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Been away for awhile but I am back to browse and see whats new. Not looking for anything long term at this time. Just got out of a 7 year relationship that was too vanilla for my tastes. Looking to scratch an itch.
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In the midst of passion my mind enters a state of ecstasy stronger than any drug. I want to experience that feeling with my lover, a kindred spirit. We will use each others hearts and bodies to take flight and soar higher and higher.
I am an enigma wrapped in a mystery wrapped in a leopard loincloth. I love alternative art, music and film. I am tall and told I look younger than my age, very into non-mainstream music and movies. I prefer wearing eye liner to a baseball cap. Sweet, funny and passionate but with a slightly dark side.
Although I am listed as Dominant I do believe that I have a switch side I might possibly like to explore with the right woman. I dont like to limit myself to preconceived notions because with the right person I believe that anything is possible! Having said that, my relationships have mostly tended to not be of the Vanilla type with myself always in the dominant position ever since my first girlfriend when I was 19 years old. During an early lovemaking session with her, I just began tying her up with her stockings (with her permission of course!). I have no idea how I even thought of doing it, it just came by instinct to me and it was only looking back years later that I realized how I was. So, quite frankly, I am a natural dominant and not someone trying it on for size. Ive been this way for years and I know myself rather well. I am not really looking for a 247 masterslave type of thingper se. I have tried that before and it was very intense but not sure if it was for me. Keeping things private and waiting for those special times makes it more exciting, even if those special times are every day! I am a polite, funny and modest guy. Although I consider myself more of a leader than a follower, I am not, however, the cocky, pushy arrogant type of fellow. But dont let my gentle nature fool you when I am alone with the right woman, anything is possible. Overall, though, Id call myself a gentle dom. I am just as interested as getting inside your head as other places. If you are looking for a guy who acts arrogant or bullying and thinks thats what being a dom is about then I am not the one for you. I am more into light bondage and mental control than real pain. And I think that mental bondage, teasing and the spoken word are as powerful (if not more so) than any straps or paddles. (Although those can be pretty fun too!) I am very sensual and looking for a woman who is also affectionate. I am very personable and also like connecting with people onCollarspace just for fun so if you are thinking of writing please dont be shy!
I have a LOT of love to give.
My Ideal Person I am looking to meet someone with similar interests and see where it goes from there. I think its just as important to have things in common other than just sexual tastes if a couple is going to be more than just lovers. Not that theres anything wrong with that, mind you. I also think that you can never have too many friends as well.
I would never do anything to her that I wouldnt allow to be done to myself. And thus I am not personally into the humiliation thing or into giving pain beyond some spanking and lighter things. Having said that, I do have a very nice riding crop that is waiting to be dusted off! I love kissing, light biting, hair pulling... I am very oral and appreciate a woman who is the same. I want to tie her naked to my bed and make her feel like a real woman. Also I find the idea of exploring the grey areas between what is commonly defined as dominant and submissive quite interesting if one orders their sub to dominate them back then who isreallyin control? And any true dom knows that he (or she) is as much being controlled by the sub as they are in control. And, in the end, isnt it all about losing control? Giving oneself over to the delirium of ecstasy? And I am certainly not ever adverse for some good ol Vanilla sex sometimes (just to remember what its like!).
Also, for me, a sense of humor is a must! And if you like dogs and horror movies that couldnt hurt either.
Life is too, too short to not live it to its fullest. If you read the poem I wrote in myjournal it pretty much sums up how I feel. I believe that every 2 people have their own special connection and so I prefer to enter into the intimate side of a relationship without any specific preconceptions. It can make things very exciting! We all have our tastes which we base on our past experiences among other things. But the beautiful part of intimacy to me is not knowing what is going to happen and letting yourself run free into the abyss.
I dont really follow all the Ds typing lingo because I walk to my own beat. In the past I have been drawn to sweet, intelligent women with a submissive nature in their private life. When I sense that a woman is sexually submissive she instantly becomes 100 times more alluring to me. A sub is life to me. You make my heart pound and my blood race. You give me a reason to exist. Bless you all.
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tail of a girl
She’s the bravest girl, in this moment all unafraid
In the biggest of metallic machines she only sees the shiny glossy excitement
In the untamed beasts the soft fur and sweetness rules
Threats of violence imagined to others, Death has not conceived
Because darkness only inspires curious exploration and
Explosions’ dangerous fires of news is noticed only dazzling lights and colors
The threats screamed to masses terrified fall on her ears interprets funny sounds and laughs and laughs.
1 month she is today
Still fresh as the purity of dawn and
not yet begun to sink in the system shithole
which has dragged us all down by our entrails.
Child, can we learn from you?
Straighten out your tail from ‘tween your legs
Stand and face the dark, the light, the Sun
You should only be afraid not to love.
