MasquedRonin

Into:
accents,
aftercare,
age play,
agnosticism,
alice in wonderland,
anal sex,
anal training,
asian women,
ass play,
ass worship,
auralism,
back seat action in church parking lots,
bare bottom spanking,
bathing with my lover,
bdsm,
begging,
behavior modification,
being cheeky for the purpose of getting more spankings,
being naked,
being whispered to during rough sex,
belt spanking,
betties (female snowboarders),
biting,
biting the sweet spot where the neck connects to the shoulder,
blindfolds,
blushing,
body service,
body worship,
bondage,
breast spanking,
breast/nipple torture,
breath play,
brown skin,
business suits,
butt plugs,
cathartic experiences,
chastity,
clit spanking,
cock worship,
collar and lead/leash,
collars,
confession,
consensual nonconsent,
cooking,
cooking in the nude,
correct grammar, spelling, and punctuation,
cuddles,
cumming on command,
cunt worship,
d/s,
defilement,
degradation,
discipline,
edge play,
enemas,
erotic hypnosis,
erotic interrogation,
erotic photography,
ethical slut,
ethics,
fear,
female ejaculation,
feminism,
figging,
fingernails gently across my bare skin,
flirting, teasing, and other mental masturbation,
flogging,
formal protocol dining,
getting turned on by rigorous intellectual debate,
glasses,
god/goddess play,
goddess worship,
grooming,
growling,
hair pulling,
hairbrush spanking,
handcuffs,
healthy communicative relationships,
high heels,
humiliation,
humor,
ice cubes,
integrity and honesty,
intelligence,
intelligent slut with an opinion not an attitude,
interrogation,
kinbaku,
leather,
librarians,
lingerie,
maid,
making fun of goreans,
making her cum so hard and wet she is almost embarrassed by the mess,
making home movies,
marquis de sade,
masochism,
master/slave,
masturbation,
middle eastern women,
mind control,
mind fucks,
motorcycles,
muslim women,
mutual masturbation,
nipples,
obedience training,
odaxelagnia,
oral sex,
orgasm control,
otk spanking,
pain,
power,
power exchange,
predator/prey,
pressure points,
proper grammar, spelling, and punctuation,
pussy spanking,
pussy worship,
queening,
riding crops,
rimming,
rope bondage/suspension,
sadism,
sapiosexuality,
scat play,
scent,
seduction,
sensation play,
sensory deprivation,
sensual domination,
service-oriented submission,
serving food,
sex on the altar in church,
sexual objectification,
sexual slavery,
shaving,
shibari,
showering together,
skirts,
snow,
snuggling,
spanking,
speech restrictions,
spiritual bdsm,
squirting,
T/this I/is S/stupid,
taboo,
tactical awareness,
talking dirty,
talking in a sweet voice while you're doing something really mean,
thigh high boots,
toys,
transformation,
tucking into bed,
verbal humiliation and degradation,
vibrators,
watersports,
wax,
whips,
winterwear.

Curious about:
anal hooks,
caging/confinement,
candle wax,
chains,
chakra energy play,
chastity devices,
cock and ball torture,
doctor/nurse play,
electrical play,
electrotorture,
exhibitionism,
fisting,
forniphilia,
human toilet,
martial arts,
military interrogation,
nun/priest play,
nyotaimori,
pinching,
puppy play,
role play,
scat play,
slave tattoos,
toilet play,
transvestism,
water torture,
waterbondage.

Make a "50 Shades of Grey" reference at your peril.

I HAVE A MASSIVE AMOUNT OF BDSM ART (MOSTLY FEMDOM) THAT I AM ALWAYS LOOKING TO TRADE TO INCREASE MY COLLECTION - CONTACT ME IF YOU WANT TO SHARE

Anyone else feel like these profiles just sort of span into one long repetitive blah-blah?

Semantics and semiotics are both personal passions of mine, being a writer and philosopher.  So today we?re going to talk about language and societal roles.  Gather ?round!

Let?s start off with some definitions.

Whore; a prostitute; one who compromises (settles by concession) oneself for money or other gains

Hustler; players who take advantage of less skilled players in money games

Now, already, we can see we have some problems here.  Because it seems a focal point of being a whore is the personal compromise ? the doing of something that one doesn?t necessarily want to do.  I?m forced to disagree with that definition, because in my opinion someone can love to fuck, but when they get paid for it, that?s where it becomes whoring.  At the same time, simply compromising one?s self to acquire capital gains is something most of us do; almost all the jobs I?ve had I?ve considered myself undervalued and doing things I didn?t really want to be doing, but did, because it was paying the bills.  We?re all whores.

