiswifesturn.wordpress.com/2011/08/23/the-cuckold-experience/

SORRY FOR BEING ABSENT....BEEN UNDER THE WEATHER W/ THE FLU THAT'S CIRCULATING. HAPPY ( AND HOPEFULLY BETTER ) NEW YEAR TO ALL.

WONDERFUL INSIGHTFUL WRITING ABOUT THE LIFESTYLE.

I APPLAUD HER AND HER SITE. Hot Wife Allie thanks for everything.

http://www.hotwivesonline.com/hot-wife-and-cuckold-advice/

I just received a fascinating email from someone here on CM

and I would like to share it w/ everyone as it was as cogent as anything that I have ever received.

 Rather interesting profile to read.  I've enjoyed the forum links thanks for posting in your journal. Just curious do you get many inquiries, I'm sure cuckolding would have a dramatic effect on a relationship.   More positive than negative experiences or vice versa?

What's your perspective on why so many men are willing to give up control?  Is it inbuilt, hard wired into submissive men? or something men are acquiring through societal changes and the loss of a clear sexual roles?

and my reply.

such insightful and cogent questions from one so young!! when I get a note like this I have to respond posthaste.

I get MANY inquiries and usually at any one time I am chatting w/ a few either cucks or cuckoldresses or wannbes.

and yes, the effects on a marriage or relationship ARE dramatic, lifechanging and largely irreversible but my take is that by and large even the most stringent female led relationships register as positive experiences, though for the life of me, as an Alpha male and a testosterone based life form, I can't imagine the emotional and psychological toll nor the humiliation or denial involved being pleasurable in the least. but my experience tells me that some significant portion of males seek some variation on 'cuckolding'.

but that's why I am a Bull.

in regards to WHY so many men seem to be ready to surrender control, I don't think that it is hard wired though, some of it must be, especially in the most extreme cuckolds: my opinion is that it is largely societal and can be explained, at least in part, by the loss of clear sexual roles.

ok for all you Hotwives, cuckolds and wannabes - I think that this forum is the best I have found and there are real people there to learn from.

http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewforum.php?f=19

this ones not bad either:

http://www.cuckoldsforum.com/index.php

mainstream cuckolding article lol

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2010/07/29/cuckolding-the-sex-fetish-for-intellectuals.html

WOMEN !  don't let this profile fool you. I am basically a kind and loving pervert,who given a chance, would continue his lifelong trend of serial monogamy w/ a smart, decent, deliciously deviant female. doesn't mean that I am not all the evil things I claim just that I also interested in finding 'the one' if she's out there.

it's probably difficult for those of you not exposed to the hotwife/ cuckold lifestyle to fathom how many marriages and relationships are tilting in the balance between what's given (or taken) and what's desired, what's needed and what's assumed.

So many men are ready to give up total control of their lives, sexual and otherwise to female partners who either have no interest or no original inclination to do such a thing and take control.

I do my best to encourage and support both partners in their search for the proper balance

So many couples suffer from a lack of communication and of information. This oldbull attempts to bridge between fantasy (often) and reality (always) when it comes to such things and though I would very much like to have a couple (or two) in a sort of longer term relationship where the scene is ongoing I also provide information and evil ideas even where I will not be physically involved.

WIVES, SO MANY OF YOUR HUBBIES WOULD BE BLISSFULLY HAPPY TO SERVE YOU AND YOUR EVERY WHIM IF YOU WOULD ONLY....just lock their cocks up and withhold the key.

seems so simple when you say it like that.

just sayin'

that's what I hear from the world at large...