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Chandlerslave

Male Dominant, 40, Chandler, Arizona
Male Switch, 45, Chandler, Arizona
Female Submissive, 32, Wheeling, WV area, West Virginia
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About Chandlerslave

I am a mature, intelligent, experienced, strong willed and determined slave who makes the conscious choice to give all that she is to her Master. I wish to serve a Master again, to fulfill his every need and desire. As a woman and slave, I exist for and in myself but am driven to give all to Master.


I truly believe service is the core of slavery. It is a position of great value, and sometimes great power. Service is giving to Master, and staying focused on him in all things. It is stepping up when things are hard, and sometimes simply getting out of her own mind when things are challenging, and pressing forward.


The concept of service encompasses just about everything – from the sexual and painful to the menial and domestic. There are many ways to serve, but the only important commonality for a slave is her focus upon him. I believe this is the basis for a successful and long lasting Master/slave relationship. It may be the primary reason I have served as slave for most of my adult life.


I also firmly believe that the internet fantasy of captive slavery or a life of torture only is one that is not sustainable in real life. Slaves are real people, dealing with everyday lives and issues and feelings and mental processes. But if she honestly trusts her Master, she will find balance in her service to him.












 
I have been asked many times about my "limits" so I would address that question here. In my opinion, a slave, once owned, has no limits...and I truly do mean none.

Before sending me your hate mail, please allow me to clarify. I honestly believe it is up to the slave to be absolutely certain about the one she calls Master. It behooves her to trust him implicitly, as she is surrendering all to him. If she knows entering the relationship that he has a strong desire for breath or knife play, then she cannot call that a hard limit later. She can only trust that he understands her fear, and knowing him, she accepts that he will not push her beyond her limits, only beyond her fear.

If he (or she) betrays that trust, no matter the issue, then there is no longer a relationship. There is no Master and there is no slave.
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