Spent most of my life as vanilla. Now looking to experience all I can, I can't say I don't like it if I have never tried it. Husband does not feel comfortable with the more extreme. He has given me permission to find the right person/persons to basically put me through the ringer. Looking to build trust and strong connection. Can travel and perfect situation would be to stay with Dom for up to 3 months at a time as husband travels for work.