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Aug 6, 2007

I'm currently in the market for a female slave, (no experience necessary!). What I'm looking for is:

* a negotiated, fixed term contract arrangement - probably for one year.
* a bdsm play, sexual, emotional, social, and spiritual relationship based on the concept of limited ownership
* a relationship based on a single safe word - one which will end the m/s portion of our relationship.
* exclusivity with respect to ownership. I will be your only owner and you will be the only person I own for this time.

As your owner, I won't have the right to destroy you, nor will I have the right to transfer ownership of you to anyone other than back to you. In most other ways, subject to initial negotiation and contract, I would own you.

What I offer is quite a bit. I'm rather experienced in real life bdsm play, (see the rest of my profile or my other profiles for more details), and in several forms of d/s, though not yet in m/s. Owning someone would be a new thing for me. However, I'm experienced with a wide range of bdsm play, tantra, ritual, NLP, and hypnosis. I teach classes on these regularly, write online constantly, and I will expect to teach, (and learn from), you about these. Notably, you will learn more about:

* how to accept your self as a healthy, sexual, emotional, and spiritual being
* your boundaries and when and how to express them in socially appropriate and effective ways
* your interests and desires and how to express those in socially appropriate and effective ways
* the San Francisco bay area bdsm scene
* tantra, ritual, and sex magick which you will be able to practice on your own.

I will take you places you hadn't imagined existed, most of which you will probably enjoy, some you may enjoy a lot, and a few you will probably absolutely hate. You will be respected and encouraged, although in some ways also restricted.

I'm not interested in:

* a live-in relationship
* The One. This relationship in this format will be limited. I'm not looking for "The One" and I don't really expect to be "The One" for you either.
* sexual or emotional exclusivity. I'm poly and I will be dating and playing with other people. You will also be welcomed and encouraged to do so, within some limits which we will need to negotiate.
* long distance or on-line only - you must be willing and capable of getting yourself to the San Franciso bay area and/or Menlo Park, CA 94025 fairly frequently

If you have any questions, or if any of this sounds hot, fascinating, and/or compelling to you, please drop me a note.


Previous profile...

Please feel free to contact me and even to initiate contact. I only rarely initiate contact on boards like this but I will be honored and pleased if you do. If anything you see about me seems curious or interesting, please feel free to reach out electronically. I only rarely bite without warning. :-).

I list myself as bisexual because I play with people of all genders and generally lack any distinct homophobia or hetrophobia. However, at this time, I'm not looking for relationships with men. I really don't much care about your orientation towards gender. If you're interested in getting to know me, that's good enough.

I'm looking to meet people, build friendships, and develop play partners. Whether you're looking for longer term relationship or a play relationship composed of scene based play, I am interested in discussing that possibility with you.

I live in the San Francisco Bay area, one of the world's capitals for bdsm play. I play both publicly and privately and have been doing so as part of the local bdsm community for over 15 years. I have little or no interest in primarily online relationships. You should probably either live near here or travel here regularly.

I identify mostly as an explorer, a shaman, a tantrika/dakha, and an intranaut. Sometimes and with some people I teach. Other times or with other people I'm daddy, or sensei, "Sir", or just plain "Chris". And sometimes I bottom or sub, (though I haven't had nearly enough opportunities for these recently). I am interested in both d/s relationships with clearly defined roles as well as more flexible relationships where the roles can shift and flow. I want some of each in my life and you and I will get along best if you recognize some value in a partner with this sort of perspective and versatility.

Most aspects of play, d/s, SM, sex, ritual, hypnosis, ageplay, genderfuck, etc are separate things to me. I can and have explored most in isolation from the others. That's one of the ways that I learn about the various aspects of play. However, I am also well aware that most of these can be mixed synergistically, much like various tints of paint or like a world class chef mixes and combines flavors and textures.

On the physical plane, I'm very experienced with a wide range of impact play and consider myself to have mastered most of them some time ago including flogging, spanking, punching, kicking, sticks, canes, and a few others. I particularly enjoy clothespins, especially in an erotic context and am quite adept with them. I'm competent with many forms of bondage and sensory deprivation, especially as they relate to trance, trance induction, and personal transformation. Recently I've been playing a lot with a form of pinching/gripping and finding it fascinating.

I've done cuttings before, but only a few. I'm fascinated by play piercing and have been trained several times, though I haven't yet found the right opportunity to start exploring this. While I still enjoy SM play very much, most of my recent new explorations have been around d/s, power, ritual, and combinations.

In the d/s realm, I very much enjoy teaching, leading, and guiding so I'm motivated and enthused by a wide range of experience levels. Whether you've had decades of experience or are just finding the scene, I'm interested in hearing from and getting to know you. :-). I teach more formally at local clubs like Odyssey, Citadel, Edges, and others. I've been a trained sex educator for over a decade.

I also play with real life issues and real emotions, personal transformation, exploratory play, edge play, pursuites/study/practices involving sacred sexuality and the mind/body interface, (like using hypnosis in play). I explore a number of role based scenarios like ageplay, sensei/apprentice, guru/chela. My path is about seeking and embracing passion in my life, especially with regards to sex, play, and interpersonal intimacy. I'm a certified master practitioner of NLP and I play with both NLP and hypnosis. I study ritual sex magick, (neo)tantra, practice bdsm & tantra crossovers, and I am currently pursuing a certification as a tantra instruction through Margot Anand and Steven and Lokita Carter. My original draw to the SM scene was spiritual; the trance potential in flogging, sensory deprivation, and the pursuit of ecstatic experience. What keeps me here is the community and my desire to explore, develop, and grow in a conscious way both individually and with a partner and to continue increasing my capacity for intimacy throughout my life.

If you've read this far and are still reading, you should probably drop me a note containing at least one random factoid. The more nonsequitor, the better. :-).

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1/21/2008 5:49:51 PM
I am now  officially a co-moderator of the male_dom forum on lj -  http://community.livejournal.com/male_dom - a discussion forum with close to 2500 members.

Oh, the power!

8/6/2007 3:11:17 PM
Profile updated.  I'm now officially in the market for a slave.

10/15/2006 9:09:30 AM
Wow.  People actually answer messages on this site.  I'm impressed.  I haven't actually met anyone from here yet, but perhaps that'll just be a matter of time.

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chellebellesc
 
 Age: 46
  Nevada