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Hetero Male Switch, 57,  Redding, California
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The essence

Dom/Switch Fetishist Seeking Female Counterpart/Equivalent
( Never cared for labels
I am tired of fakes flakes and wannabees.

Like what you see? FEmale Switch Type? Inquire within!












Last Online:


 Male Switch



 Willing to Relocate

 6' 4"

 200 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Switch Women

 Lives For:





 Outdoor Bondage




 Role Playing Games


 Auto Racing (Expert)


 Camping (Expert)


 Breast Play

 Canes and Crops


 Local BDSM Community (Expert)

 Foot Worship





 Masks (On Partner)

 Masks (Wearing)


 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Role Playing




 Science Fiction


 Intellectual Discourse

 1950s Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Eighties Music


 Rock Music

 Seventies Music



 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales


 Anal Play

 Body Worship

 Genital Punishment

 Mental Bondage

 Maid/Butler Service


 Sensory Deprivation


 Board Games

 Card Games

 Historical Shows

 TV News

 TV Sports

 Online Auctions






 Country Music

 Folk Music

 Heavy Metal Music


 Pop Music

 Curious About:



 Electrical Play

 Gas Masks

 Rubber Fetish


 Vacuum Stimulation



 Hard Limits:

 Bar Hopping


 Fire Play

 Knife Play

 Needle Play

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Journal Entries:
4/29/2016 9:49:43 AM
Most excellent vid

5/27/2011 11:59:55 AM

It isn't often I run across such a tantalizingly erotic tale of Corseting/Discipline/Punishment,

But if that type of thing excites you as much as it does me then I'm sure you will enjoy "this one". Its short...but SWEET.



3/19/2011 9:31:03 PM

 I ran across this deliciously kinky vid today! I thought it so cool that I had to share it.



10/7/2010 8:49:14 PM
 Ya know what gets me about the "Lives For" Loves ,Likes part of someones profile?

 Is where they put "expert".Last time I checked, people who are "expert" at something are the last ones to talk about it at all...unless you ask them.

4/11/2010 8:47:24 PM
 Wanted; Sadomasochistic type capable of receiving as well as giving!

   R U Real? If so inquire within!

1/27/2010 9:57:08 PM
 I found the coolest video today! If you like scenes like this one...then you "definitely" need to contact me.


1/17/2010 6:41:39 PM
 My ropes are hungry and my paddle is lusty so what in the hell are you waiting for?!!
 You will of course have to be systematicaly heel and corset trained.....

12/16/2008 5:47:02 PM
 Howdy I'm glad you stopped in to perv my pics and check me out. I've been here for over five years and in that time  I've met some very cool people who are indeed genuine and real in this lifestyle. But on the other hand and for the most part what I've encountered here are mostly fakes..liars..pretenders...married players...and wannabes that disappear like a wisp of smoke just as soon as it gets anywhere near real instead of cyber (like talking on the phone?). Despite this I have had a few decent offers and I did meet my last sub on another site like this one but I cant knowingly take up a relationship with a woman who I have no physical attraction to or where there is no "chemistry". I also have no desire to uproot and move to a place where I don't want to live. Where I live now is about as good as it gets and I plan on staying here. I would consider relocating if the scenery was familiar (pacific NW) and the situation was right.
  I also don't write to anyone here anymore ....not first anyhow. It seems that 85% of the time I do it gets ignored. I've said this before and Ill say it again. A man good or bad seems to be a very cheap commodity around these parts. I always thought that if you were one of the good ones instead of the bad ,that good things eventually come to those with patience but that just doesn't seem to happen here. I may check you out. I may look. But I DONT write first.If you decide to drop me a line? I will respond. If you're genuinely interested in me,are real... like both sides of the bdsm fetish lifestyle...and are not hugely fat and or hideously ugly chances are we might just hit it off. As you can see I am not overweight nor do I consider myself unattractive, even for my age.Yes..I'm still looking but I'm not desperate either.  I came to the conclusion that I was either going to write something like this...or permanently delete my profile. I didn't want to shut the door completely so I'm leaving this. I never thought Id have to go fishin in the vanilla world with sites such as this and so many others around for the kinky type I was after,but then again thats what I always did before.
 You see I was around doing bondage and spanking scenes with girls and women  "before" there were PCs...the Internet and sites like this .I never met a female who didn't at least like bondage behind closed doors,or that I couldn't pervert given the time.Not then ...and for damned sure not now. I'm no quitter ,its just that I'm sick to fucking death of playing against a stacked deck. 
 Thanks for reading. And don't let the man in the mask scare ya ....I'm quite congenial. Oh yeah , and thanx for listening to my vent.Hope to hear from ya.
             Lord Hedon

