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About WrittenWords

I exist mainly in the real world.



I value the creative and intelligent mind, and love reading books.

I love a man who is well written and well spoken. I hate poorly written introductions.

When it comes to kink, I am a private practitioner. I enjoy being spanked and the power exchanges that go along with that. I favor ordinary, domestic implements.
I gravitate toward men with traits I can admire and look up to. I believe a good partnership is one where each person can learn from the other, and where each person encourages the other toward their goals and achievements. I also believe in having fun together as well, fun is an important part of life and "play" encourages growth and a happy, healthy, well balanced spirit.

I value being health and fitness aware. I do my best to stay a healthy weight for my height, and encourage others to do the same for their health. I value beauty at all sizes, however, working out is to keep one's body healthy and mind sharp. Aesthetic is a matter of personal taste.

I am not into play parties even though I attend them to meet others, they simply are not my cup of tea. I am not into poly, women, groups, men old enough to be my father or too young to have earned a Bachelor's degree.


Going back to vanilla for a bit, because I am tired of men who only want me for sex and who lie with lips saying they value me as a person and for my mind and actions that directly contradict that statement.

 

I deserve a man who wants to be seen with me, holding my hand, in public.  I deserve more than to be someone's dark and dirty little secret. 

 

I deserve a partner who meets my needs. 

 

I deserve to not be abandoned at random on a whim.

 

I deserve to not be treated as a whim.

 

Part of me is saying things are ok, and not too bad, and that I should be content, but a piece of me is always shouting "This isn't what I wanted and it's not enough!" I still want... I still miss... I still need...

no one wants to play with a broken toy

 

so it puts itself together again bit by bit

 

but some of the pieces are gone

 

who will replace them?

 

 

I am hard at work building my tomorrow now that I am 100% free from the shadows of my past.
CARROT App is a better Dom than the guys I've met here and on F*TLif*.

I still can't help wishing on a star, even when I know my wish will never come true. I'll always be wishing on a star, because the one person worth all my wishes was you.

To all you Twue Doms out there: You are neither the Alpha nor the Omega. Claiming to be such will result in me laughing my ass off at you. I may be here on this site but that doesn't mean I don't have standards. I expect people to be somewhat grounded in reality.

Hangover.  Recalling now the many reasons why I rarely drink.

 Also, I seem to be slowly acquiring a taste for steam punk.  Probably from being tired of the virtual world.  The internet, like any piece of knowledge without direction, is a blessing and a curse.  Steampunk is about the tangible, and doesn't distance itself from the dirt that is reality. 

 Sometimes I want to burn my iPhone, because iDon't like being tracked everywhere I go like an animal, reachable by all.  I hate it when people assume just because they call I'll immediately answer.  I worked in a Call Center at one point, and so I refuse to answer the phone against my will in my free time.  I am not the phone's slave.  I prefer to be reachable on a basis iControl, not one dictated by everyone else.  My iPhone is an iLeash because it gives people 8 different means of contacting me at once, and if I ever miss something in my privacy settings, will also disclose my location. 

 However, like so many others, I've become dependent on it.  The main reason:  my friends are all stupid and live far far away.  They should all move here for my convenience :-P  Also I'm hooked on directions tools because iGetLost a lot.  It does help me when I'm traveling.

 Epically [FAILED] trying to meet new people again last night.  Was going to a party, then got nervous and backed out.  Oh well.

 In the end I don't want to meet people anyway.  I've met people, and I want them to stay in my life instead of leaving. 

 Just because there are a lot of people in this world doesn't mean that we are compatible.  Individuals are unique and precious.  I don't buy into the bulk-buy view of humanity that so many people have, either as a defense against hurt or a means of avoiding emotional responsibility.

 Feelings and attachments are part of what separate us from insects and computers. 

Got my favorite Smirnoffs ready for the weekend.  Got my lucky Moleskin and a pen ready for the weekend.  Gonna go out tomorrow and enjoy an evening of writing bad drunken poetry while feeling artistic. 

I can't help wishing on a star, even when I know it won't come true. I'll always be wishing on a star, deep inside my heart there'll always be a place for you...
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