I am seeking a submissive woman, who understands that BDSM is more than a spanking and bit of rough sex - that it's the need to push limits, mixing pain and pleasure, with a mutual primal understanding and goal of shared intense intimacy and connection. I am a kinky man – bent in a good way since my discovery of sex. Like you, my distraction is extreme sex, sex that goes beyond. BDSM is a wonder-filled way of touching - bodies colliding - taking and surrendering. It's about a desire to be truly seen by another, in a place where nothing intimate between two is distasteful or ugly. It is about being open to a wide range of intense feelings - about pleasure and the intimate exploration of limits. Much of the thrill, depth of the experience and erotic energy comes in the contrasts, in a dance of frenzy and caring, in which pain morphs into pleasure and release. The intimacy and vulnerability make it electric.
I am a sadist (not in a psychotic way) and a sensualist. Inflicting pain gives me extreme pleasure (especially impact play - spanking, flogging, canings, whipping, whatever we can imagine). I love the strike of the whip's kiss on a woman’s body and going to the place where you are floating on the edge. Every feeling finds its expression, so I balance this pain with forced orgasms (vibrators, g-spot stroking, cunt and clit pumping, cunnilingus, fisting, whatever gives intense, ecstatic, body-thundering orgasms), moving from one extreme to another, sliding between pain and orgasm. With each ecstatic convulsion and with each strike of the whip, your surrender deepens until the point where resistance is not possible and your submission is total – well something like that. Our goal is to explore our desires wherever they take us.
I understand a bit about desire and passion because I have more than my share. I have been to the feast and enjoy sharing it. The tent is huge and seems to include every desire/fetish one can imagine. One can walk through the bazaar of enchantment taking a little of this, a lot of that, and nothing of something else. My cart is overflowing. My limits are your consent and safety. I come to this with the joy of exploring mutual desires.
Chemistry is complicated. A few words that describe me – passionate, compassionate, affectionate, empathetic, a good listener, fun, funny, curious, smart, articulate, analytical, and liberal/progressive politically and in every other way - 5'10" and a bit, thin, gray hair, blue eyes. At fifty-seven, I like to think that with age comes experience and a talent to amuse, but you will have to be the judge of that. So a brief introduction, I am looking for a submissive who understands this mixture of primitive desires, animalistic urges and human feelings and emotions – someone who matches my own lust, curiosity, and decadence – a connection that opens us to the exploration of all our desires, no matter where that may lead. If this resonates, tell me about you and the desires that brought you to this place. Let's see if we have the chemistry to connect in the kinky space on the edge.
Yesterday was my first day back on CM after a long absence. Hopefully, people are having a better time and finding what they seek - with more respect given. Enjoy...
Penetration is a thrilling word. Men seem to have the need to do it. It is part of our biological destiny. Fisting is the ultimate penetration. A man’s hand inside you! Calling it fisting makes it sound brutal, but of course it is not. The appeal of fisting to me is trust, desire, and intimacy -- to have my hand inside your body and feel the power of your orgasms -- to be fucking you with one hand and stroking your clit with the other.
Fisting is actually a wonderful sensuous process. I address fisting in the context of pleasuring all of your tasty creases. I like using my mouth, tongue and lips to start -- licking, sucking, tasting -- penetrating with my tongue -- spreading you open -- letting the pleasure and excitement build. Fingers next -- penetrating as I stroke your clit with my tongue. You get the picture -- eventually my hand is pumping that glorious hole. (actually, after quite a bit of preparation opening you to my taking.)
There's nothing hotter to me than a woman coming so hard and strong that she not only makes a mess of the person who's fisting her, but even cries because the emotions and energy are so intense that all she can do is lie there and shudder on the end of my fist. It is about total surrender.
I recently responded to a posting with this. Then I did a search with fisting as the only search criterion and noticed that most women who included fisting had it under Curious. Let me know if you want to go beyond Curious. I would love to introduce you to this amazing experience. Take a look at the photos - one had my hand in that wonderful place.
Let me begin by saying that I use the C-word. Pussy is such a weak word for something so powerful. Cock and cunt are appropriately strong powerful words. There are guys that are into legs, breasts, asses… If I was completely honest and in the right company, I would say that I am a cunt man. Of course, I like the rest of a woman, but I am totally fascinated by a woman’s cunt. I aspire to being a connoisseur of cunts. Joani Blank’s book “femalia” is a celebration of women’s cunts - of shining labias and clits Some are shaved, hairy, large, small, pink, bright red, dark red, red/purple, brown, black, flower-like, monster-like, wrinkled, smooth, pierced, But they are all shining. Most pictures have the women’s fingers spreading themselves open - a woman spreading herself and saying look at me – take it – it’s yours.
That’s why I love the tastes and smells of a woman and the sensation of my tongue stroking, licking, sucking her clit and labia, rimming her asshole – penetrating it with my tongue, and my warm mouth taking her - drenched from the excitement - drinking from the font again and again, kissing and tasting as her sweet juices flow. My face wet from pleasing her... and her face distorted as pleasure overtakes her - her orgasms, one after another and on and on - the sounds of her cries and the flood between our thighs.
My motives are not completely altruistic. I love the sights and sounds of a woman’s orgasms, and with each ecstatic convulsion her surrender deepens until she reaches the point where resistance is no longer possible – a bit of hyperbole, but...
BTW – I like my cunts smooth and soft and always treat to waxing and knowing that it took a bit of pain to get it that way makes it even more inviting for my mouth. I had a sub that lasered it smooth. My lips were chapped from playing in her juices.
I have just discovered new (for me) soprano - Patricia Petibon, as good as extreme sex – actually it is extreme sex…
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