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Sakura

surrealcomposer

Male Switch, 43, Maidenhead
Female Submissive, 45, Bay Area, California
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Male Dominant, 57, Oakland, California
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About surrealcomposer

I'm seeking a nice guy for friendship, dating and potentially more. He should be intelligent, successful, near my age and geographic area and liberally minded. I tend to be more attracted to guys with dominant or switch personalities, but I am not interested in being controlled or micromanaged on a daily basis. A college education or above is a big plus.

About me: I love to dance, sing and listen to music. I am in graduate school. I'm very close to my family. I'm liberal in my politics. I'm opinionated and stubborn. I have an adorable cat. I'm an avid fiction reader. I'm both a masochist and a sadist. I'm listed on here as a submissive, but I'm actually a sub-leaning switch.

Please tell me a few things about you and let's see if we hit it off. :-)

Some say love, it is a river
that drowns the tender reed.
Some say love, it is a razor
that leaves your soul to bleed.
Some say love, it is a hunger,
an endless aching need.
I say love, it is a flower,
and you it's only seed.

It's the heart afraid of breaking
that never learns to dance.
It's the dream afraid of waking
that never takes the chance.
It's the one who won't be taken,
who cannot seem to give,
and the soul afraid of dyin'
that never learns to live.

When the night has been too lonely
and the road has been to long,
and you think that love is only
for the lucky and the strong,
just remember in the winter
far beneath the bitter snow
lies the seed that with the sun's love
in the spring becomes a rose.

Seeking a cuddling partner. Anyone game? :-)
I am finding it increasingly difficult to describe myself and what I am looking for these days. I seem to evolve and change a little bit every day. I am in a transitional time in my life, but have come to realize that the people I meet and the bonds I form are one of the most important things in my life. I look forward to meeting new and interesting people. If you took the time to read this, I look forward to chatting with you! :-)?
Okay, so who wants to invite me to a kinky Halloween party? ;-)
Walk the Line is such a romantic movie. Yeah. It's random, I know. But lately I've been thinking about romance...and it's been awhile since I posted a journal entry, so I decided to write a few lines. I realized the other day that romance is one of those things that has been so often missing from my past relationships. They've had passion, intimacy, laughter and good times, but not really romance. It seems the art of wining and dining, flowers and trinkets, candles and bubble baths, picnics and poetry, soft music and slow dancing has fallen by the wayside. And I don't think it's just because I've been involved in lifestyle oriented relationships. I can't really say I understand the romance deficit in my generation. Maybe life is too fast for romance these days. Maybe it's considered "old school" or maybe feminism killed it. If anyone has thoughts, I'm interested in hearing them....Now back to your regularly scheduled programming.
I have the itch to play. It has been too long.
2 updates:

1. I am back in North Carolina! Yay. It's good to be home.

2. I had an amazing time in NYC this summer!! I hope to go back, at least to visit.
Spending time at Paddles in NYC has led to a number of new experiences for me. Playing in public. *Topping* in public! (What a rush!) And even bottoming to a woman. :-)

I'm officially hooked on switching. The swish of the flogger, the cry of the bottom... *shivers*
I'd like to check out Paddles this weekend. Anyone under 30 and single up for joining me? I could really use a companion and guide. Let me know!
I just moved to NYC from North Carolina (so please ignore references to NC in my profile). I will be here until the beginning of August. I'm looking for someone I can have fun with while I'm in the city. Someone who can show me around and maybe introduce me to the scene here. Let me know if you are interested!
Why is it that as soon as you click with someone from one of these websites they disappear or just stop talking to you or the whole interaction just self-destructs? After you have poured so much time into trying to get to know someone online and built up so much hope that it might work out in r/l, in just a couple seconds *poof* it is all gone. It is such a waste of time, energy, and emotion. Does anyone else feel this way?
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