Kissmeharder

Wow, it's been a couple months. A lot has changed these days. I'm currently in a fantastic relationship with a wonderful man. We're both poly, though we don't have secondaries at present. Things are just...spectacular. Couldn't be happier.

If you want to talk, just leave me a message. :* Take care, all!

Hello everyone! I have to say, so far I've met some pretty interesting people here, which was my whole purpose of joining in the first place. However, I find a need at this time to lay down a few very specific rules. Please go through them, and if you are simply incapable of abiding by them...save yourself and me the trouble, please? I'm a busy woman, and I don't like having my time wasted...nor do I assume that your time is any less valuable than my own. So, without further adeu...


First and foremost...I will reiterate that I am looking for friends only at this time. I do not have time for anything more complex or that requires more work than what I can provide in getting to know a friend. If you are looking for something more intimate and think that because you are just so amazing, so wonderful, so sexually masterful that I will have no choice but to fall under your complete control and change my mind...don't let my refusal to comply bruise your ego. I am simply looking for friends, and that's my call. Take it or leave it.


Secondly, if you are incapable of using words that consist of more than two syllables, if you have nothing of any real substance to talk about outside of sexual encounters or fantasies, or if you are incapable of reading and have therefore chosen to completely skip this hopefully helpful guide along your way to finding what you seek...please don't message me! If I'm going to take the time to read messages, I would like to at least read messages that don't cause my IQ to drop by a point or two. "Hi" does not qualify as a message. Immediate discussion of your personal fantasy...also not a message. Why would I care about your fantasy if I don't know you? If you do not understand this, send me a message asking me to explain, and I will certainly break it down for you in the simplest way I can.


Thirdly, I have no intention of altering my current relationship state for anyone. I love both of the men I'm involved with, and again...if that is your intent, don't let my refusal to comply bruise your ego. You might be the most awesome person on Earth...but you won't compare to what I already have because to me, there is no competition. I will be your friend, and as long as you understand the boundaries, we're good.


Last but not least...HONESTY. If you lie to me, you will not get a second try. I have a zero bullshit tolerance policy. If I even so much as catch a whiff that someone's trying to shovel a load of manure into my rose garden, I'll release the dogs and have you running faster than a back alley tabby cat. No excuses, no bull, no lies...either be real or be GONE. I don't have time for weak people who can't face reality.


So there you are. Hopefully, those of you who do intend to leave messages and take the step to make a friend will realize that, despite what may seem like a gruff, strong-willed exterior...I am very multi-layered and worth the time to become acquainted with. However, I will always be above-board and tell you exactly what I'm looking for and where things are, so you be the same.


Have a wonderful day, ladies and gentlemen. Be well.