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Male Switch, 24, minneapolis, Minnesota
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Female Submissive, 23, New York
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About EtherealLove
MY MASTER AND I ARE LOOKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE TO PLAY WITH IN EITHER LAS VEGAS (APRIL 13-16) OR SAN FRANCISCO (APRIL 17-22).... IF YOU ARE INTERESTED PLEASE CHECK US OUT AND GET BACK TO ME =) HIS SCREEN NAME: KinbakuForYou
Request... About me my name is nashira and i am 30 years old living in Louisville, KY, a city rich in diversity and artistic flair. i am on a self journey in learning what it means to be slave. To serve with fire, in giving of oneself, body, mind, and spirit. Learning to be of value to someone else and have them become my Everything in return. i am sapiosexual in nature and adore someone who has a quick wit and a knack for creative prose. i am learning what it means to enjoy my femininity and revel in my scents as well as the curves of my body. i enjoy the company of others, whether it is going out to dinner, to a museum, the theatre or opera; as well as attending a fetish event with like minded friends and kinksters. my favourite colour has become purple, followed by shades of black, whites, and greys. my favourite flower is an orchid because of their natural artistic beauty and flair of colour. i have a thirst for knowledge and experiencing new things, whether it be cooking, or the feel of a single tail whip. i love to laugh until the point of crying and feel it is something that warms the heart and draws people closer together. i believe i am a good and dedicated friend, which leans towards me being a good listener and giving advice when asked. i like to think of my self as a good girl and work hard to be morally sound. i do not find myself overly judgemental and think that everyone is unique in some certain way. i am a total bookworm and always have one in hand, especially when taking a bath. i love to create things with my hands and gain experience through this. i have a propensity for blushing when complimented or stared at too long, and have a naive quality about me, which is not to be confused with weakness. i have a secret stash of lotions and potions and am addicted to sweet, spicy, or intoxicating smells. i have a quirky sense of humour, which can also be quite feral when given the chance to surface. i feel that i am a multifaceted person but if You dwell on one aspect too long, You will not see the gem that is there. my D/s History i have been into the lifestyle off and on for thirteen years but did not get into it as a life choice until recently over the past two years. i have found that things i was not into a year ago, interest me greatly now. This lets me know that i am always fluctuating and evolving as a person and i hope that never changes. i enjoy going to events in my community and learning about new fetishes, or types of toys to play with. At this point i often times feel like a kid in a candy shoppe when it comes to my journey of exploration. i know however that this life choice is something that has truly awakened me for who i was meant to be, as well as who i will become. Where i'm At i am currently in an M/s relationship with Someone who i have been with for the better part of two years. W/we are on a journey together as W/we learn and grow in this lifestyle and i can't think of anyone else who i would rather walk this road with than this Man. From the moment i met Him, i knew that i was His and that this is how it would be, for better or worse. Although W/we are far apart, the love W/we share keeps U/s close. i am currently taking steps to go to school to be a Surgical Technician whilst still living in the states and when i am finished, i will move to Australia, to be at His feet where i belong. i am counting down the days until i see Him again when He comes to visit me soon. *does a happy dance* What i'm Looking For Because He and i cannot be together physically, i am allowed to experience the joy of what other People may share, whether that be knowledge, playing skills, or just good general company. E/everyone i interact with on a personal level in this manner must seek His approval before anything takes place. i have a list of rules that i must adhere to and disrespecting the rules would be disrespecting Him as well as me. i am allowed to have a close connection to people, but this does not mean that i can either be "stolen away" or receive collar. He will always be my first priority in my life, and there is a bond there that can never be broken. i am also keen to making friends and talking to new people in the lifestyle in the States and especially in the Melbourne area so that when i move i won't feel so alienated. So please feel free to say hello or give a friendly wave. i am an open book and love sharing thoughts, ideas, and observations as well as hearing them. =) |
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i thought that coming to terms with who i am would liberate me into being able to be myself and finding a suitable relationship. i don't have to hide my desires any longer and i know i will never go back to a vanilla relationship again. But my goodness this is even harder ! (laughing). Not only do i have to find a relationship that meets everyday needs as far as vanilla standards go, but then i need to see that my M/s relationship needs are met.
i am a good girl, a submissive, a slave.
let's break these down, shall W/we ?
i am a good girl because i have a desire to please and be appreciated or acknowledged for these things. i am cheeky, witty, and sarcastic at times, but i am also sweet, caring, and attentive. i am not a brat by any means because of my willingness to do as i am told. although it's still pleasurable to be made to do something hehe
i am a submissive... this is me on a normal basis. i am a natural submissive and i have a gentle softness to me, that is very tactile and nurturing. This is the me i present myself as being to most in the lifestyle. This is who i am when i go to fetish events, make friends, or even date on occassion. i do this to protect myself and keep what i really am as a gift.
