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Im excited by the trust that develops and allows a person to share their most private fantasies with me in the hopes that I may play a part in making them a reality.
Im really big into bondage, caging, confinement and deprivationof all sorts, either somewhat casually as a service top, or more intensely as an edge-play consensual non-consensual (CNC) bottom.
I enjoy playing with the human condition by being (or seeing) a confident person who will turn their nose up at a slightly off tasting glass of wine on a Monday be broken into a helpless and fearful groveling gimp on Tuesday. And then, back again.
With the right person, there is basically nothing that I will regard as completely negative experience since at its conclusion I will have expanded my understanding and have grown from the experience. As such, my soft-limits are very much attached to my comfort level with the person and her comfort level with me. My hard limits are few, and routine.
I do consider myself a gentleman and have steadfast ethics with regards to that. While I, as any gentleman would, love to buy gifts for important people in my life, I am very weary of anyone who demands them up-front. I have no interest in financial servitude, online games, or long-distance relationships.
I would consider myself many things, especially with targeted training, but a domestic slave, pay pig, or sugar daddy would not be included among those titles.
Hopefully I have written something that will get your attention - I respond to everybody at least once. Cheers!
Brian
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Well, here it is – what I was really hoping to avoid has been finally drawn out of me: A list of those I wish not to contact me. Profiles with this note always strike me as belonging to a starkly negative person, I assure you it’s only because I’ve been through many very disappointing email encounters. To soften the impact of this; please let me start with an extended list of whom I’d like to contact me:
- Anybody who wishes advice or friendship: Women, men, tops, bottoms, switches, newbie, experienced, skin on inside-out, half-alien sure – whatever. I welcome anybody who wishes advice or a kink-friendly friend.
- Anybody whom I’ve met at a party or a munch: Whether we spoke or not, if you recognize my picture and want to say ‘hey, remember me?’ FANTASTIC – please in fact, I can often be in a shy mood and as a big guy I’m told I can intimidating to approach. I would love to know more about people who are in the community.
Those of you who should not contact me are:
Non-lifestyle tribute-only dommes: While I greatly respect your profession, applaud your intelligence and your strength, and may likely find you to be strikingly beautiful, I do not see tribute dommes as a client. However, if you wish to meet a person who understands your business and is completely comfortable with what it is you do for money, drop me a line. I’d love to hear stories over drinks or some dinner – and I wouldn’t expect anything more than that
Scammers: Why write this - you’re not going to read it anyhow.
Dommes who say they attend every Toronto event who I’ve never even heard of: See above: Scammers, again why am I so foolish to write these words – they won’t be read either. Put away the cut-and-paste email templates designed to entice a sub into proving their worth by agreeing to the most disagreeable task of blindly sending you money. Let’s agree not waste each other’s time OK?
Males intent on sexual interaction: I’m hetro, sorry – I can’t be who you’d like me to be.
So, that’s it.
Cheers! |
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I've met two whom considered themselves to be hardcore mistresses, but both have said to me 'You're too nice for me to treat you this way' ... do I really have to be an asshole to sidestep this catch-22 situation? I'm not an asshole, and I've learned that I can't make-believe that I am - even on request. Not that I identify with *pathetic* ...I just seem to need it. I need somebody evil - is that person out there? |
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