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	About StrongNGentleDom I am actively looking for new friends in the kink community and activity partners. Open to dating or possible play partner if everything clicks. I am ethically non-monogamous (poly) and not looking for a primary partner. I live with my nesting partner. We have been involved and actively poly for several years. I am work in IT to pay the bills. I am taking a break from schooling to get a better idea of where I want to focus. But I hope to be into a Masters program in the next few years. Im somewhat of an education junkie if i could figure out how to get paid to go to school Id be set. Im a bit of a wanderlust, but I do have a lot of goals in life and work hard to achieve them. I am a big guy and thats probably the first thing people notice. So I have a big chest, broad shoulders, tall and of course the big belly. I do try to remain active and workout regularly. I think I fit the idea of a big teddy bear type, I also think Im a pretty nice guy. Im also pretty laid back and do my best to remain as drama free as life can be. the whole package. Im a very casual dresser unless the night or day calls for something more. I think my eyes and my hands are two of my best features. I also believe that I am intelligent, fun, funny, inquisitive and a great listener. Though there is much more to me than I will put down here, if you want to know you just have to ask. I like all kinds of music from metal to rap to classical. Most of my favorites are usually alternative or heavier type stuff, but Im very open. I I have four tattoos. I want some more ink, but havent settled on a design. Im a big fan of movies couldnt give you one favorite, but narrow it down to a small list. I enjoy photography, but havent had much time for that. Id like to get into outdoors and nature. Id love to get into taking erotic and bdsm photos as well. At least something more staged and like a photo shoot not just a random snapshot of a bruised ass. Trying to describe myself as a dominant or top isnt the easiest thing to do. I love kink and the longer Im alive the more I like. Im not into everything, but there isnt probably a whole lot of reasonable things I wouldnt try. Hard limits of scat, water sports, and anything illegal (besides the bdsm).. I am a lover of the spanking. The sting of my hand when I really connect is an amazing feeling. I love to give a good flogging or paddling. I love rope and bondage. Well theres a lot more that I love to do and even more that Im dying to try. Just need to find a willing victim. -) Ive been with a lot of vanilla partners who enjoyed kink through the years but as Ive grown into kink and BDSM I find that I want more... Im sure most of you can relate to that. I havent had a lot of opportunities for training beyond some basics protocolrituals. Id very much like to explore that on a much deeper level. I fit a bit into the daddy Dom realm. Im a big sweet cuddly guy. Though Im not particularly attracted to age play. At least as far as overall personality I think that idea fits pretty well. Im a sweet guy and like to show that side of me. But I do enjoy handing out a bit of pain, and would very much like to meet someone with a pretty good threshold desire for pain with their play. What Im looking for Im looking for three types of relationships friendship only, play partners, dating and potential partner. For friendship Im always open to meeting like minded folks to talk about bdsm or attend local events with. All three of the things Im looking for will start with friendship. Im pretty open I can be friends with most anyone. As for a play partner Im looking to find a friend that I get along with and enjoy spending time with. Someone that is also interested in various s of bdsm play. This person should enjoy at least a moderate level of pain with their play and some s of bondage. Thats the very basics, but everything else is negotiable. I will not be an ONLINE only DOM, this does not interest me at all. I am open to online only friendships. However if you seek someone to control you completely over the internet with no real interaction dont even bother asking.

Getting more active online and it's just as crazy as it was before. Looking to find local events to get out to as I'm hoping to expand my social circles.

Also would love to find a play partner or someone to date ongoing if things connect.

Update time: Looking to get back into to some more community events. I've been spending too much time with vanilla folks, in the vanilla world.

Very interested in finding new friends interested in talking, hanging out possibly hitting up some local events together.

Beyond friendship I'd love to find someone that I click with and see where that goes. I see a lot of people out there looking for the ONE. That's great and ultimately what I seek as well, but feel it takes awhile to get to that point. The ONE would be someone I'm compatible with in both the vanilla and bdsm worlds. Those things will certainly take time to find out and develop. Sure I'd love to find my ONE, but I realize I'll spank a few "frogs" along the way.

I'm here off and on; if for some reason you'd like to talk you should know what to do.? I think anymore I'm on here more for amusement than anything else. ?

It is way to easy for life to overwhelm lifestyle.? Though lacking a willing partner doesn't induce a lot of chances either.?

Just trying to take some time to get back to the things that matter to me.?

