MizzCrow

Yet more questions! Yes, I'm also on , same username. You can see more of my ... interests, there.

Who is my perfect sub? Someone who is together in real life, but trusts me enough to take them where they need to go, wherever that is. They've given me the wheel. But they own the car. Capice?

Who is my perfect Dom? Someone who likes and respects me, who groks my journey and the destination.  A water brother.  A Daddy.  He won't harm me, I don't need that.  He will dominate sensually, with restraint, discipline and the mind. 

In other words, I really want a male Me, because, well, I have too much Yang chi to sub to another woman adequately. 

In an ideal world? One person.  In reality? I'd be glad to have the set...

Amused.

Yes, I look sort of Amerasian.  I'm not.

I am English, and Scottish, and Irish, and French.

I am German, and Spanish, and Native American.

One of my ancestors was a Selkie.

Another was the first woman in NM territory to own her own cattle brand.

Yet another lived to be 114, born in the late 1700s and died in the early 1900s.

I come from interesting stock.

I'm sturdy, built for pleasure, not for speed.

The scent of Wild will do things to you.  Perhaps it makes you crave something you haven't fully experienced before, teeth on your neck, your belly up.  Maybe it makes you think you can subdue it... but it can only be tamed, never conquered.  Wild is what it is.

There have been questions.

I am a widow, no children.  I have been a nurse for nearly 30 years and I am trained in bodywork, energy work and hypnotherapy. I am generally not an arbiter of pain, nor do I accept pain. My body is a temple and a playground... no vandalism or littering is acceptable. To what level I would accept being dominated is certainly individual based on trust, safety and comfort.  Absolutely no blood sport, physical injury, or excessive play (ie, no fisting).  I use ben was to maintain my tone and I am proud of it.  No point in ruining that with toys or aggression.

But, that is for me.  My body is sacrosanct. 

I am malleable with providing the limits another needs to feel safe and the stimulus needed to experience pleasure.  Again, I am not into endangering my pets.  I am careful to observe and respond when someone gets lost and starts crossing safety lines.  Everything is safe, sane and consensual.  The line where pain becomes torture is subjective, for instance. 

I am an exquisite provider of the mind fuck.  All hypnosis is self-hypnosis, but a good facilitator can provide a heck of a ride.

Most people like scening, and roleplay.  They do not have any idea the amount of time, effort, preparation and care goes into setting up a scene for them, much less the responsibility of a long-term D/s relationship, particularly accepting a slave or pet.  That said, while I might be interested in seeing someone regularly, I do not want a dependent at this time.  Submission in the bedroom is not an excuse for sloppiness in life.  I expect a motivated and eager individual, someone who knows the boundary of discretion.