Dom in general sub sometimes but don't expect playmates to switch. (46 6ft, medium build, male)

I'm not in to dressing up but don't mind if my playmate is - I like the flesh inside the outfit, the person, not the clothes. But I do like a woman to flaunt what ever she has.

I'm not into role play but can act.

I don't do scat, piss or blood

I'm looking to build a relationship over time, in this kind of thing trust is most important. If it becomes full time then so be it. But I don't want 24/7 D/s I'd like to meet a woman who has a mind and can cope with her own life. I don't want or need a doormat or some one to walk 3 paces behind me.

I'll play any where from

light bondage with a slow sexy sensual massage that takes hour before I get to your sex,

to giving the kind of CP that takes a day or two to fade a way, with lots of tit and nipples play to add to the fun.

A woman's bum is made to be fondled, stroked, caressed, kissed and to be spanked, flogged and caned.

Oh yes, sex is not an option it is a requirement!