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2 HEARTS BOUND BY LOVE
2 hearts bound, connected by the ropes tied in the throws of loves' kindred collision
Beating together, speeding as if a race towards ecstasy's birth
The Dominant: leads with pretense, but inside controlled by the driving passion brought forth from his lover's surrender
The Submissive: Succumbs to the will of dark love's insistence, drowning in waves of warmth and burning
2 lovers connected by the mysterious umbilical of relentless passion
They know not whence it came, nor care
Blooming, burning, exploding with a growth each new time the subtle gaze erupts in a frenzied collision of
rope
chains
tape
wire
cuffs
ties
cloth
rubber
leather
glue
Smells mixing of perfume, tears, sweat, sweat, sweat
holding, pushing, pulling, clawing
hair, skin, tongues, lips
Senses overturned as 2 minds intertwined rise to a new realm
and 2 hearts pounding, pounding, pounding
the beats of love
the beats of lust
beating together
They are happy again. |
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a poem for the broken hearted
There is a light inside, inside of you
The light of your love reflected infinite
By the mirrors on the walls of your soul
Encasing it in until magnified, the light so bright within
The light is love, and it overwhelms
A deathly scare is there but
You don’t have to be afraid anymore
You just open up your door
And let it out about
You don’t have to be afraid anymore
You don’t have to be afraid anymore
All through the years you’ve tried to hide the fear
By bottling tears
With hatred that consumes you
Until you don’t know where to go
And love is lost again, another path
You’re down around, around, around
It seems the same again, again
All of that must change before it slays you
You don’t have to be afraid anymore
You don’t have to be afraid anymore
There is a light inside, inside of you
I know it’s true, it’s true
I see it deep within your soul
I’ve seen it because I can see inside you
I was just the same before
In pain the same I understand
I’m just a man
But the freeing magic you brought’s touched deep inside me
I pray to God each day
there was a way that you could feel inside my heart
Then you’d know to be apart’s
A death that only love can render
Unleash your heart, give it a chance for the light of love
To touch
‘cause life fleets by
So you must try to fly and fly and fly
Or love will die walled up inside us
You don’t have to be afraid anymore
You don’t have to be afraid anymore |
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SWEET S U B M I S S I V E
Sweet submissive
I am drawn to that which is buried deep inside you
your dark magic secret sex
The strange desire dwelling within you / pulling out of me
provoking me to act the animal with you
playing with you, toying as the lion doth his prey before inevitable
Savoring each hot breathed sound with a delight not known existed before
Kissing each part of you as you writhe
Limbs tied, spread apart
So open to me, your body, your heart
You compel me to steal what gifts you put in front of me
given me purpose
a provocation of my lust by your submissive state
And so I must take what now is mine by right
as I am crave to devour you completely
This fuse you have lit, my love, is a beautiful force you have inflicted upon me
merely by being that who you are
Knowing each secret of the other
By your willingness I now must have you
For having kissed your soft lips that responded so passionately even not by choice
And having tasted your skin as it stretched bound beneath me
I now am an addict to your shadow love
A sparked chemical explosion inside our hearts, throughout our souls and between our legs
Holding down
tying up
tearing off
pulling close
pinch, bite, lick
Deep, smothering kisses you must surrender to
Infinite ideas of lust replay for us like the never-ending strip of Möbius
shooting through our minds as actions quickly follow
Arching back, reaching further
and still we need MORE
Seeing you move against restraint (motions uncontrolled, this I know!)
calls forth the side of my lust eclipsed from lightness
Beckoning that I repeat, again and again, leading our dance of ecstasy
Forever, forever, forever...
And if eternal I could, I'd touch you far inside
Us flying high together
Waves of magic, each stronger then before
Only one being for each makes it happen
because we've touched each others souls
and are bonded for eternity
this we cannot deny
Sweet, sweet submissive you have made me take you
Your total release completes my spirit and fills my entire being with love
And although my surface power overwhelms thee,
reality sees it is I who am yours completely, though you mayn't comprehend
For you have caged my heart and soul
and without you I am nothing. |
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I think that it took me many years to realize how drawn I was to women with a sexually submissive side. That is not to say these women were "submissive" in their personalities necesarily. Just their passionate side. And I really think there was something magical and mysterious there, something hidden inside them that drew me like the proverbial moth to the flame. I wouldn't have believed it was possible years ago but looking back over my life now I am sure of it. I believe people have a "secret chemistry" that they may not even be aware of. It cannot be explained scientifically or psychologically. Only the artists, poets and music makers can try.
Sweet submissive, when I am near you my heart races and all thoughts escape my mind but one. And you can guess what that is!
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I am really interested in meeting women with whom I can share common interests with outside of the bedroom too. I am absolutely nutso about art, music and film. Most of what I like is off the beaten path so-to-speak. I am hoping to meet people with a big interest in horror and exploitation movies and a love for music, particularly old school punk, sixties rock, old blues and r&b, and movie soundtracks from the '60s and '70s. I think it is important to have things in common and be able to share those things with a kindred spirit. I think a good relationship can grow out of that into something meaningful and less superficial. I mean we ALL have similar interests when it scomes to s-e-x or we wouldn't be here, right? So,... what else do you like? |
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| Age: 45 |
| Fairfield County,
Connecticut |
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