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About kissmecuffme
I do not do random sex with strangers. I am not interested in a long distance relationship. I will not do internet d/s. And I sure as hell will not pay tribute. While I am happy to play housewife in a long term relationship, I am not a slave. Outside of the bedroom I will be a full partner and have full rights to make my own decisions.
As a human being, I am always in a state of flux as I grow and evolve, in not just my tastes and preferences but as who I am at my core. The parts about myself that I do know, is that above all else, I am a Brat. I enjoy being a Brat, it is fun. I don’t plan on stopping being a Brat any time soon. When I say Brat I do not mean I am a disrespectful snot who makes huge scenes in public to embarrass who I am with. That's not bratty, that's just being a bitch. When I say I am a Brat it means I am playful, mischievous, a little imp. I will dance up to the line, but never cross it, and am very conscious of not taking things Too Far. I'm playful, I like to have fun and laugh.
To be clear, I will test you, especially in initial contact. I want a dom who can handle me in all my moods. Someone who is intelligent, patient, who knows the difference between dominant and domineering. You can bet your ass I am going to ask questions about who you are, what you are interested in, what the dynamic is you are seeking. Can't handle that? Don't message me. Dancing around the questions just makes me think you have something to hide or are playing games and in no way serious. The more you dance the more direct I will get. Don't like it? Find someone else.
Right up there with being a Brat is that I am a Masochist. I lurve pain. It makes me melt into delicious puddles and purr. However I will add the caveat of just because I greatly enjoy pain does not mean I enjoy all forms of pain or manner of inflicting it, and the amount of pain I enjoy is directly proportional to the amount of warming up is done. Start beating the shit out of me with absolutely no prep work and I get cranky and end the scene. I also have a primal side that likes to come out and play, provided I like you.
In normal every day life, I'm all over the place. I used to game quite a bit, but have slowly grown out of that. While it is fun to play the occasional video game, it isn't an all consuming time sink. I read quite a bit, preferring Sci Fi or Fantasy. I also spend time writing my own stories. I can be geeky, and enjoy superhero movies and Big Bang Theory. I find psychology and sociology fascinating, though I am nothing more than an amateur in those fields. I'm an artist, with watercolor being my preferred medium, and make jewelry. Beyond that I also enjoy cooking and experimenting with new recipes (even if they sometimes end up failing). Nothing is more flavorful than cooking with veggies or herbs fresh picked from my garden.
So, I realize that giving my list of things I will never agree to is probably beneficial for everyone around and can avoid some awkward conversations.
My No-No List aka Hard Limits
- Scat/urine play
- intentional blood draw and/or blood play of any kind
- permanent mutilation of any kind
- choking/breath play (seriously, you will trigger an epic panic attack)
- rape scenes
- beastiality
- diapers/baby play
- needles
- degredation
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