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Male Dominant, 44, Northern, Kentucky
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Male Dominant, 41, Rochester, New York
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Male Dominant, 62, Bay Area, California
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About TallDude
If you are on fetlife, I have a better profile there: https://fetlife.com/users/3025560
First, chances are if you are reading this you are a closeted kinky person. If you are, go to a BDSM social event and say to someone "I am kinky". Trust me on this one. Its the only way you can tame your monster and let it out to play :) ... and its the best way to meet people.
Anyway ...
I am looking for smart lady and maybe a guy who is preferably switch or submissive but depending on chemistry could possibly be dominant. I am not a stranger to BDSM culture and go to events and dungeons occasionally. I love fetish clothes. I love BDSM gear. The perfect world for me would be to find a kind woman that is a fetish clothing nut who wants a solid kind man and loves that he is slightly infused with feminine fetishes and guiltlessly enjoys it.
Here are some possible types of friendships/relationships that are possible in order of importance:
1. A romantic relationship with a intelligent woman that gets kinky occasionally.
2. A female bdsm play partner. For both of us our play would not get in the way of developing more meaningful relationships. If one of us finds someone special, we stop.
3. A friendship with a women that needs someone to talk to and all the other nice non-sexual things that come from being in a relationship.
4. A guy that would hanging out, participate in various kinky fantasies as a sub or dom, and would treat me like most femdoms demand to be treated, attentive, caring, and affectionate or if you are dom be kind yet disciplined. You would need to be bi or gay as I dress as a guy most of the time.
5. Someone new to crossdressing, anywhere in the world, that needs a mentor.
So if this interests you, this is how I get to know people. First, things stay vanilla and if you are not friendly, sincere, and genuinely enjoyable to be around in person, you are out of consideration no matter how hot you are. I don’t use people and people don’t use me. I like to listen and understand someone. I sometimes wish I could be cruel and use people for my fantasies, but it doesn’t work. I’ve tried it. My heart gets in the way.
I reply to all messages.
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All my Tumblr blogs:
Fetish - corsets, stockings, leather, latex, ladies
BDSM - bound, dom, sub, leather, hoods, armbinders
Guys - cute, muscular, and some leather and bondage
Trans - cross-dressers, transexuals,
Enjoy :) |
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For those who use tumblr for porn my blog is http://corsetdreamer.tumblr.com/ :) |
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King Midas in Greek myth was cursed so that everything he touched turned to gold. Food, people, all turned the moment he touched them. I feel like king Midas on this web site. Everyone who sees my pictures or talks online, turns into mindless horny souls. I would like to find someone immune that cared about more.?
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You ever wonder if absence changes you desires. If for example being solitary leads one to desire a more distant cold controlling interaction and if being close to someone leads to a desire for a more warm intimate interaction. This has been a interesting twist for me. I get riled up around some fantasy and after getting to know someone it melts away, replaced by normal vanilla feelings. Now that I think about it, thats the way it should be. Less we be cursed to live in an intense world instead of just vacationing there.
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For those that view and wonder how to get my attention. Here is how to do it. I know what its like to be a sex object on the web and be ogled like a pinup. Its empty and lonely. What i don't have are people that are real. People that take risks, make themselves emotionally vulnerable, who are more than just a fantacy, and who want meat and potatoes life and not the cheap candy life.?
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Fantasies talked about actually diminish the chances of them ever being lived. Fantacies are often more suductive and wonderfull than the real thing but locked in the world of your own limits, never pushing you to change. I prefer to establish compatibility and chemistry and then explore where ever it takes you. To live a real time fantacy that you makeup as you go.
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One sits waiting, searching, in the bdsm world where its hard to really meet the right person, and then there is hope, a long conversation, the posibilty of getting to express all that is supressed and maybe be happy like the rest of the world, a time to meet is set, the day arives, and there is silence, knowone shows up, no email, nothing. Why does sex make someone so mean, so indifferent, so false. Follow the golden rule, tell the truth, and be the person that you say you are.?
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There are islands of searing kinky passion in the world, isolated by oceans of pollite acceptable conversation and vanilla appetites. I am stuck on one of those islands.
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A while back I bought a 3 foot wide by 5 foot tall lockable black metal tool chest with lots of drawers. Now all of my bdsm gear is sorted and easilly assesable. Hoods, cuffs, straps, rope, collars, gags, whips, floggers, dildos, plugs, vibrators, chastity, its all nicely laid out and ready to be wheeled wherever its needed.? Its a thing of beauty.
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Its amazing that the ratio of men to women viewing my profile is 8:1. Its too bad. The women are far more likely to grab my attention and my time. But I supose there are also allot more men surfing the site.
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