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2014 Update: Since 2014 is coming soon, adding a totally blunt honest preface to my profile. I am NOT seeking anything beyond friends. For those that read and don't understand what friends are - we are talking PLATONIC friends... I'm not interested in what's in your pants, and my clothes are staying on. Hope that's crystal clear. Just in case it's not, I do NOT want a lover, a FWB, a sexual service sub, a fuck toy, etc. I am currently involved with special someone in my life (tbearfuzzy, owned and soon to be collared) that can tend to all my needs in that arena.
I am NOT a sadist... I am a sensual dominant. Don't waste your time in approaching me to "abuse" you, I have no interest in that. No I am not seeking anything other than friendship.

Well then, why am I here? be completely honest, meeting new like-minded friends, connecting with existing friends, intellectual conversation, alleviating boredom, looking at pictures (I'm a complete sucker for great arms/shoulders, and have a special place in my heart for military folks).....not to mention some of the profiles really make me LOL. I'm apt to make friendly comments, or give compliments on profiles when I see something worth complimenting... that doesn't mean I want to own you. I'm an honest person and give credit when credit is due.

As far as online:
I hate posers, self proclaimed "Dominates" just make me ill. People, the word is "DominANT" - DominATE is a verb, not a noun. People who approach me who want an online session don't waste your time. If I can't feel flesh I get bored. My play time is much too limited to waste it with BS on the phone or typing a fantasy story to some mystery person at the other end of cyberspace.

I do not judge others, don't judge me by your kink standards.
The constant I live by in to day life, is a code of honor and ethics I expect in both friends, and anyone involved with Me. RACK/SSC - honest, trustworthy, respectful, disease, addiction, and DRAMA free, and a level of maturity that can understand the reality of the situation, communicate their limits, have intellectual discussions, etc.

I am not the "meet and beat" type. People who are in My life as family members, collared, or "play partners", for lack of a better term, tend to remain in my life as friends with or without any type of BDSM activities.

Drop a note if you have any questions or wish to chat. I'm an open and honest person and I like to make friends in the lifestyle even if there is no interest in play.

Be well-and thank you for reading all the way to the end :-)

1/20/2014 9:25:31 AM

This coming saturday - BNC (Bondagenight Chicago) is having their first party of 2014 woot!  hoping the weather is not crap so I can get out and get my kink on :D :D :D





12/28/2013 8:44:05 PM

A Veteran is someone who at one point in their life wrote a blank check payable to the United States of America for an amount up to and including, their life. That is beyond honor and there are way too many people in this country who no longer remember that fact.

Copy and paste this to your journal if you are a Veteran,... know a Veteran, Love a Veteran, or Support the Troops! May God Bless Them All


*I am not personally a Veteran, but many I know and love dearly are, and I'm blessed to have them in my life, and couldn't be more proud of them.- Lizy*

8/16/2013 3:51:12 AM

BEST BIRTHDAY EVER!!!  just say'n.  :) 

8/9/2013 3:51:48 PM

For any newbies that are in Chicago - Registration closes 24 hours before the event (that's tomorrow - Sat - noon).


Cross Posting in case anyone is interested.


A lot of kinky folk lead a double life of sorts: a public and professional life with our family, friends, and coworkers, and a secret life cloaked in shadows. But we're not superheroes with secret identities - we're kinky people. There's a commonly held belief among us kinky folk that to come out of the kinky closet would mean ruin, to careers, to families, to custodial situations, and more. And to make matters more complicated: even if you decided you wanted to, just how on earth do you come out as "kinky?"

Today, we'll take a cold hard look at some of the issues surrounding coming out, including where risks are, what it means to come out, and some ideas of how to do it. This day is for anyone interested in this question, from the curious, to those presently wrestling with the question of whether this is something they really want to change in their lives.


Every attendee must register for any given Rough Crowd. To register, just go to the eventbrite link below and follow along. No exceptions: you must be registered for the event to attend. Deadline is always noon the day prior.

