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jazzbound318
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lostimpishone
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| Dom seeking LTR; loves music, philosophy, history, and making fun of bad movies. Laid back and open minded Epicurean for true romance.
LTR means that I am not in this for the sex, I am in this to find a true relationship that will last. Not looking for flings, one-night stands, or the like.
For music, be warned that I am an audiophile. Music is perhaps my strongest passion; it is truly intense. I like a bit of everything but am classically educated, for music and more. I grew up on a lot of classical music (particularly Eastern European; think Germanic and Slavic), jazz (lots of big band but also some combos), and classic rock (just about anything on the oldies radio stations). This led to my absolute love of progressive music: rock, metal, folk, and more. See below for a list of musical tastes.
Reading consists of philosophy, history, science (mostly physics), mathematics, sci-fi, and fantasy, often but not always in that order of desire. Philosophy tends to be along the lines of Goethe, Kant, and the classics (read: Greeks). I like most kinds of history but dwell most in the areas of military, scientific, and European history. Recently, however, I've been filling in gaps (read: fixing) in my knowledge of American history. As such, I've been reading and listening to Murray Rothbard, Tom Woods, Tom DiLorenzo, and others. [For any interested, many such books, articles, and classes are available for free at the Ludwig von Mises Institute: mises.org]. To round it all out, I read a fair amount of sci-fi and fantasy stuff, but not nearly as much as I used to do. Sigh, so many books and so little time...
As much as I enjoy making fun of the bad movies a la MST3K, I do enjoy good films. My tastes are not quite as varied as my musical tastes but they are interesting. I do not do horror films, but most other genres are fine by me. Oh, and for the few of you who are Wittertained and understand this, hello to Jason Isaacs. Also, my first Doctor was #4, and the Prisoner was #6... okay, there are probably only a few people on this site outside of the UK who would actually get that pun, but I'm leaving it here.
Seeking submissive, slave, or similar. No older than 40, please. As you've noticed, I do type and talk quite a bit to make myself well understood. I believe in solid communication and have a tendency of rambling. So, if you're the type who thinks that the Answer is 42, has even the faintest idea who Douglas Adams is, or enjoys the more intellectual side of things, I would love to talk with you.
Music in no order nor grouping
Dvorak, particularly the Symphony 9, the New World
Mussorgsky, as the name might suggest
Dream Theater, especially such albums as Six Degrees and Train of Thought
Nightwish, with Tarja, not the new singer
Porcupine Tree, for relaxation and reading
Loreena McKennitt
Petra, mostly 1985 and prior
Bela Fleck and the Flecktones, as a quartet with Howard Levy as the best
Symphony X
Savatage
Sabaton
Marillion - I could fall into Misplaced Childhood and other old albums for hours
Five Iron Frenzy
The OC Supertones
Kamelot, at least until they lost their touch after Ghost Opera (the Faust material was the unquestionable best for me)
The Dirty Dozen Brass Band
Tyr
Korpiklaani
And too much more to list. At last count, my collection is over 78 gigabytes and quickly approaching 80... and that's just counting the stuff I keep on my hard drive!
You'll notice a reason why I didn't list the sexual stuff here. I want a relationship and I do not mind repeating it. That is why most of the sexual items listed on the side are hard limits and dislikes. I am a very open minded person but I also know what it is I want, love, like, do not want, dislike, and despise.
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As a note, I don't date anyone who says that they're "pansexual." I know such judgmental prejudice angers and annoys some of them... which only encourages me. |
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So it's been a couple of months since my last journal entry here... which I've just deleted to allow for some clarification on what I was trying to say; I don't think it came out correctly the first time. So, let's see if we can't fix that with this go:
In some ways, I do consider myself to be a "Daddy" Dom but let's not get confused about that. I believe that I am a kind and loving but strict man. I'm not going to let my girl get away with everything but I'm not going to be insane about keeping her locked in a dungeon... at least not ALL the time ;) I don't find it so much a matter of balancing the love and Dom sides of myself since they come from the same general source. I want a submissive gal to love and care for, and a large part of that means controlling her.
I don't believe in 24/7 slavery wherein I control every aspect of her life, not unless we've well discussed that after years of living together in a committed relationship. But the exact nature of this control is something that would be deeply discussed with the woman at the start of the relationship, and ideally before it even begins.
As to the whole "Daddy" issue itself: I don't mind the people who are looking for that in a man but I draw the line at extreme regression. In other words, I don't mind sitting down to watch cartoons and do some more childlike activities (after all, I'm a geek who still reads comics, comic books, and watches some cartoons). That said, I firmly believe that these things are taking it too far:
Thumb sucking
Wearing diapers
Age play
And anything else along those lines that raises the red flags
Things that I find perfectly fine, at least unless taken waaay too far:
Cartoons/kids shows/Disney movies
Stuffed animals
More casual and even childlike dress (TO A POINT!)
Enjoying kids foods (mac & cheese, hot dogs, etc.)
To sum it all up, I want a woman more than I want a girl. This goes at least double in public. If you can't pass as an adult in public and aren't mature enough to handle life on your own then we should not be together. That doesn't mean you can't nor shouldn't feel the need for someone to help, guide, control, and complete you. It just means that I couldn't be with someone who isn't mature enough to handle the real world. |
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"Look down... and show... some mercy if you can
Look down... look down... upon your fellow man"
Saw "Les Miserables" twice last week and parts of it are still happily floating through my head. |
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Why is it that almost every woman on claims to be bisexual? Is it just coincidence, a lie, evidence of spammers, or am I simply unaware just how many people are actually bisexual? |
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Just had a break-up with my sub/girlfriend today. Unfortunately, it felt like it had been brewing for a while, and we both knew it. I guess this means that I'm now back on the market, so to speak. |
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| Age: 29 |
| United Kingdom |
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