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I love men. I love the way they look, how they smell, how they carry themselves. I have found I really crave the company of a man. I desire to serve and worship. I do not feel complete without it. I miss having a real man, next to me, above me, on top of me. Looking for the man of my dreams... my dark, carnal, submissive dreams.

Submissive, baby girl, kitten

Tongue in cheek, cheeky brat

Looking for that mind meld

Dominant, Word Master

Who wants to play


Intelligence and mental control make my stomach go all fluttery. I love the delicious submission that comes from a certain look, or a few well spoken words, from a dominant man. I am basically a romantic good girl looking for my one dominant partner. I am not in this for an easy hookup. It is not submission to me without a deep connection.

Latest Amazon haul. I confess, I'm a book whore, um..., collector. Yeah, thats it. Some fun facts about me: Yes, I enjoy foot worship, both giving and receiving. I have some other atypical fetishes. I'm a sadist, very experienced with the psychological and interested in exploring the physical aspects more. I enjoy topping with the right person. And the right toppings on said person, mmmm. There are lots of other things I'm into, so think of my interests as highlights. You have to open it up to see the full menu.
2/14/2024 6:16:06 AM

I live to please you and enhance your life. I love to give you pleasure. I am an adventurous and imaginative lover who cannot get enough of you. And it's still not enough. It will never be enough to compete against the perfect image in your mind of her. The one who is none of those things so you seek me out in the dark.

1/28/2024 8:19:07 AM

So many "submissives" list all the things they want done to them in their profile, the ways that they will be dominated. This laundry list is not submissive at all. Submission is giving of yourself to the other: for his use, for his pleasure, to improve his life. Hand your list to a dominatrix. 

10/31/2023 11:23:51 AM

Will I relocate? Of course! I would go to the ends of the earth for my right match. However, location is inversely proportional to the quality and connection of that match. Somewhere warm with an ocean to swim in is my preference. So if you live in Bumfuck, Timbuktu, we'd better have kinks, conversation, and chemistry perfectly aligned. 

7/8/2023 12:50:54 PM

I want my ride or die. If you're not the kind of person who's going to do what you say and be there when things get hard, don't even bother saying hello. I put my whole heart into a relationship, and you should too. 

7/5/2023 8:28:05 PM

If you have to sublimate yourself, is that the right relationship to have? Is that really choosing the right one?

5/24/2023 1:06:12 AM

So for my birthday, the guy I love told me I should find someone else. 
I knew the writing was on the wall, but I just wanted to believe he really was that busy, even though I know if you really want to be with someone, you will find a way. 
It would have been so much easier if he had never said he loved me. Why do guys lie about that? We could have just kept it light hearted and kinky. I guess some people just can't stop lying. 

I'm pretty heartbroken. If I disappear, I'm licking my wounds. 

5/24/2022 3:28:15 AM

Really just looking for my one. No, I don't want to be a third in your relationship to your primary, your non-kink girlfriend, or your clueless wife that you cheat on. 

3/23/2022 4:23:47 AM

FYI: Not only are journals working again, YAY, but if you only want to change the search feature items, like age or location, not any text or pictures, the update is instant. 

Pet Peeve: Colored backgrounds! Hard to read, or even blacked out. Antithetical to easy search. 

4/21/2018 1:45:46 PM
Can you actually be addicted to love? Going through withdrawal when your partner is not around?
2/18/2018 5:03:12 AM
Wouldn’t it be funny if everyone only posted their O-face photos? Hee hee.
7/20/2017 4:32:02 PM
Things I have questions about:
Why all the car selfies?
Why so many doms with cats? They're wrecking the crazy cat lady stereotype. 

Not really a question, but wishing BDSM was more mainstream so someone would do a study correlating dominants and sailors. I'm guessing it's the ropes, but there are so many sailors in the bunch. I want a hard percentage.

 Age: 30
 Chas, South Carolina