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About emmalyn
Im specifically seeking a cuckold at the moment. Just email me if you are interested. D
Im fairly skilled with the tools of the trade of being a Domme (see below for my specific interests). The manner of being a Domme Ive been sorting through for a few years now. Ive not been without challenges in this regard, either.
Here is some of what Ive learned
- Its hard to know what you want, harder yet to ask for it, and hardest to know when to ask for it - Its challenging to manage 2 peoples vision, expectations, and perception of a relationship - Mistakes are great learning tools - Power can only be taken if someone wants it to be (otherwise, thats illegal) - Fun is important - Both participants are giving and taking - they are just giving two different things - No one can be blamed for something thats gone wrong. Responsibility has to be taken
My ideal relationship is one where I can be put on a pedestal occasionally, and have my desires attended to. Its one where play isnt forced, or expected, but happens generally when its needed. And its one where communication is paramount to anything else, where feelings and concerns are respected. I appreciate having an audience to my thoughts and feelings, even if you dont really give a shit. Just massage my feet and say something thoughtful every so often.
I am most likely to play when someone is watching, with a stranger or new playmate, or when Im happy. These are when I have the most fun, as well. For me, to play does not mean it will end in penetration. My motivation is to gain the control I seek, and to execute a plan - not to fuck everyone I play with.
If you have any questions, please, feel free to send an email. Please dont ask me to play with you - Im fairly selective. If we have good chemistry, it might happen, otherwise, it wont.
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If you're going to message me, here's some things to keep in mind:
1) I am not looking for any sort of penetration in my secondary relationship
2) I'm not looking to satisfy your needs - so your job is to figure out what my needs are. If you want my attention, your job is to figure out what my needs are and meet them. I'd list them, but they actively change
3) I am currently not able to host - so if you aren't either, don't ask me to play. Be satisfied with getting to know me
4) I'm not one dimensional. There are other things in my life as opposed to BDSM and I'm currently working on becoming more balanced than I have been so far in my life - be prepared for me to got a few days without checking in
5) For the love of God, present yourself with a personality and have charm. If you have a negative attitude or don't know how to carry on a conversation, I'm not going to be interested - and I can't teach that, so don't ask me what that means. If you have to ask, keep moving. |
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