8/9/2013 1:16:12 PM

Black Beat Chicago munch tonight, and Rough Crowd on Sunday - Hoozah!!



4/21/2013 10:44:19 AM

April 27th "A Taste of Kink" at the LRA in Chicago.... check out their post for more information.



You don't need to be a member to attend, but you do need to RSVP directly to them for the address and time.

4/8/2013 6:53:17 PM

Cross posting from the 'other' fetish site - FYI - Friday


This is the presentation/roundtable you don't want to miss! Whether you're new to bdsm and kink or more experienced your presence is welcome! Please join Black BEAT Chicago (BBC)

Friday, April 12, 2013 for our educational munch and play party.

3/16/2013 12:45:34 PM

Tonight!   Monthly party - check site for details.





11/21/2012 9:45:21 AM

YAY clean up mail time, what better way to spend a humpday....  LOLz  wishing all a happy holiday!

7/4/2012 6:39:16 AM

Wishing everyone a Happy and safe Independence Day Holiday :)  and also sending extra love and a special Thank You to all our Military guys and gals.....



5/14/2010 5:30:02 PM
Woot! Party Sat 5/15!   I'm sooooo there!
4/13/2010 8:31:19 AM
made the cover of this ezine this month

2/5/2010 9:44:47 AM
I was interviewed by Fixe Magazine - the interview can be seen on the following link (if CM lets it post)
1/24/2010 7:50:26 AM
OMG will winter EVER end?  if it's not below zero it's raining or snowing and the roads suck too bad to do anything.  Hoping to get out to the dungeon parties this month, but if the weather bites then it's a no go yet again.  I swear I'm just beyond bored, beyond frustrated, and I've been hibernating soo damn long I'm getting antisocial... *sigh*.. Well there's my rant for the day.  I swear,  once my kids are in college I'm sooooo done with winter in the midwest.
11/15/2009 5:47:45 PM
Dungeon party the 21st!~  Check out for more info.

See you there!
8/10/2009 5:19:23 PM
Xena is hosting a dungeon party at the continuum this Saturday!  if you want more info check  site.

Miss Lizybel
7/15/2009 5:31:41 PM
Phoenix House is having a party on July 17th - email me and I can pass the info along.

Xena is having her monthly dungeon party Saturday July 18th - details posted on

7/3/2009 6:35:56 AM
Wishing everyone in the US and all US Citizens outside the US a very happy Independence Day!!!  Remember - WE the all encompassing and unbiased.

Too bad the masses of society are closed minded for the most part.

Just my two cents worth....
6/5/2009 7:49:48 AM
My Partner and I are very much looking forward to our Costa Rica trip next week!  Wootz!  Nekked in the pool in the sun what could be better?  Tho we will definately return in time for the Continuum dungeon party on June 20.

So far it's shaping up to be a rockin great summer!

4/2/2009 8:13:45 PM
Link to a great resource for the Chicago happenings.

Pansexual BDSM Events in the Chicago Area
12/31/2008 8:27:07 AM
Wishing every O/one a safe and Happy New Year! 
4/2/2008 1:58:18 PM
I have found a new form of torture.... my twins came home from school and in music class they are learning how to play the recorder.  I am not a massochist, if I were the remainder of the school year would be much more tolerable. OMG I have a new respect for music instructors for young children....I'm off to find motrin...or ear plugs.... or both...
3/22/2008 5:15:06 PM
Some have asked why I list as a Domme if I am in a relationship and not as a "Couple". 

The reason is my other half (TheDragon on CM) also seeks submissives but we have different needs.  While we would prefer a situation where we could play as a couple, that may not be feasible depending on the submissives we choose to play with and who express an interest in getting to know us better.