Probably quite a bit to add, but short on time.? Been to a few of the TNG theme nights at the Steel Sanctuary.? They are doing a great job, you should check them out.? Went to Woodsstocks and that was an amazing experience, I can't wait until next year.? Oh and I'm going to COPE next month.? So that's all been fun, but would be funner if I got to play a bit more.? Would love to find someone to play with.

Still work too much! But gave notice so will be down to one job just in time for Kinko De Mayo!? Should be fun!

If I've added you to my favorites and not said anything it's because of current time restrictions.? That and updating my profile and other information.? When I get that all up and running I will very likely look you up and say hello.? Feel free to say Hi first if you want.? Just making sure to state the situation.

In as few words as I can..

Finished degree
Started degree
Working
Working More
Working More and working on degree
Started new degree in conjunction with one in progress.? Both nearing completion.

And damn it all if the closest thing to fun I've had was some vanilla love and that just did not cut it.

Holy back from the the wastelands.? I haven't posted here since 2007.? It has been too long in soo many ways.??

Life has been keeping me busy lately, so I don't get on here much.? That and I've never gotten a lot of use out of this site.?

Things are well in life, and I continue to strive to improve them.? Haven't gotten to much in the way of lifestyle events, munches lately.? Though that is only somewhat a time matter and more a matter of being stuck on the local transit system.? Kind of makes me wish I'd have learned to fix a car, instead of computers.? Or at least had a garage and some decent tools to perform those functions in.? I can be quite handy when I feel like it.?

Let's see beyond to not getting to very much in events, parties, munches I haven't played much.? Again time is an issue, but not the only issue.? Lack of willing victims is the bigger cause, though in reality a large factor in that is lack of time.?

What a wonderful update.? Life is going well, but I havent' been having much fun!? Guess that is how it goes at times.

Just wanted to put an update here.? Pictures are still down as I'm working and going to school I think it's probably best.? But if you are interested I'm more than happy to send you pictures of me.?

Still looking for that special submissive girl to become mine.? I've met lot's of good friends in the scene.? Life keeps me busy lately, but I always try to keep an eye out for that girl that will just be the 'One'.

It's about time I made an update to this.? I'm currently looking for work in my field of study, which is why I took my picture down. If you want to see some email me, I'll be more than happy to share.? This fall will be my last semester to finish up my Associates Degree.? I'm transferring to a local University for a Bachelor's Degree.? My cat passed awhile back, and there is a new cat in my life.? Melvin, he's a wonderful guy and very laid back.? Fits very well with my attitude. That's about all for now.

I miss playing if I'm not playing regularly, and I'm not playing regularly. It's kind of like missing sex or intimacy when single for too long. I see similar topics in a lot of journal entries from the submissive side of things. Another one of those things your body and mind begins to crave when it goes without.

Fakes and Wannabees, I see that comment in so many profiles of submissive ladies.? Well I'd just like to let you know that it does go both ways.? I've meet a good share of women who say they are into this, but really are just looking for information.? I don't mind helping someone out, and having some good conversation about anything related to BDSM.? I see that from both side of the spectrum it can be hard to find genuine, interesting people who really know what they seek.

Why is conversation such a lost art? I hate it once you get to know someone a very small bit they just stop having anything interesting to say. I know it's hard to keep talking about yourself and trying to find out about the other person.? If you want to try to connect with someone you have to make an effort.? I am overly annoyed at women who can't hold a conversation once they know a bit and have told you the basics.? IF you can't figure out some topic to talk about with me after we've exchanged initial pleasantries.? The person I seek as a friend, lover, or partner is able to hold a conversation, and has something interesting to say.? Too often I find that when you meet someone on the internet they can't hold a conversation to save their life. It's easy ,really, I can talk about most anything, just pick something and ask my opinion.

One of the things I love the most about this lifestyle? is that with the right partner the potential is only limited my your collective minds.? There is so much that this can encompass that I don't think I'll ever run out of new ideas, new techniques, and simple and wonderful new ways to make my girl squeal with delight or fall deeper into the trance I've lead her.

Life seems to keep me pretty busy, but there is always time for BDSM.? I've been able to meet many wonderful friends.? A few close friends I'm able to play with on a regular basis.? Although that is wonderful and I never mind meeting new friends for play or just to share experiences.

If you think I should stop playing with my friends if we go on a date, you are definetely not a match for me.

