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I like to think of myself as a strong woman, confident and more than a little crazy. I've been doing WIITWD for 10 years, and I've spent 7 years in the public community, most of it learning, having fun and getting to live out another extension of myself. I am listed here as submissive, but don't let that fool you. I AM a switch, my husband of 13 years is my submissive, and I have been known to beat on a few people. But when Master Sar or Daddy are around, you are more likely going to hear me screaming. ;) I've hosted 2 incarnations of Grand Rapids munches . I started helping out at the now defunct RAM, and when we created the new GGRM (Greater Grand Rapids Munch) in Oct of '09 I took the hosting and organizing duties on. Now we have an amazing group of people at the munch that i consider friends and family, and love that we have expanded from about 4 people to an amazing group of 67 at our April '11 munch!! Right now I'm honored to be mentored by a Master as his bottom, service submissive, and pain slut. I feel like I've learned so much in the time that we have had, but i also know that i have so much to learn. Potential play partners must be approved by Him before we play, unless you are a part of my kink family. I am married to the love of my life, but i do have plenty more love to give! Some of that love goes to my Daddy. It was submission at first sight. I knew when we met that something was going to happen between us. I never knew i could call someone Daddy and be someone's little girl until Him. It seems as though i've known Him my whole life, but we always have something new to talk about. What a ride it's been so far! Mostly, I'm here to keep up with the community, catch a few lolz and keep an eye on those perverts that have invaded my life (but I wouldn't have it any other way). If you have any questions about the local community, or the community in Michigan in general, please feel free to email me. If I can't help you, I'm sure I can find someone who can. If you are looking for a Mistress please don't bother.

If you are looking for an introduction to the local West Michigan scene, or have any questions about the local munch, please feel free to contact me.

It's time to change this once again.
From now on I am no longer going to compromise on the personal rules i have set for myself. These rules don't need to apply to you directly, but these are things i have chosen to live by.

Number 1:
I will not see, date, have sex with, play with, have a relationship or be intimate with (henceforth known as "be with" anyone who is married who's wife is not aware of what he's doing. I have no problems with married men, but yes, i will want to talk to her to be sure she's ok with my being a part of your life.

Number 2:
I will not be with any man who has more self esteem issues than i do. I am fairly secure with myself, and am pretty self confident and self aware. I'd just rather not have to boost a Domly one's ego and tell him 'yes your penis is a lovely size' and 'yes you can swing a flogger just as well as that big guy over there'.

Number 3:
I will not be with anyone that thinks they need to "fix me". I am not broken, nor am i lost, and i do not need to be fixed. I have no problems with working to better myself, but that isn't being broken, that's advancing what i already am.

Number 4:
I will not be with anyone that isn't within my age range. I'm a child of pop culture and i love to have someone to talk about that with. With that in mind, my age range is generally 30-45.

I am also married, to a wonderful man who is the love of my life. He is a submissive, owned by myself. Anyone that i serve should understand that my family comes first.

I also would prefer someone somewhat local to me. I could handle Chicago or Detroit, both being about 3 hours from me, but any farther would be extremely difficult.

I'm a very active member in the local community. I run the local munch the GGRM (Greater Grand Rapids Munch) and belong to both GRALE and West Michigan Rope. I love the people that i've met and who have supported me in my journey.

If you have any other questions for me, please feel free to email them to me!

Thanks for reading!
~kitten
10/19/2009 6:17:20 PM

We have found a new home for our munch... it is;

Brann's Resautrant 4157 Division Ave S. Grand Rapids 49548**

For this month only, October 21st, the time is changed slightly. We needed to move it to 7pm instead of 6:30...

The room is private, non smoking, and all the other things that we had before, but we feel that this will be a good fit.

A few other announcements for you, the munch for November AND December will be moved to the third Tuesday instead of the third Wednesday to accommodate not only our kink lives but also our "vanilla" lives.

We hope to see everyone out this Wednesday for the first time out to Branns.

9/14/2009 6:23:49 PM
It's time for the monthly munch!!!! Due to Tequila Willy's remodel taking longer than they anticipated, we are changing our location for this month.

This month's munch will be at Buffalo Wild Wings on Alpine. The address is 3050 Alpine Ave NW and is in GreenRidge square next to the Star Theater. http://maps.google.com/maps?f=q&source=s_q&hl=en&geocode=&q=3050+Alpine+Ave+NW,+Grand+Rapids,+MI%E2%80%8E&sll=43.121034,-85.852661&sspn=0.227038,0.617294&ie=UTF8&ll=43.020729,-85.687072&spn=0.007107,0.01929&t=h&z=16 Any questions on location please feel free to PM me.

The munch starts at 6:30 and goes until whenever. Please try to keep the fetish wear to a minimum. We are asking people to not smoke in the munch area, but the bar area right next to where we are allows smoking.

If you are uncomfortable coming the first time and would like to meet someone before-hand to feel more at ease, please feel free to PM both Niki or myself, and we can arrange something!

Hope to see you there!!
10/7/2008 10:42:42 PM
I have no idea why I didn't put this in here sooner!

ATTENTION all GRAND RAPIDS AREA!
If you are looking for a great way to meet people, and some good food, please join us at Tequila Willy's for a munch!

It is always the third Weds of the month, starting at 6:30pm. We have the larger loft reserved for us.

If you are new, or nervous and would like to meet or chat with someone before the munch, feel free to contact me and we can set something up!

6/4/2008 11:38:57 AM
My life got incredibly busy all of a sudden, so if I fail to answer an email in a timely manner, i apologize.

To my friends, I'm sorry i've not been around, but my computer is also on the fritz, so i can only have one window open at a time on this piece of pre-historic box. This will change soon, so please be patient with me! I'm not trying to dodge you, or forget about you.
mistresstryner
 
 Age: 30
 Gibsonville, North Carolina