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Female Submissive, 26, Dallas, Texas
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Male Submissive, 47, long beach, California
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About slavespirit41
Must be local (SW Missouri), single, non-smoker.
I have been involved in the kinkier side of things since I was 18, and although I have a varied background in BDSM, I prefer the submissive role and find myself the most content in serving. I have been involved in the KC area groups since 1996 and have attended events in various parts of the country. With that said, I enjoy the groups but do not always agree with the group mentality and follow my own heart and mind in what I think is right for me. Its all about the journey, not the destination. I am always looking for the connection(s) that inspires me to new heights. Gaining a trust in someone and knowing they always have my best interest at heart and their honesty will never be in doubt. Pushing me, teaching me, guiding me, and ultimately making a union that compliments each other.
A Ds relationship, in my opinion, is about honesty and time. One must communicate on a deeper and more raw level than any other type of relationship. It takes time to build the Dominantsubmissive relationship and if you dont have time and are only looking for kinky adventures, then I am probably not the one for you. There are time and places for most everything, but mostly lets not waste each others time. After all time is a very precious limited thing.
Things change, and my ideologies change too it is called growth. I continually walk down the path that will lead me to more insight into myself and hopefully to the place that I find a most treasured nirvana.
Must have a photo! Yes those are my pics, no they are not all recent, but they are within the last 5 - 8 years, I just dont care to update the pics. I was busy living my life, so get the F over it!!
Life is not measured by the amount of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away unknown
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Its been an incredible few weeks. So many insights into things I had overlooked, but truth usually sets light to those things. I guess that saying the truth will set you free is a true statement. I am enjoying the casual laid back approach my life has taken and I am so happy to have such wonderful people around me that make me so very happy. I could make a list of those people but hopefully they know who they are and how much their friendship means to me. The hopeless romantic in me is what usually gets me into trouble and I always want to see the best in people, but sometimes all that glitters is not gold. Live and learn I guess. |
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I am working on not worrying about what went wrong, and instead focusing on what to do next. Continually moving forward and hoping to find the answers which I seek. |
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I just have to laugh at these so called Dominants that think they can be pushy and demanding in an initial email, just too comical, thank you for the laughs!! Almost better than the comedy channel LOL |
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All the corsets in my pics are made by the amazing Amy Crowder (RIP).? She will be missed and thought of often.? Wearing her corsets is a decadent pleasure.? I will always treasure the beautiful corsets that she made and will smile with memories that I carry in my heart. ?
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"The only abnormality, is the incapacity to love" ~Anais Nin~
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All that glitters is not gold.......most of the time its just a little pyrite nugget :)
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Emails?? What can you say about emails?? i like getting emails and i try to
respond to most of them, however, it is really irritating to get an
email from someone and it simply says "hi", or some other short little
nothing written there.? There is nothing of substance there to even
entertain a thought of responding.? To have a conversation you have to
have something to talk about.? Just a few sentences, anything.?
Just a thought...................................
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You know sometimes the light bulb goes off above your head, and things are revealed that make so many other things more clear.? Although this new revelation is painful, and hits a raw nerve, I also know it will be enough to push me to the place I need to be in my life. ?
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