HollywoodExecDom

Male Dominant, 44, saskatchewan

Male Switch, 35, toronto

Female Submissive, 41

Two things: 1) Shoot me if I say something cheese-ball like "I'll make all your dreams come true." First, I won't, because I'm working on my own. Second, if you want all your dreams come true, date a genie. Plus, anyone else see irony in Doms in fly over states using the line "I'll make all your dreams come true"? You better own at least a private plane (or netjet subscription) to make that statement - or else you must not dream very big. 2) If you write to me in all caps, poor snytax, and bad grammar, I'll assume you're a low wage non-English speaker, possibly Nigerian or East Asian, paid by the hour to extract cash from me - and won't write back. If I'm wrong, even worse, because that means you might just be retarded.

Socio-politically speaking, I am a strong proponent of gender equality and personally see BDSM wholly compatible with those ideals as I believe both men and woman have equal prerogative to live out a submissive lifestyle. Personally speaking, I crave relationships that provide intellectual challenge. I like women to have strong opinions and enunciate well constructed philosophies on issues. Nevertheless, I find submissiveness extremely attractive - perhaps not behaving submissively to everyone in the outside world - as I do idealize indomitable spirits - but I certainly find submissiveness toward me attractive.

Let me give you all a bit of a dose of reality and call some people out... I have a career. I work in a field where I'm okay with people knowing I'm kinky, but I keep it discreet and if I get high profile enough, will eventually need to shut my CM account down. That's why I'm not going to list all my kinks on my page. I leave it to people to read between the lines and ask. WAKE UP CALL.... Girls.... The Doms with those really overtly BDSM pictures... I'd say half of them make a portion of their living from BDSM. They're either bondage equipment manufacturers, paid session Doms (or subs), or pornographers. I know because I know enough of the faces. Not that there's necessarily a problem with that... I seldom judge people based on their professions (except meter maids, who I think are evil for accepting a job that just preys on people) I bring this up mostly because I'm annoyed when I see Doms whose main reason for courting subs is to shoot them for their porn website. I have my porn friends. No beef with porn. I have a beef with hypocrisy and misrepresentation. Don't BS that you're looking for a sub when you're really looking for a girl who you can avoid paying for your porn shoots because she's your sub. Don't BS that you're really rich and that's why you have so much bondage equipment, when really you're dirt poor and have all that equipment so you can better Dom (or even sub) for dudes to make your rent. Don't BS that you know everything about Doming, because if you're making that statement, you clearly don't. I'm still occasionally seeing shit I couldn't imagine or knew existed - its really rare, but it exists. And $10 says I could probably introduce you to someone with a kink far more disturbing than whatever your mind has ever came up with. Fact is, if a Dom is trying to show just how Dominant they look... ASK questions.

While I'm in no way submissive, I'm not opposed to dating a Dominant woman. I increasingly am receptive to the possibility of a lasting relationship, and philosophically believe some of the best relationships are grounded upon equal footing. Consequently, I think the mutual respect necessary to maintain a Dom-Domme relationship could be a very healthy and rewarding thing. Nevertheless, I am definitely not submissive - though not so rigid as to be unreasonable. Therefore, I'm amiable to the idea *gasp* of normal everyday give or take in a relationship - dare I say vanilla levels of give or take in terms of day to day i.e. I won't expect you to clean the kitchen floor anymore often me (which is never because I have a maid who I pay to do it anyways)

I try to respond to most every message I get, but I'll often take a couple days - sometimes because I'm just popping on and not really in a mindset to write back at that moment - particularly if I want to be more thought out in what I compose.

Will likely be in NY next week on business. ?

I love meeting people, so feel free to say hi - both girls, guys, couples, what have you - but I am very picky when it comes to relationships.?? For me, its the entire person that counts.? Inside and out.? I realize increasingly to accept the blessing of it wasn't meant to be when it comes to relationships.?? That said I'm for casual relationships, platonic friendships, serious relationships, or what have you.??

Formerly Punkdom. Started a new account. Punkdom was from years ago when I was doing Alternative Music A&R, worked at MTV, and sported dyed hair. My old journal entries and message board postings can be found under that old name. It just didn't fit when Air and other French Electronica that tops my play count.

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