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I am known for languishing in ostentatious and excessive words, so I will keep things pretty simple here.
I am a highly experienced kinky male who likes to think outside of the box. I am an activist, a passionate advocate, and a loud voice in every room. I tend to enjoy adoration and control, but I am by no means a control freak or an egoist. You are a human being before anything else, and I respect and value that.
I am intelligent and well-read, compassionate and fun. My life is my art. Passion drives me, and intellect guides me. And idealist who wallows in depression. A vessel where joy and sorrow coexist in peace.
I also love to make people laugh, and find that the best times are often spent with open hearts, full stomachs, and flowing conversation.
I am also a sadist. A deep, dark, primal craftsman of pain and suffering. It is not the only mode of operation, but it is something that speaks to me in a visceral way. Pain is strength, displayed within a moment.
I love playing rough, but I also like to take moments to be soft and caring, focusing moments on your well being and desire to be appreciated. I love to pet and to touch, to listen and respond. Balance is the key to a dynamic relationship.
I am renowned for my skills with floggers, rope, humiliation, and mental play. I am also good with my hands (you can take that however you wish.)
I prefer someone who I can hold down a conversation with. You dont need to be incredibly smart or full of interesting information, but being able to talk to each other is essential. I am looking for someone to play with right now.
Please, dont call me Sir. That title is reserved for people who have earned an intimate place in my life. You an call be Baron if you are attached to honorifics out of respect.
Feel free to write. I tend to respond and I do love new friends. I am also a consent activist and very passionate about the things I believe in. I love a good conversation!
I believe the BDSM community should be a source of support, education, camaraderie, and connection, not some form of exclusive club where one outkinks others in order to earn status.
I just moved back to L.A. from Northern California and I am looking to reconnect, connect, and to find new things to intrigue and excite me. Help me see the endless possibilities of this gorgeous city, wont you?
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I am not here to display my overwhelming kinkiness, or to show off my most AlphaDomMasterliness. I am a human being, and I recognize that what we do is a game. One with serious, real world repercussions, but a very real fantasy nonetheless. I don't stomp around, I don't bang and clang my shield, I don't try to out-kink or overwhelm anyone with my power. I am stronger than that, and I value people who are as well. Power is not what you display. It is what others feel when around you.
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I simply love people with stories. Please, share with me. Tell me your story.
"I've never met anyone who wasn't important before." |
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I don't send out a lot of messages. When I do send one, I put thought into it and I try to make it worthwhile to read. I'm far too concerned with respecting the people I want to talk to and connect with to just haphazardly shoot off messages with things like "Hey, you're hot" or some soliloquy about what I would do to you if we were alone. |
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I am not here to fill a void in your life. I am not here to find someone who is desperate for a Dominant or a Master, and sees me as a chance to have that. I wish to find those who wish to submit to and serve me because they admire and respect me, not because I am the person they wish to receive their fix from.
I will not accept you kneeling at your feet because you simply wish to be at the feet of someone strong. I will accept your knees at the toe of my boot, your head on my leg, your arms wrapped around my calf because you have found me so splendid, so worthy of trust, and so fantastic that you simply desire to be at MY feet. I wish to build a relationship, to get to know you and see inside you. I wish to be equals until that day when you, with admiration and adoration in your heart, simply feel compelled to kneel, to put on a collar, and to beg to call me "Sir".
For you, I will offer the same. I will not simply take you on because I seek a person to give orders to, or because the floor near where I sit is empty of naked bodies. I will engage you, and explore with you, and become so enthralled and desirous of you that I find myself drawn to hold you in my lap, to say "On your knees", and to call you Mine. I will not look to use you to fill any void. I will, instead, seek to know you until we find the natural place where we find ourselves as one with a collar and one with a key. |
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I have seen quite a few Dominant personal profiles expressing a distaste for switches. It usually states that they have no interest b switching and therefore no interest in switches. That seems a little biased and unfair. To be a switch is to allow yourself the freedom to naturally inhabit whatever role happens to organically develop within a relationship. Just because you had a poor experience with someone rude enough to assume that their orientation dictates yours doesn't mean we are all like that. It would be like saying "I don't like being bi, so no bisexuals".
I approach every relationship as unique. I approach every person as an equal until such a time as it is evident that a power exchange dynamic has been established. If you cannot accept being treated as a normal person by another person, the honess for that is on you. Unless you were granted title to a county by the royal court, don't expect to be automatically treated as nobility.
Yes, I am confident and will clearly express my interests and desires, and will gladly initiate if need be. No, that doesn't mean I top from the bottom or have garnered you any expectations. I have been blessed by being friends with some of the finest fetishists in the country, and if I seem comfortable and confident, it is because I am. You can be too.
So don't leap out to a conclusion based upon an orientation. It leads to missed oppertunities, a bad reputation, and an all around bad time. |
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| Age: 26 |
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Illinois |
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