i am a slave... this last one is a big one, because it comes with stipulations. If as a slave You don't believe i have a choice, You are wrong. If You think otherwise, then You are not the Master for me. i will be in my submissive state for quite sometime. Starting a relationship and building a normal foundation is key for me before touching into the other levels of my nature. Only one person has made it to this level and it took a lot of hard work on both parts to get here. This is not something to be taken lightly and entered into quickly. Once i give myself as a slave i understand that my choices, and body are no longer my own and understand the basis of TPE and 24/7. Not just anyone can come to claim me, i am not a doormat and i am aware of my own safety on the issue. The Master that i will have however will abide by my limits set forth beforehand but will work with me and guide me to explore other areas i have not touched before.
i am bringing all of this to attention, because i have talked with people who have different thoughts and views. So i wanted to make clear my intentions and agenda. i am intelligent, i am strong... i have a voice, and will use that voice when permitted. i will not only kneel at Your feet but stand by Your side in the relationship. i am not Your equal but i am in this with You. |
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i wanted to express my thoughts about genital piercings and what i would like to have done. i have been thinking for many years about getting labia rings put it. One on each side near my opening. i find it very erotic and a good mark for a slave to have. i am not owned at this point but hope that my potential Master (whoever He may end up being)will appreciate them. On a more sexual note, i keep fantasizing about having a small lock placed there when i finally do have a Master. And having that lock there until he decides to use me for His pleasure and then lock me back up again, leaving me used and filled. i would still be able to orgasm, just not play with myself. Which trust me, would still be agonizing hehe =). Does anyone have any thoughts on this as far as size, a similar desire for themselves or Their pets. Or does anyone already have and do this, and have some input on the matter ? Keen to hear Y/your thoughts. =) |
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I am lying here in bed and i can't sleep. i watch the minutes tick
slowly by and feel restless and unsure. In the past year and a half i
have grown...grown into the person i have always wanted to be or will
become. But through this process i am finding myself utterly alone with
myself. In that realization i have found that i am unsure once again
about who i really am. While becoming single and engaging myself in the
bdsm community in my city, many people are asking what i am looking
for. Do i want love? yes of course... But in doing so i have to instill
trust in myself and the person i am with. And i know that to get there
it will be a slow process.
i want someone who rules with a firm hand a kind heart. i need to be
mentored as well as cared for. i want someone who is certainly sure of
themselves and the way they handle me. i know i am not looking to join
a polyamorous relationship or household. On one hand i don't mind
playing with women, but on the other hand i would like to hope that i
would be enough for someone. i almost wonder if it's best to be broken
down before being built up so that i can start anew. i have a strong
urge for being owned and controlled which is inside me like fire
pulsing through my veins.
i need someone who recognizes my kinks and desires and helps me to
build upon them. And i will in turn do the same for them. i feel that a
M/s relationship is something that is forever growing and meant to be
built upon with knowledge. i want to be able to provide a happiness and
pride in someone and have the same done for me in return. i know this
will be a long journey for me and for the person that i will end up
with, but it's one i am looking forward to with vibrancy.
i know that i am a good girl and a sweet submissive, which is
something that was instilled in me in the begining but was always ever
present. i am not someone who is a doormat or looking to be used just
for someone's quick pleasure then discarded. i am a long term venture
and should be cherished as such with my desire to please and adore. i
feel i am but a gift waiting to be opened....
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Rest in Peace Bettie Page. You were a pin-up icon for many generations and a personal favourite of mine and your beauty resonated through time like ripples in water. You will be a vastly remembered woman of style and beauty for lifetimes to come. |
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When she had her fist in my cunt, I knew she was the one ! Muahs xxx |
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What am I looking for ? I really don't know. I could say I don't have any expectations but then again I want a relationship that adheres to the lifestyle but also includes all things vanilla along with it. But asking what I want in the beginning of a conversation leaves me wanting to give a brief answer because I don't want to invest too much thought to share with someone I don't yet know. Then feeling obliged to give a longer answer. I want someone to accept me for who I am not who they think they can make me into. I want someone who excepts my virtues, my flaws, and sees each facet as something beautiful. I need intellect and humour, as well as attraction. I need passion and fire to pour from that person as well as being unafraid to show emotions. I don't want to be someone in a long line of many that you may be hoping accepts you as their Dom. I am worth more than a passing glance or a toss in the bed. That is not why I am here nor is that my purpose. I am not actively seeking someone, but I believe in letting things happen as they may. What do I want ? It's simple yet complex. |
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Ok so the message for today is copy and paste. I know it's difficult sifting through so many profiles searching for that one person that catches your eye. And so you spent a lot of time sending out a heartfelt message to that person giving details about specific issues. Or merely showing your casual or intense interest. But the problem is, you are sending the same message repeatedly to different people. So when my best friend and I are sitting next to each other in the same room, we will on occassion read out long messages and giggle when we both received the exact same one. So although the message to you may seem lengthy and endearing, it loses meaning after being sent repeatedly. So be original and send out a message to that person even if it's two sentences instead of five paragraphs. xxx |
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