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Committing Acts of Sadistic Mayhem Since 1998

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50 year old, slightly paunchy Dom. I know what you are thinking Why the hell should I bother with that? Good question.

Most of the so called Doms on here, frankly, dont know what the hell they are doing. They think that a few kings and some dick sucking is the end all be all of the lifestyle.

They arent going to spend the time reaching into your mind and heart to squeeze that last bit of submission from you. They arent going to find out where you need to be and help you find the way to get there. They arent going to tell you about the pain and the tears that will be wrung from your body and soul to help you achieve that bliss.

But I am.

Or, rather, we will. I am the Dom half of a Domswitch team. My wifekitten only do this as a couple. No ifs, ands, or buts. You dont like that? Tough shit.

One last thing Yes I have photos. No I wont post them. We get to talking awhile and I will send one or so off to you. Face recognition software is a bitch today. Deal with it.
12/7/2021 3:48:26 AM

Wow!   After years, Journal entries are back!     I am soooooooooooooo  Utterly surprised!

10/29/2017 10:26:23 AM
If you have to ask me if that is my submissive in my main profile photo, you really should not be contacting me.
4/16/2017 7:46:37 AM
Is everyone else getting the German on the female slave profies, or it is just me?
9/18/2016 4:34:38 PM
Avast ye wench!  Ye be best take'n off yer clothes before I run ye up the mizzen mast by ye heels and give'n ya a broadside with me cat o' nine tails!

Sorry.  Getting ready for "Talk like a Pirate day"
8/24/2013 9:37:11 AM

Funny now you never see "Intellectual Discourse" and "Conservative Politics" listed together in "like" on people's checklist.

7/18/2013 2:32:40 PM

Wowzers!   So many that took offense to my last post!


I must made a point!  Imagine that!

7/17/2013 6:17:24 PM

Oh, so you think that thinking of the this all as a lifestyle is a joke?  Great!  Glad you found your direction in life.  No, I really don't want to hear from you.   Best idea is to take it somewhere else. 



6/21/2013 6:03:22 PM

I don't want to work...


I just want to bang on the ass all day.

6/19/2013 4:35:25 PM

Have you ever spoken with someone and you could see their brain cells just going:


pop, pop, pop.



I would say it was a train accident waiting to happen, but I don't think the locomotive has any steam.

2/22/2013 1:27:06 PM

Sorry about disappering.   Been a tad busy of late.   Will get back in touch with you all, as soon as possible.

11/5/2012 6:47:11 PM

I am a Sadist and unapologetic for it.


    I enjoy making subs cry, as well as moan.  Tears and begging are honey to my ears.  I have floggers, straps, canes, paddles and I will use them.  Hot wax, ice dildos, vampire gloves are all part of my bag of tricks.


And, one big scary knife.


I am not a DaddyDom.  Being all cutesy wootzy makes me nautious. 


I want your trust,when earned.  I want your mind, when you open up.  I want your feelings, when you are ready to cross that threshold.


But it is going to be painful getting there.

10/29/2012 6:05:01 PM

I am married, yes.


Please feel free to tell my wife.  Her screen name on here is Ms.Katt2.  Since you are a female, she will be happy to hear from you.


Guys, not so much.

10/15/2012 4:59:11 PM

Are you one of those that

Can not see,


Are you one of those that

will not see?

8/17/2012 1:03:06 PM

Yes, that is a big knife, and yes I do know how to use it.  If it scares you that much, quit looking at my damn profile.

3/22/2012 2:28:19 PM

Yeah, well guess what.


I do have a photo showing my and my girl's face.


No, I'm not posting it.


No, I'm not sending it to you.


I really don't care if you don't like that fact.


Life is unfair at times.  I would suggest you get used to the idea.

1/19/2012 2:12:40 PM

No dear.  At 19, I would not trust you with the key to my car, much less the key to my submissive.

1/12/2012 1:34:22 PM

True love means never having to say:


"Let me take off the duct tape to kiss you"

12/1/2011 4:41:53 PM

I wonder if those "financial dommes" will take money to get their ugly ass photos off their profiles.

10/13/2010 2:49:17 PM
Yeah, I read in your profile that you are straight and not interested in a couple. That is probably the reason I did not email you.

However, my looking at your full profile does not consitute "hitting" on you.  It consists of reading.   If you don't people reading your profile, then take the friggin thing down.
3/19/2010 12:39:21 PM
Maybe a nice camembert might go well with that whine?
3/16/2010 2:31:04 PM

People preport to have hardcore beliefs in this lifestyle and yet when one attempts to debate them, they run scared to the hills.   
Ones nature is not two fold but multifacited.  Shame there are those that won't discuss the issue.

4/1/2008 4:59:32 PM
I've been told of late that my profile and journal is a tad vauge.  I did not mean it to be, but also did not mean to let it lag so long un updated.

The kitten and I are due to be married here in a few months after living together now for 3 or so years.

After that time, we do intend to find a submissive for her to train on.  kitten is a switch and is going to be time for her to be Domme over someone.

Feel free to inquire however be prepared to spend a good deal of time communicating with the both of us.

If you can not express your self in written and spoken form, don't be surprised to be ignored.
8/31/2005 1:43:27 PM
And after a long journey's search, I have found a lil kitten girl to teach new things. Although one of the things she has a leaning towards is being a switch. So she gets to learn to give the beatings as well as take them :D When she is ready, I will be looking for a lil female pain whore that enjoys serving as well as cooking. Speaking french is always a plus.
 Age: 25