11/23/2008 2:05:01 PM
 I had a most unusual thing happen to me on here recently. After being here for four years and being beyond disgusted with the overall  results,I was an inch away from quitting and deleting my profile.
 And then I received a friend request from this lovely blonde domme lady whom I had befriended on another site ,but had not gotten to know yet.
  Immediate red flags went up because every time I had gotten a friend request  from an attractive young woman before without prior correspondence It has either been from someone with something to 
"sell" or someone false or that I had no interest in knowing altogether.
 So I lowered the guns and gave her a blast.
    Why do you add me without knowing me? Why didnt you write back on the other site after I had added you as a friend there?
  Are you even fucking real? Who are you?

   Needless to say things did not go well after that and she ended up blocking me.
 Feeling a bit remorseful over it all  I contacted her again through a friend and we began talking again.
  Once she understood why I had blasted her in the beginning and once I understood why she had gone about adding me as friend as she did we discovered we had quite a few things in common.
  I came to know her as an aspiring and talented writer. A lady who had overcome a lot of obverse bad and negative things in her life to be what she had become today.
   She had achieved this through sheer determination willpower and hard work.
 Quite admirable qualities in any human being.
   It all made me take a good look at myself and what I could do to also become a better human being and that quitting never gets you anywhere.
   Now if someone you meet here can do all that..I would count that person as a true friend indeed. Still looking though.

10/5/2008 2:00:56 PM
 Im sittin here...watching the Energy Amp 500 at the Talladega Motor Speedway on my 52 inch High Def TV with the 7.1 Dolby turned up eating BBQed chicken breast drinking a good Lager beer  with a  nice fire slowly going in the fireplace thinking to myself...

          Aint Life A Bitch.

9/14/2008 10:58:57 AM
 Today makes four years to the day I joined  I realy dont know what to make of it.Ive often thought about what it would be like to actualy come across a girly girl type more interested in getting a new corset instead of a new tattoo. Im a positive thinker by nature...and I still think theres one out there!

9/6/2008 7:39:13 PM
 I believe that if you're realistic in what youre searching for that sooner or later ...youll find it. I refuse to believe that there isnt a reasonably attractive switch lady somewhere out there who cant use a good man around the place.

8/8/2008 12:55:04 PM
 Hmmm I swear its on days like this that I feel like doing all day intricate rigging a flying spread eagle (thats a suspension tie).
  Now wheres a tall slender big boobed bondage lover when a fella needs one?

6/30/2008 12:37:30 PM
I just turned the big five O today. Still kickin! 

6/29/2008 12:08:46 AM
 Imagine...meeting someone so in tuned into who you are and what you are all about that you get instantly turned on by the mere thought of them.
 Im of the mind that things like that can happen.


4/5/2008 4:43:21 PM
Wow...what a cool day out doing yard sales..I scored a black 8 foot single 8 plaiter too!  :) Who sez you cant find kinky stuff! *G*

3/15/2008 10:49:21 AM
 Ahhh spring is in the air ..! The most memorable scene I ever did was with my last sub outdoors. I tied her wrist to a short spreader bar and then overhead to a large branch of a tree. Ill leave the rest up to your devious imagination......

