WriterNDixie

Read COMPLETELY Before you contact me!!! I don't have time for posers and fakes. Be Real, or Be Gone!
Yes, I am real and I do know what I am doing. You need to be real as well. Fantasy is nice, but it doesn't get us through real-life. There will be times when I just wish to chat about "normal" vanilla-type things. Can you handle that?
Lie to me, end of relationship. No second chances. Yes, I do have pics and no, I will NOT send them. Not until I know you a little and feel I can trust you. I work in a very high-end, PR-type job so I need someone who understands, and can USE, discretion!
I am not seeking a "Daddy", I have one of those already. I am a grown woman and quite capable of making my own decisions. My life is hectic, I work full-time, am a Mother of 3, and also run a couple of online/real-time groups. My time is very valuable. Don't waste it. (I play when the kids are at school or at their Dad's.) I have every other weekend free to meet/play.
I am NOT interested in serving or worshiping you if I bottom. I am only interested in play/kink when I bottom. Some of the things I enjoy as a bottom are: floggers, clothespins, bondage, blindfolds, gags, TENS, Nipple/Breast Torment, sensory deprivation, knife play (IF I trust you!). .
As a Top, I am very playful and sensual. I enjoy many things such as floggers, canes, crops, whips, paddles, strap-on, TENS, CBT, NT, wax play, knife play, bondage, blindfolds, gags, clothespins, sensory deprivation, light/situational humiliation, public play (Lifestyle public gatherings only), servitude/service both Lifestyle and Vanilla. My limits are the same when I Top, as for when I bottom.
My main HARD limits are: scat, watersports, needles, heavy marks or scars, kids, animals, Fire & Breath play
Sex is rarely ever included in my scenes/sessions unless I am in a personal relationship with that particular person. I am NOTmonogamous and have no intentions of being such. If the right man comes along and sweeps me off of my feet, then I will consider it. I AM safe, D&D free, and I intend to STAY that way. I am involved in a relationship that includes the vanilla and the not-so-vanilla aspects of my life. I am very pleased with this relationship and am not looking to replace him. Period. I will consider taking on a PT sub/slave and he is aware of this posibility.
Trust is something that will have to be earned. I will give you respect, so long as you deserve it. Never, under ANY circumstances, lie to me.
If you are still reading and are at least a little curious about me, then write and lets see what happens...
"Dixie" (No, it's not my real name...)