Home
Home
Browse Profiles
Browse
Collarspace Video
Live
Join Collarspace
Join
Collarspace
Dating
Dating
Collarspace News
News
Collarspace Glossary
Glossary
Collarspace Mobile
Mobile
Alt
Alt
Safety
Safety
Extreme Restraints
Toys
Friends
Live BDSM
Resources
Resources
Welcome to Collarspace
Welcome
Login
Login
Vertical Line
Sakura

chattypatty

Female Submissive, 29, Concord, North Carolina
Female Submissive, 42, Cape Town
chattelunderling
Female Submissive, 39, Fuckittown, Arizona
More Submissive Women in Massachusetts
Back
Back
Kinky People Meet
KPM
Collarspace Directory
Directory
Interests
 Interests

chattypatty - Female Submissive, massachusetts Massachusetts | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

Friends:
fflsiteMyCollar4You

About chattypatty

Update: I am not pursuing a relationship other than friendship at this time.


My name is Patricia and I am just me.

My tendencies lean toward the soft, assertive, vulnerable, confident, shy, outgoing and gregarious.

I have many good points: a good friend, ernest listener, problem solver, giver of love and kindness, playful, humorous, loyal, faithful, lover of the unique and unusual.

Why am I here? I seek a gentleman who is strong, passionate, honest, nurturing, intelligent and able to guide while letting me spread my wings. One that is sensual and sexual yet can be relaxed, giving and kind as well.

Some would say these are traits of a Daddy Dominant or a Sensual Dominant and maybe that’s true. I know for me that those who behave with extreme firmness or strictness are good men too but not what I seek for myself.

I stand 5'5"~BBW~blue eyes~ long straight hair~considered attractive

Below are my test scores. These scores are only general and not exact.

Update: I thought it was important to share the not so great stuff too so here goes:
I smoke cigarettes, drink to much coffee and try hard to stay on budget so I have money to meet my financial goals. That's the down type stuff that I think should be out there too.

79% Girl/Boy
59% Exhibitionist
57% Primal (Prey)
55% Non-monogamist
54% Experimentalist
50% Primal (Predator)
50% Voyeur
46% Brat
41% Submissive
34% Daddy/Mommy
34% Switch
30% Masochist
29% Bondage Receiver
25% Vanilla
21% All-Rounder
19% Pervert
16% Slave
13% Degradation Receiver
10% Brat Tamer
9% Master/Mistress
4% Dominant
0% Bondage Giver
0% Degradation Giver
0% Sadist

Pictures to follow when I know you more

Does this ever happen to you?


You and another strike up a conversation.  It gets friendly and warm.  You both share details for a few days.  And for who know's why: they do what least expect them to do: they vanish.  Do you find this odd or typical?  Send me a message with what your experience has been in this area.  xoxo p

Regardless of how you identify this question is also for you:

It seems that although people remind us all the time "don't be judgmental" so many of us really are.  So since it is there how do we manage it in a healthy way.... For starters I suppose doing all that cognitive stuff helps to get us in check.  But I think more importantly it's important to remember that "just because you come across so many judgement people doesn't mean you have to join in".

 

So the question to you is: what way's do you catch yourself before you hit the judgement zone?  Simple right, but maybe not so easily accomplished.  Shoot me an email and share your thoughts, good, bad or indifferent.

 

Thanks much, xo p

I have a question for you: has anyone here or elsewhere found that sharing personal images gets them closer to finding their ONE??

Here is a general question for people: Does anyone else find they get unsolicited mail from people that is "unpleasant" in nature and in content.  For me I find it stupefying that someone who know's nothing about me would attack or insult me or anyone else harshly. I have been told by loving/caring friends to pay no mind to these angry miserable people and move on.  If you (the reader) has any constructive or positive thoughts to share please shoot me an email. Thank you and blessing out to you.  

Does it ever occur to you that with all this searching you may not find your partner?  Sure there's always someone willing to play it seems but I mean P A R T N E R.  So for you, yes you the person reading this, when you feel that dark thought creeping in.... how do you come up with something more encouraging?  Please send me a message if you have some feedback on that one. xoox p

chaz7668
Male Dominant, 50, Houston, Texas
Male Dominant, 21, Dublin
Male Submissive, 35
Male Dominant, 52, Orange County, California
chainsOfroses
Female Submissive, 43, Duncan
Male Dominant, 35, Burbank, California
Male Dominant, 42
Male Dominant, 44, Northern, Minnesota
Male Dominant, 46, Vineland, New Jersey
charliebrown
Male Submissive, 33
chastized
Male Submissive, 44, Mountain West, Nevada
Male Submissive, 35, Roosevelt, Utah