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Hetero Male Dominant, 40,  Simi Valley, California
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I LIVE in the greatest place in the world (IMO) Los Angeles. If you dont live here (or close)or you are not coming for a visit. Do not email me I am not looking for a long distance relationship. Time is the reason for this change to my profile. I have it and I want to spend it the way I like. I don’t want to waste any of it. This includes the time you spend interacting with me. I am always interested however in meeting new and interesting people. So if there is an event,location you think I might be interested tell me. I own a brand new harley Davison..So I get all over LA. I do want the company of a submissive women who share my desire for more than a vanilla relationships and feels the need deep down to be with a Dominant Man.

So who do I want to spend my time with.. A Woman who want to live out her fantasies in the time we share together through a desire to be mine.

To know that I am there to protect and discipline her and in our bond know she is my exclusive property.

You must be eager to please, free of disease and willing to wear a collar.. Open to vanilla events or social activities.

I want to be surprised with your devotion...But if your looking for a quick hook up, I am not the Master for you..

I run my own business so that means I don't spend a lot of time at work.

I will however consider training. Its my opinion that training always occurs if the sub wants to please anyway.
I think curves on a woman are a plus. So dont be shy. If you want a place with me you will know the joy of being mine , as I stroke your hair and you enjoy what it is to have no thoughts but those of ....

TallDarkDomJ ***I am not interested in men**** please read my profile and stop emailing me.
WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.












 Dominant Male

 Simi Valley 


 6' 0"

 180 lbs



 African Descent



Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

Switch Women


 Lives For:


 Breast Play (Expert)

 You wearing my collar

 Being Massaged (Expert)

 Foot Worship

 Mental Bondage

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Control (Beginner)

 Role Playing

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction


 Photography (Expert)

 1950s Lifestyle (Expert)



 Bar Hopping (Expert)


 Fine Dining


 Raves (Expert)


 Travel (Expert)

 Scuba Diving





 Blindfolding you

 Body Worship


 Canes and Crops (Expert)


 Eye Contact Restrictions


 Hair Pulling (Expert)



 Placing you on a leash (Expert)

 Selecting the clothes you wear

 Rubber Fetish

 Sensory Play

 Spanking you

 Speech Restrictions



 Comedy Shows


 Web Surfing

 Aromatherapy (Beginner)




 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM

 New Age Music

 Pop Music





 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops


 Going to the Opera


 Renaissance Faires

 SCA (Beginner)





 Horseback Riding




 Surf Boarding



 Wind Surfing

 Anal Play (Beginner)


 Genital Punishment

 Local BDSM Community

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Housework Service

 Masks (Wearing)

 Masks on Partner

 Massage (Giving)


 Sensation Play

 Outdoor Bondage (Beginner)

 Plastic Wrap Bondage (Expert)


 Theatrical Scenes


 Wax Play (Beginner)


 Arcade Games

 Card Games


 Historical Shows

 Horror Movies


 Online Chatrooms

 Simulation Games

 True Crime

 TV News

 Alternative Medicine (Expert)

 Art Collecting (Beginner)




 Painting (Beginner)



 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics

 Political Activism





 Lifestyle BDSM

 Victorian Lifestyle

 Alternative Music

 Classical Music

 Industrial Music


 New Wave

 Opera Music


 Rock Music

 Body Building


 Horse Racing






 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales

 Musical Theater


 Martial Arts

 Corner Time

 Public Play (Beginner)

 Board Games



 TV Sports

 Curious About:

 Ultimate Frisbee

 Cages (Beginner)


 Electrical Play

 G-spot Stimulation

 Domestic Service

 Fire Play (Beginner)

 Medical fetish play


 Vacuum Stimulation

 Online RPGs

 Puzzle Games



 Paranormal Phenomena


 Sky Diving


 Antique Shows

 Bird Watching




 Skate Boarding



 Erotic touch


 Maid / Butler Service

 Oral Service


 Pony/Puppy Roleplay



 Suspension Bondage

 Romance Novels


 Female Sovereignty



 Conservative Politics

 Hard Limits:


 Cuck Options

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Journal Entries:
2/19/2010 7:05:29 PM
Interesting conversation today. I was the only dom outnumbered by the subs.They all seem to think they cant exist without a true and strong willed Dom. I think this lifestyle requires a symbiotic relationship.what do you think...?

2/11/2010 11:45:58 AM
someone enlighten me. Why do I get email everyday from women who want me to contact them @  yahoo instead of a PM here?

1/21/2010 8:00:18 PM
I have always had an "alpha male" type personality but it has been the subs and slaves who have created my now ravenous desire for more. I started down this road with just a pair of handcuffs, then a small bag. What was once a weekend bit of role-play has become...well you know.

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