Trust, communication, comfort level, etc are all so crucial to a scene we never force anyone into anything they don't wish to participate in.  Safe, Sane, Consensual always.
3/20/2008 4:11:25 PM

Spring has sprung... and I'm coming out of hibernation and will be on line more.... Looking forward to reconnecting with friends whom I haven't spoken with.

Be well-
Miss E

6/11/2007 6:22:46 PM
We'll be on vacation until after June 18th so I'm not ignoring people just busy as hell.

Miss E
10/10/2006 4:10:14 PM
Mistress Xena of Chicago will be hosting a Fetish Night at Spot 6 on October 21.  You can check her my space profile or her profile here for more info.  There will be a Masquerade Party and a Fashion Show (yes, I have been asked to be in the Fashion Show too!).

If you're around and over 21 - come on out for some kinky fun!

Be well,
Miss E
9/11/2006 4:36:22 PM
HEAD ON... apply directly to the forehead

HEAD ON... apply directly to the forehead HEAD ON... apply directly to the forehead
HEAD ON... apply directly to the forehead
5/12/2006 9:02:11 AM
TheDragon does not get on the computer much so He has asked Me to look around for a playmate.  We are a poly house with a Dom/Domme-switch relationship.  TheDragon seeks a bisexual GENETICALLY FEMAL slave or submissive.

We are devoted to fostering an honest, trusting house with open communication and a solid foundation of friendship.  We never jump quickly into anything that begins with an email hello.  We have both been active in the lifestyle for quite some time and believe that there has to be a "fit" for all members or it will fizzle out quickly and leave people hurt (not the good kind of hurt).

If you are interested in learning more about us, please send me an email.
TheDragon and Miss E (aka Lizybel)
4/15/2006 8:27:05 AM
Wishing E/everyone a wonderful holiday weekend!
4/12/2006 11:34:04 AM
you know, it's funny. I updated my profile and wrote some key facts about my life  but it's amazing to me how many people don't read.

*just venting*
4/2/2006 8:46:06 PM
Figured I'd clarify a few things because questions seem to keep popping up.

1. Yes, I am in a RT Relationship with my Partner/Dominant.  I AM a collared Dominant/Switch.

2. Yes, I live with him.

3. Yes, on occasion (read incredibly selectivly) we have play partners.

4. NO we do not play alone.  He is straight, I am bi.
3/30/2006 8:04:49 PM
Well it's about time that I update - Life is still relatively chaotic.  A while back We released our female submissive and that was difficult for all of us, but the right thing to do for her.  she has a lot of personal "growing up" to do and she can't do it while collared.

We've been acitvely shooting and updating our online photography portfolio and we've launched a pseudo e-zine called BENT.  If you'd like to see any of our work, drop me a note and I'll give you the info. 

Hugz 'n Spanks
5/7/2005 3:00:43 PM

Grrrrr   ....   Wanted to drop a certain someone a little hello note but I'll be damned if I can remember his name on collarme...and since AIM won't let me send him a mail unles he's on too... so Giovanni my new Italian buddy.... if you happen to read this, ding me a message so I have your email addy....
4/7/2005 7:47:27 AM
Greetings and salutations!  Figured I may as well write here since for some reason this update-your-profile thingie seems to take just a tad more than 72 hours.... more like a week....  anwhooo  I decided to send out a personal hello to my friends I've met here who have entered my life RT - It's wonderful having people actually be real (and wonderful)!  

To Our dear sweet slavegirl your visit is bringing us incredible joy.  We are so lucky to have met you and can not wait to slip Our collar around your neck RT.

To tomboy and blksub (you know who you are)  The Dragon is making his list, and checking it twice..... I am drywalling (guess that's why he's the boss).

Hugs and kisses to you all!
3/17/2005 8:10:05 AM
Well hello there and a mighty Happy St. Patty's Day.... Are ye wearin' the green?

3/10/2005 6:06:32 AM

So Happy It's Thursday..... a warm hello to my fellow kinksters  :)

 Age: 28
 Vienna, Virginia