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	About surprises4uDom Sensual Massage and Sensation Play! This profile does a good job of describing who I am and what is important to me. I have a wonderful babygirl and I have put My collar on her. Since you are probably curious as to who it is, her nick is piphy. So now you know not to hit on her; she's owned. Thanks for you interest, and please feel free to continue to read what I have written here. Do you like to be beaten, but don't like sharp pain? Do you like feeling safe and loved when you're bound and gagged? Do you like hot/cold rocks, prickly/pokey things, and chains/paddles/crops used all over your body until your driven to orgasm? Do you like being told to expose your private areas not knowing what's going to be done to them, but knowing that whatever it is, you're probably going to love it? This is how I'm going to treat you. I'll pay very close attention to your limits, and I'll listen to your desires, but I'm going to do what I think you need most. Your entire experience will be sensual. I will play your body like a fine instrument, building gradually to a crescendo, then coming down with a warm fuzzy feeling all over. I'll get your endorphins flowing so that you feel intoxicated, then I'll have my way with you. I won't need to give you orders because you'll be begging me to do these things to you. You will be so full of desire that you will do anything to please me. Contact me and we'll start getting to know each other. I don't often play with strangers. I need to know that you are what I want. I want a female submissive that is intelligent, and presents herself as being attractive and desirable. Being attractive is 80% personality. Do you have an attractive personality? Are you usually happy and in a good mood? Do you have a wide variety of interests and a desire to learn more about the world around you. I can help you explore your sensuality and add some spice to your life. I offer friendship, leadership, support, and encouragement. I have no requirements for your size, shape or coloring. I don't care how many piercings or tattoos you have. I don't care if your married or single. I don't care if your have children or not. I will accept you as you are as long as you meet the simple requirements listed above.

The Summer of 2008 has faded into Fall...The entire summer was such a fantastic time in my life. I, my wife, and my beutiful submissive hosted many parties at my remote country home. Each party was a success. We had created about a half dozen outdoor play areas, and nearly every guest at each party spent the enitre night.

The three of us also went to many parties hosted by others.

The final hurrah was attending the Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco along with about 100 of our friends. What a kinkfest!

Now coming up on Halloween, we've already gone to one cotume/BDSM party, and we have another kink party lined for Halloween night itself.

Life just doesn't get any better than this. Thanks for that are due mostly to the two wonderfully erotic women in my life.

Gorean?

I'll be very blunt; I don't like it at all! I am against so much of what it is based on. My values give everyone equal rights and individual value. Each person has the authority to defer a right, or rights, to another and submit themselves, but that deferment is revokable by the submissive.

I treat my submissive as a partner. Together we offer what the other wants. Each partner has an equal right in defining the relationship. I am not interested in being a dictator. That is way too much work. I expect my submissive to function on her own and make decisions for herself. As the relationship grows, we will become more in tune with each other, but in the beginning, I expect her to speak up and express her desires and limits. I need a partner that will be open and honest with me about what she wants. I do not like to be in a position where the things I do are hit and miss. I need to know that my sub is with me because she wants to be, not because she has been told to be. My gratification comes from her choosing to interact with me. I do not need property, I need a partner.

I don't care for long-term humiliation, either. I want to support and encourage my submissive. I am all about happiness, exploration, and growth. Short term humiliation can be a lot of fun for both of us. The difference is that we both understand that it is playfull and temporary.

I have seen the results of some very cruel treatment, and I will never be one to inflict such treatment on another.

What's funny about this holiday season is that I'm much more excited about attending my various monthly BDSM parties, than I am about family celebrations. I feel like I'm squeezing in the family and business parties in between the play parties. Even tonight there are two parties going on, but I had to skip them because of other things. DAMN! I really enjoy meeting with the different groups I associate with. I have made some very good friends in these groups and I look forward to spending time with them. We talk, we play, and generally just hang out together. The nicest part is that my wife and I always attend together. So, If I don't have a submissive for the night, then I'll play with her and her submissive. Or, maybe I'll find a subbie at the party who needs a Dom. It's all good, and it's all exciting. I like watching the others play, and they seem to find it interesting to watch me Dominate because I come up with unusual ways tantilize my sub/slave. Yes, I do use floggers, crops, and paddles, but I prefer to discover some means to surprize my sub/slave. I like to find her "newness" or inexperience with some technique. Sometimes it's a fear she has, or it maybe a secret desire to explore something odd. For example, I recently created what I call a "Pleasure Post". It's a wooden post about 25" tall mounted standing on end to a platform base. So far it has two attachments. One is a solid wood dildo 5" long and 1 1/2" in diameter. The other is a jelly vibrator 6" and 1 1/2" in diameter. They both attach to the top of the post pointing straight up. The upper one third of the post is tapered. The idea is that the sub/slave is cuffed standing up with her arms up. She is told to stand over the post. the dildo is tall enough that it fits at least half way inside of her while she's standing flat-footed. The taper of the post fits very comfortably between her upper thighs. Finally, her ankles are cuffed to the base of the post so that she cannot remove herself. No the fun begins. As I caress and explore her body, tease and mildly torment her, I whisper things to her to keep her thinking about the object inside of her. Each subbie that has tried it has reacted exactly the same way. She tries to be proper and not show too much enjoyment, but as I continue to haunt her with my knowing her real desire, her desire grows. Then as I continue to push her arousal further and further, she eventually surrenders and brings herself to orgasm on the post. It's extremely erotic for both of us. Now, doesn't that sound like a great reason to want to go to play parties instead of an office Christmas party?

