Trajan08

I was on here about a year ago and I’m back.

A little about me:

My personality is about the opposite of what most people think of when they think of a Dominant. I’m pretty laid-back, quiet, and easy-going (closer to a type “B” personality). I’m not the type that will say “on your knees” on first contact. If it won’t work in a bar; it won’t work here, either. But first impressions can be deceiving. I’m highly competitive (I hate losing at anything) and can be very intense at times. Once I sink my teeth into something (or someone :-) ), I tend not to let go.

I have the three E’s covered:

Employed (software engineer)

Educated (masters degree- go figure, I’m a Dom)

Emotionally stable

I’m single (divorced) and not currently dating anyone.

I have a wide array of interest: brewing, sports, flying, and woodworking (comes in handy for building toys and equipment) to name a few.

I exercise regularly and play soccer during the week. I’m in pretty good shape for my age.

Here is what I’m looking for, in no particular order.

A woman that:

Wants a long term relationship

Is my age or younger
Wants/likes rules

Wants to be trained

Likes role play

Has a masochistic streak

Wants a family

Likes to wear high heels, corsets, lingerie

Can fit in with a vanilla crowd

Has an attraction to me and vice versa (in other words: chemistry needs to exist between us)

Is an exhibitionist

Is adventurous

Is intelligent, has a sense of humor, and can hold a conversation

Has nice legs (I’m a leg man)

Here is a short list of what I’m NOT looking for:

A doormat

A switch (nothing against switches, I just have no desire to submit)

A poly situation - one is enough

Yes, these are specific lists. But I know me and I know what I want.