Although I enjoy simply friends in the long term I really want the BDSM fairy tale.?? Ok fairy tale may be a bit drastic of a term, but there is so much in life I simply won't settle for.? It may take me time and it may take me work, but I know it will be worth it.? In a long term partner this will be how are relationship works.? I will be her Master and she will be my slave or submissive.? I tend to lean toward slave, but it's up for negotiation.? In time the need for safewords will fade away.? She will live under me, my love, my protection, she will be cared for as my prize possession and in return she will offer me her entire being.

I'm enjoying living in Pittsburgh.? The scene here is amazing compared to my hometown area.? I've made a wealth of wonderful friends and some occasional play partners.? All that has helped me to learn a good deal about myself and what I'm seeking in this lifestyle.?

I've recently moved quite a bit upwards in the intensity of scenes I've been involved with. A play partner who identifies as a "pain slut" gave me the opportunity to go to new places. I had a wonderful time and enjoyed it very much. Even in that scene, maybe even more so aftercare and the closeness and connection was even more important. The connection you feel in scenes is so amazing. Can't wait to have a sub/slave of my own to really feel completely connected to. Again yeah I do enjoy the intensity of a pain slut, but that is not a requirement in the person I seek.

Something that came up talking with a DOM friend. Actually in some neogotiations he mentioned that they are sensualists. Meaning there is alot of sensuality in their play. I realize I've mentioned pain, punishment and impact play quite a bit. So let me also mention I am a very sensual person and enjoy sensation play and being sensual with in the scene. I've recieved good feedback from friends on the balance of sensation/sensuality and impact I do within a scene.

An update so you at least have an idea what I'm interested in. I enjoy rope, handcuffs, and bondage in general. I'm learning more with the rope and enjoy it quite a bit. I am quite good with sensation play and enjoy that. I love to give a good hard spanking. I also have some experience with floggers, paddles, canes, and a few other random spanking insturments. I am very creative and seeking someone that would enjoy allowing me to explore my interests further. My limits at this point are simply watersports and scat. Though please note your limits will always be respected and will be the basis for what our play entails.

INTERESTS: Just a note to say that I have a good deal more interests than are available in the checklist. I don't have the time to list everything I am or could be interested in. At this point my interests are pretty open.

I'm becoming very involved in the local scene and it's been wonderful. I've been able to meet some wonderful friends and playmates. I've grown so much lately in the realm of BDSM and it's truly wonderful. I'm so thankful that I now live in an area that has soo much more to offer and up and coming DOM.

Sometimes I think I look to eager, or act to eager? Probably soo it's not intentional there is just so much of this thing in me waiting to come out. It's like a sexual feeling and it's on the verge like your on the verge of orgasm you just need that other person to take it out on!

I will not be an ONLINE only DOM. If you want me to control you over the medium it does nothing for me, and I am not interested.

Age and Location! Okay I'm going to grumble a bit here! I'm open minded enough to realize the person I am looking for won't be found under my nose. So I'm willing to work with someone about meeting. But I prefer you to be able to do the same. And AGE! Fuck it I'm a youngin! I feel old, but I'm only 25 and women do not seem to like younger men. So if I write to you and your older than I, I am genuinely interested in you for some reason. If you are not in me that's cool, just delete it and move on. I just get sick of emails that say Oh Your too young! LOL I know it! You don't have to tell me! The fact you don't reply is more than enough.

The Pittsburgh area is nice, I'm starting to get more informed about the community and eager to join in the local bdsm scene. Currently still searching! I'm pretty open guy, but please be unentagled if you choose to write to me. I don't need anyone else's drama in my life, My current friends provide enough of that. I'm looking for fun, interesting, intelligent, submissive woman who is interested in exploring BDSM with a close friend or someone they are dating.

Just a quick note especially if I sent you mail, Age means nothing to me. If it means something to you that is your perogative and that's fine, just put my mail in the trash.
I get so many your too young responses, which is fine, but you don't have to tell me why I'm wrong for me. When you don't respond I'll get the hint!

I am searching for a woman who is submissive and seeks to help me explore and to explore herself with my help. Age means nothing to me and I wouldn't mind finding someone even much older than myself. It seems my age is often a hinderance to me in this lifestyle. I realize it has alot to do with knowing what you desire and a good deal of women my age don't yet know themselves. As far as size I love a BBW, but I'm open to most any shape and size. To me it's inside that matters and the exterior is just something extra!

I hate searching, I hate waiting! Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Sometimes I wonder if my desires are too much. Or maybe what I have to offer is too little? (Figuratively) Attraction is an odd thing!

KNOWLEDGE is gained through questioning.... That's how we get information about anything, so why do people find it so hard to have questions for potential sutiors?

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