I have explored a couple of interesting relationships in the past four months. Both were submissive women who did not have a regular Dom. I'm glad I got to know each of them, but niether were quite right for me.

I'm looking for a pleasure slave who has interests in BDSM. For the BDSM part, I want to restrain her, torment her with light pain and unusual sensations. I have various pieces of BDSM furniture and nearly 100 impliments. I don't like leaving marks, but I can give extreme pain if that is what she wants. Her squeeling and then asking for more is a turn on.

For the pleasure slave part, she needs to be devoted to making me happy. I'm easy to please, but I want variety. Sex will be a part of playtime. She will be rewarded and her desires fullfilled.

My wife and I are polyamorous. We acknowledge that we both are capable of loving more than one person at a time. We each seek our own submissives. We have many friends, and we have a few lovers, but we always practice safe sex and are careful how we play.

A fantasy I have as a Dom is to have a scene where I cuff my submissive to a spanking bench face down. She starts out being mostly clothed. Things start out lightheartedly with some massaging and some unexpected tickling thrown in. I will randomly remove pieces of her clothing as the mood strikes me. Before she is completely nude, I will begin removing some of my clothing. Whenever I take off a piece of my clothing, I will stand where she can see me so that she knows that I am undressing. I will begin lightly tapping/hitting her skin all over the backside of her body. This is her warm up. It will relax her muscles and remove some of the tenderness from her skin. I'll move into heavier beating with heavy floggers or paddles. This will get her endorphines really flowing.

An hour or so has passed by this time. she is in such a daze by now, yet not a bruise or welt to speak of, just plenty of pink skin. Now I'm going to blindfold her. She'll wonder what it is that I'm not going to let her see. I'll start using a selection of sensation toys on her. Some will be pricklely. Others will be smooth and comforting. Some may be hot, or may be cold. I will uncuff her, have her turn over, and lay face-up on the bench. I will re-cuff her hands and ankles to the base of the spanking bench. She is still blindfolded. I will continue to sensation toys, but this time over the front of her. This skin is tender and more sensitive since it hasn't been touched yet. The pace will be slower and more erotic. She'll twitch and squirm. I will also be completely nude by this time. Every few minutes I'll lay my body on hers. She'll feel my warm skin against her. I'll suckle her nipples now and then after I have teased them with pointy tools. I'll grab a handfull of her hair and pull her head to the side so that I can lean in and bite the muscle that runs down the side of her neck. This sends over the edge and she begins to orgasm. I'll kiss her lips tenderly to reassure her that she's still safe. Standing beside her, I'll rub my erection lovingly over her face, then slide it into her mouth as she reaches for it with her lips.

I only let her suck on it for a moment. I tell her that because she's enjoying this so much, I'm going to take things further and work on her pussy for a while. I'm even going to let her watch. I pick up a kitchen knife and hold it where she can see it. Standing between her spread legs, I start rubbing her pussy with my free hand. She can tell by my erection that I'm very excited by what I'm about to do. At the base of the bench I've secretly place a thin plastic knife with smooth edges. She nervously watches as I use the metal knife to trace her pussy lips. The metal knife dips out of her sight for a split second when suddenly she feels the plastic knife slide inside of her. Terror overcomes her, but only for a moment. I explain the hoax to her.

Of course, the jolt of adrenelin brings her down a bit. I begin to give her oral right where she wants it. I remind her that, even though she likes what I'm doing, she doesn't have a choice. The way she's bound to the bench, she can't move enough to even close her legs. I drive her to another orgasm.

Now, I stand up between her legs and start messaging her stomach and breasts with my hands. I work slowly over her body. I'm standing up close to her and pressing against the inside of her thighs. My erection is resting on her mound. I lean forward and lay my chest on hers. I whisper in her ear to tell her how sexy she is. I tell her she is so sexy that I won't be able to stop myself from entering her. Again, I remind her that, even though she wants me just as badly, she doesn't have anything to say about it. I'm going to do it because I want to do it. I tell her I'm going to do it for as long and as hard as I feel like doing it. I also tell her that if she resists or disrupts me, then I'll have to start over and that will take even longer.

I reach down with my hand and start to rub her pussy again. She is sooo wet now. I stand up straight. I tell her to open her eyes and look at me. I step back slightly. She can see my erection pointing straight at her opening. I move my hips forward. I slide inside of her so easily. It goes in all the way in one steady stroke. My pubic bone presses against her clit and sends her over the edge again.

EROTICISM:

Domination and bondage is extremely erotic for most people. Even most vanilla people find it very arousing. They just don't realize that it is the domination and physical restraint that makes experiance so special. Some people really love the bondage and domination to be very obvious and explecit.

I like to apply domination in such a way that it creaps up gently on the submissive without her really feeling dominated. I want her to feel relaxed and that she has an escape if she needs it. As the session progresses and the submissive begans to feel more and more aroused, I make a deliberate effort to create surprizes that are not only unexpected, but also add to the subbie's sense that she is not the one in control. The surprizes can range from using a new toy to putting the sub into a new position or location. I like using blindfolds because it makes it more difficult for the subbie to prepare herself for what is coming next. I like to make sounds that will make her guess incorrectly. I like to create pleasant surprizes for her. That is, surprizes I believe she will enjoy. I want her to enjoy each session so much that she can't wait for the next session.

Although I completely enjoy giving my sub a world of pleasure, it is necessary for her to give me pleasure as well. If the subbie is going to set limits on what pleasure I can take, then they must be very generous limits. If she is not willing to give me pleasure, if she is not willing to give me orgasms as well, then she is of no value to me.

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