But what about the hustle?  It?s been said that all the world is pimps and hos, and there?s some truth to that idea; either you?re macking or getting macked.  But, in the end, a hustler is just another whore, compromising themselves to acquire what they want.  Like whoring, it doesn?t matter if it?s up-front or secret, taking advantage of people is taking advantage of them, even if they?re aware consenting participants.

And all this leads me to something relevant.  I know, you?ve been waiting, knowing I?d tie this into something; it?s how I roll.

It doesn?t matter if you?re a guy dating a girl because she?s hot (but also happens to be a waste of life) or dating a guy because he?s got a sweet whip (but also happens to be a douchebag).  It doesn?t matter if you ask for the gift or just receive it; if it?s a motivator, especially if it?s a primary motivator, then you?re a fucking whore.  I?m not judging; I?m just observing.  I don?t dress like I dress or ride what I ride because I?m not trying to get myself noticed; I?m not immune to this.  But let?s call it what it is.

For the last year, I?ve tried to find any male dominants that require payment/tribute for interaction.  Interestingly, this field is dominated by women, just like other fields out there.  Now, we do get into grey areas here.  What about fetishes like financial domination?  This is a fetish also often held in majority by one side of gender; there?s not too many women out there looking to be controlled financially, at least not in terms of it being a fetish.  Often it?s just seen as something that goes with submission, but it?s also something that would occur in a live-in relationship, not simply to get a phone call or a pair of dirty panties.

So, if you require any sort of compensation to be graced with your presence, I gotta? be honest; that?s about as textbook ?whore? as you get.  It doesn?t matter if you as a whore are sexually served or even provide sexual service; due to the nature of fetishes, that may not even be a real goal of either person involved.  Just because a sexual service doesn?t involve sex doesn?t make it less sexual in terms of its effects on individuals ? this is the very nature of fetish.

Like I said, I?m not here to hate but I do judge based in my observations, not in any moral way just simply in terms of a semantic argument about societal roles.  I realize that lots of guys get off on giving women their money and that a lot of women get off on receiving it, but let?s just be honest about what it all really is.

All you whores take care now.

Welcome to yet another entry in what are quickly becoming My Notorious Journals...

I'm glad people are enjoying what I've written and the amount of hits and messages I've received since I changed my location back to the USA has been uncanny.? If I'm located in Taiwan, two people a week see my profile.? Keep it domestic and I get two pages of mail a day.? But this now explains to everyone who has recently asked why I claim I'm in Colorado when I'm actually not.? I am an American; I will be coming back someday.? Go run a search on every woman in Taiwan.? I'll wait.? ...? ...? ...? See?? Now you get it, don't you?? The reality is that most people on here are from the USA; most of them never look internationally.? So I did what I had to do.? If you have a state you think I'd look good in, please let me know and I?ll ?relocate.?

I had a fun chit chat with a Domme recently (who was from CO; her questions prompted the first paragraph, actually) about submissives and I wanted to share.? In my profile I talk about how difficult it is to find people on here,? and what blows my mind are the limitations people set on themselves.? It's one thing to read "don't contact me if you're not local" or "into TPE" but to go as far as "if you didn't vote Obama, don't message me," I mean...don't you think that's a little much?? Nothing makes me laugh harder than when X or Y politics is a person's passion, but the converse political stance is a hard limit.? Clearly these people know nothing about politics; no system can survive without both elements of change and tradition and if you don't get it, hit me up and I'll explain it.? But I digress.

What my Domme friend and I (btw I talk to lots of Dommes; they're often my best friends on here; get at me, bitches) started to talk about what we like in a sub, and it reminded me of my profiles and other peoples'.? How tough it is to meet people anyway, without so limiting ourselves.? I don't care if you're a Ukrainian trannie looking to become a human toilet - I'd love to talk!? You really don't have to share my interests...at least not all of them.? I like subs with different ideas and with (this is important, ladies)? enough guts to write me when they view my profile.? Feel not afraid.? A one-liner telling me how hot I am is completely acceptable.? As you can tell, I write like a fiend and could be a Hell of a penpal (you should see me talk...ugh...), but let's face it.? Most of who we write, we don't click with; it's the same as people we meet in real life.? This is where pick-up lines in bars originated - time savers!

I respond to every message I get and if I don't, write me again because I was probably just a jackass and forgot.

Almost every event within our lives that we as individuals see as important, as having a profound impact on our lives, possibly even altering our lives entirely, is often disregarded as inconsequential to almost every other person in existence, frequently including even those involved in the event itself.

So it is curious to imagine the events that we as individuals disregard as unimportant or insignificant when, in reality, the moment was actually cataclysmic and we simply did not have the correct perspective to see it.

For all we perceive, we could be heroes to many, and we would never even know.