3/6/2008 11:08:56 PM
 After all but giving up and leaving for good due to the bullshit and the players I'm back due to the actions and kind words of some very good, very real and very "FEW" women folk in this lifestyle on this site who actually care about men. To them heartfelt thanks.
   I'm still very reluctant to write first...I may look....but you dropping me a line or two is the best way to get to know me ...been burned way too many fucking times. I wear my hood in my new pics not so much as to appear a scary bastard but more as to leave no doubt as to whom and  what I'm all about. I'm not a self serving sadist.. Im just me *<<wicked grin>>*.  LH

1/14/2008 11:52:12 AM
 Its sooooooo nice to be home! Ill not be traveling to Fl again in the near future thats for damned sure.

1/1/2008 6:01:07 PM
 Hmmmmm ahhh well...still in Fla  Jax ta be axact.Glad the hollidays r over (allmost) who knows? I might even encounter someone real in this lifestyle here before its go home time instead of CYBER FLAKES! Im starting to wonder if theres one single female in this state interested in meeting a slightly used bondage master with a nice but somewhat devious disposition? I did however meet a luscious young fetish model along the way that I wont have the privelege of working with due to good old wrong time and geography.What a god damned cool vacation!

12/13/2007 12:58:42 PM
 Its a small world when it comes to us folks in the bdsm d/s fetish lifestyle. I wish there were more bigger thinkers and less small minded .It would also be cool if there were more of the real true people genuine of heart on this site instead of the fakes the flakes the non lifestylers the wannabes and the fantasizers (who dissapear quick if it gets anywhere near real instead of cyber) or the money grubbers. Looks like I get a break from the seemingly unending bullshit here. Off to Florida in a few more days ..YAYY!

9/2/2007 9:26:31 PM
For some reason...I came across a sub who thoroughly enjoyed intricate rope bondage...who just by the sight of her made me want to do some real intense bondage for starters. Is there a trigger for a certain type?

9/1/2007 5:55:15 PM
Today is a good day.I went to a munch last nite amongst folx in my area who are in the lifestyle and even though there was only the host,his slave ,me and a male sub maybe not so sure about things who showed up? Before it was over we had talked about many things ..identified with one another,knew we werent alone, supported each other...and it was COOL. Im still on a high here ..not because it was my first munch, but to realize that there are so many others out there as a whole who enjoy the same things.

                    Lord Hedon

8/31/2007 2:48:52 PM
I'm kinda happy today..I just scored a badly needed power amp at a moving sale for my"older but better" audiophile grade stereo system. I've heard a lot about analogue VS digital, but nothing to me sounds better or has the presence of a tube type amplifier coupled with a good pre amp ,EQ , a killer turntable and..a mint condition double live LP vinyl record of your favorite recording artist.
 Before the days when they "ruined" your home(Im not talking in your car ..they did real good there) listening pleasure by phasing out pressed vinyl records for those CDs? You would pick up the album ..look at the pictures on what it had to say about the person or persons who recorded it..and put it on you're turntable. You physically and mentally interacted with it a book. Now? You get this little piss ant disc......take it out of its little tray..strain yer eyes to read what it says.. slide or set it  into this little slot and then hear it play on all this so called fantastic Dolby whatever playback....and it sounds in in not the same as that warm ,rich sound you get by sitting next to them in the recording studio when it happened or in front of the stage while they played you would on a good old long playing ..10 inch record album....playing on an old Technics turntable...plugged into old two channel tube type amplifier.

8/23/2007 7:40:17 PM
Ya know...Im starting to wonder....wonder if on planet friggin earth that there actualy might be a woman who is a true switch...or slave who is single as in not over.. 45 not hugely fat and or hideously ugly who likes extreme fetish and creative but safe bdsm. Oh ! and heres the good part! That actualy wants to go and live with a good MAN.. as in ALPHA MALE instead of a another FEMALE....or COUPLE....and is SERIOUS AND REAL???!! At this point? To meet such a creature around these parts would be a treat indeed!

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