MizzRaven

I am still open to the idea of a 24/7 FEMALE domestic servant and sex slave---however, right now I'm focused on exploring some other possibilities....I'm ISO of a kindred soul who wishes to be a sub to me in the bedroom, but my equal in other areas; one who does not need my attention and reassurance 24 hours a day; someone I am attracted to who has a size-proportionate body and be willing to explore possibilities of compatibility via email initially.:::::::NO MEN.

I am a youthful looking and acting 41 years old, an androgynous lesbian, 5'5", 165 lbs. I have always been a Domme at heart, but can't seem to make myself be cruel or be okay with inflicting pain or humiliation. And yet, i have an "Artistic Temperament" and require certain conditions and some solitude in order to reach my balance and create. This demeanor has left me too soft for most slaves and too hard for most girlfriends::::::::::::

I've had several long term relationships and have learned a great deal from the mistakes i made in those. What I know is that Compatibility is really the key to mutually satisfying relationships; and that's a large canvas with many colors. I could say I'm a published author, I'm a singer-songwriter, and I like to paint and create art for meditative purposes. But then, those things don't really make or break a relationship—and all of them are things I do alone, so it really is inconsequential to a potential mate. (Unless those things I do are a huge turn on for you, in which case, email me right away…LOL) I could wax poetic about the socially acceptable, interesting and loving things I do and say in order to lure you in, and then as we get to know each other, spring the bad stuff on you and hope you don't run screaming in the other direction:::::::::

I'd like to lay it all out here, so we won't waste too much time discovering that we are not compatible....That said, let me give you some little snippets of information about who I am.//////I would like to travel, have some new experiences, be more social, and am working on my tendency to withdraw. I would like to buy a home within the next few years, complete with a real decor, a "recreation" room in the basement, great furniture, and make it my safe haven, my comfort zone.//// I like to take a problem and "Chew on it 'til the flavor's gone, and then stick it in my hair." ///////I'm financially stable, and do not have to work outside my home. //////I'm intelligent, educated, witty, sometimes intense, often geeky, periodically moody, always passionate.///// Often, I wake up feeling like it just doesn't pay to gnaw the straps off. . .other times I wake with a full tank of creative ideas I want to burn off the minute I get my coffee made.///// I'm a highly creative, often self-absorbed pseudo-agoraphobe.///// Right now, I am spending my money on occasional dinners out, A Total Cable TV package, some old bills, some things i've done without, gifts for others (only if they inspire me to be generous), recording and music equipment, books, computer stuff, art supplies, unnecessary plastic objects. ///// I sometimes forget to shower when i'm alone, but am hygienic when around other people. //////I sleep on an airbed atop my mattress and box springs, because it's so comfy for me, personally.///// I like to compartmentalize things to make myself feel safe, and to bring order to chaos.///// I'd like to spice up my sex life, and get away from the vanilla stuff--some role-play, some kink, some indefinable activity that will make me laugh or send me to the moon.///// I have a sparse but presentable wardrobe, consisting mostly of jeans, a few slacks, a few nice blouses, and pajama-like outfits. You will never see me in a dress, although I don't consider myself Butch by any means (except for my tendency to be a "top.")////// I live in a quaint, peaceful, artistic tourist town, with not a lot of job possibilities for most people, so anyone joining me would have to have the spirit of an entrepreneur, be independently wealthy or have a source of income that did not depend on local job offerings./////// Most of my stuff is in storage in another state, and so I'm currently decorating my apartment in Early American Garage Sale motif. (Oh, and I'm also a bi-lingual illiterate:: I can't read or write in two different languages...:>)

The jury's still out on whether there is any woman South of the Milky Way, who is compatible with me... If you think you might be a prospect, and would like to chat a bit, please drop me a line.