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I've just come back to CM after a few years hiatus. I'm fully independent and can take care of myself. You should be too. I'm not interested in financially supporting someone or being someones sugar daddy.
I'm a pretty solid switch. While I can be submissive, I'm not a huge masochist but I do enjoy serving, some CBT and could be considered a heavy sensi-slut. On the dominant side, I'm not a TPE type of person. I can pull the dominance out of the bedroom, but I don't want a door mat or a robot. To me, feedback is incredibly important. Knowing what I've done poorly is even more important than knowing what I've done well.
I'm also becoming involved in the local scene. I've been attending TNG, Crucible and happy hours to meet people. I have a heavy desire to learn more and become more experienced in both sub and dom sides.
What I'm looking for:
Currently I'm looking primarily for friends or activity partners. Play mates would be fine too. If something more... permanent comes along, then that would be awesome too, but I'm not looking to rush into things.
As far as personality, a fellow geek would be great. I don't want a relationship to be based solely on sex / BDSM (again). I like women who have opinions and that can push back. It's just as important we could sit down and talk tech/science/games/movies as we can discuss bondage.
If you want to know more about my experiences and... specific interests, feel free to ask.
Also, I wear kilts sometimes. I even have a full 9 yard kilt. Damn pain to get on though. And no, I won't tell you if I pass the kilt check, you'd have to find out for yourself.
A bit about me:
I'm mostly financially stable (working on some heavy debts) and fixing some of my past financial mistakes. Not the best with my money, but I do recognize my short comings. I have a stable 9-6 job as a software developer for a company that does some very high profile work, so the hours are sometimes unpredictably long.
This year I've been working on improving myself. I put down coffee several months ago (switched to tea) and also have almost entirely eliminated gluten in my diet. Next up I'm hoping to get time to work out, specifically running and biking. Hoping to find a partner for that. It's rough getting time for exercise, but when I move I plan on biking to work.
Musically I like punk, industrial, classic, psycobilly and probably a few other genres. I've played the guitar off and on for years and have just started picking it back up again. I'll be picking up violin or cello in a few months as well. I think the sound of string instruments are incredibly romantic.
I'd love to find someone on here to introduce me into kayaking or canoeing. Or hell, even showing me some great hiking spots would be awesome.
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