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StrongSubmissive

Male Dominant, 50, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
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I am a submissive - a sweet, adorable, wonderful man who is confident, capable, intelligent, and living a full life - and am an ALPHA male generally speaking. There is a missing element in my life - I desire to be extremely submissive to the right Goddess and crave a dominant woman to own my obedience and heart.

Pampering you as my Goddess and catering to your whims and needs touches that place deep inside me that has existed since I can remember. I am a skilled masseuse, enjoy catering to your feet, and am happy to learn the skills that will make me your perfect pet (manicures, pedicures, laundry, errands, and so forth). If I can find that place that makes you giggle with glee and glow with your power over me - yet be able to walk in the streets with me at your side (or perhaps slightly behind) and feel like you have a man to be proud of there - then I have found my place.

I am open to public or scene play if it does not endanger my job and you enjoy it.

I am open to do nearly anything that you desire as long as it pleases you - for my goal will always be to pamper and please you - your pleasure is what I seek and crave. It is what makes me complete - to my humiliation or efforts or pain. I long to become your slave to control.

I would also enjoy just making friends - male or female - to talk with and hang out with.

Sexuality is fun - but unlikely to come first from me. I am more than happy to talk about things - but please don't expect me to get sexual without knowing you and learning to trust you.

So thank you so much for reading my profile, Miss. I truly hope you find what you seek.

Oh - and I have listed submissive women as someone I seek as well. This is because I relate best to them in terms of they are like me. Submissive men - unless highly enlightened - tend to irritate me.

I had read this in another profile (MissKallie) and I liked it so much I had to reproduce it here... it very much describes the types of things/chores I would enjoy performing for you:

Housework:
*Note: While some of this may seem obvious - it is nice to be specific and clear.
1. Cook all meals and clean up afterwards (includes taking courses in the culinary styles you prefer).

2. Prepare a weekly menu and review it with You.
3. Do the shopping for the food making certain the kitches is always stocked.
4. Clean the bathrooms (with brushes and cleanser, not my tongue).
5. Make the beds (including fluffing the pillows).
6. Do the laundry, iron, fold and put away.
7. Dust and vacuum and yes, do the windows too :)
8. Put out potpourris, candles, or oils with Your favorite scents so that the house is always fragrant.
9. Feed, bathe, and groom the pets.
10. Take the children to school (or bring them to the bus stop).
11. Do home repairs within my capabilities (or supervise those who are hired).
12. Take the garbage pails to the curb on garbage nights.
13. Clean the pails after the garbage has been collected.
14. Package the recycling, wrap the newspapers and bring them to the curb on recycling days.
15. Prepare the monthly bills and payments for review and prepare all checks for the Your signature.

Yardwork:
*Note: Or I can manage (handle relationship, scheduling, negotiations, and payments) these items with a service.
16. Mow, edge, and trim the yard regularly.
17. Take care of the garden beds and trim the trees.
18. Make certain the lawn and flower beds are watered regularly.
19. Care for the pool and spa.
20. Keep the patio, drive, and garage swept and clean, including cobwebs.
21. Remove the leaves from the gutters.

Nightly Activities:
22. Bring late night snacks while You watch TV.
23. Give up the remote! LOL!
24. Go on the internet and research the Dish schedule (or TV Guide) and print out items which are of interest to You.
25. Get on the internet, read the papers and magazines You enjoy, and provide the equivalent of an executive clipping service... articles of interest with key points highlighted.
26. Take down Your bed (including the pillows).
27. Sit on the toilet seat before You needs to go to the restroom (in the winter it gets kind of cold).
28. Take Your cell phone from Your bag and put it on the charger (and then put it back in Your bag, turned on, in the morning).
29. Draw the blinds and shades (and open them in the
morning).
30. Put toothpaste on Your toothbrush.
31. Fill Your glass with water.
32. Bring Your slippers.
33. Brush Your hair.
34. Lay out the clothes You select and press as appropriate.
35. Light scented candles, and put them out after Your are asleep.
36. MASSAGE Your back until You fall asleep (every night) :) :) :)

In the Car:
37. Keep a pager or cell phone so I can be called to pick You up at a moments notice.
38. Ask You if You'ld prefer to drive!
39. If not, drive You wherever You need to go and wait for You to come out.
40. Arrive at the front of the building within 10 seconds of Your first step outside the door, 5 if the weather is not good. Keep an umbrella handy and escort You to the car if it's raining.
41. Keep Your favorite magazines and CDs in the car.
42. Never, ever criticize Your driving or suggest a "quicker way" (unless You request it).
43. Wash the car regularly inside and out.
44. Preheat and de-ice the car on cold mornings.

Around the House:
45. Pee sitting down so that the toilet seat is never up and I don't leave "droplets".
46. Prepare Your bath (and the kid's baths, if appropriate) and run the water until it's warm for Your showers.
47. Paint Your toenails (and perhaps take aestetician or beauty classes to perfect this talent).
48. Pick up Your shoes from the front hallway and carry
them to Your closet, inspect them and polish them as need be (with real polish, not saliva).
49. Keep Your favorite magazines, books and CD's ready in Your favorite sitting areas.
50. Answer the phone and make phone calls for You (such as ordering items You've marked in a catalogue).



I saw this entry in MissKallie's profile. It was a bit over the top - but could definitely be fun for a weekend schedule - though timing and sexual innuendo in it are higher than some may way. Her real point was that lifestyle dominance and submission (24/7/365) is a fairly lofty goal and anyone who reads below and thinks that can be every day is nuts. But if one puts effort into a plan - something like this or whatever suits the particular couple can be a reality on a weekend... and can lead to a fulfilling relationship. It always needs to be tempered with reality, and one's life always includes more than just their Domme or submissive... but rather family, friends, loved ones, children, events... things which need to be handled outside of the "play" space though perhaps still in the lifestyle.

And as alwasy - in my eyes - it always depends on what YOUR version of fun is - I am here for You after all. (Note: this is written from Your perspective).

Schedule of a weekend routine:

6:00
He wakes up

6:05 - 7:00
Wake me up

7:05 - 7:15
I take him in my mouth and bring him close to orgasm...spinning him off a few times and sending him to prepare my bath.

7:15 - 7:45
While I bathe, he will then:
  * Prepare my breakfast
  *
Lay out clothes he'd like to see me in
  *
Report back in to my bath to:
       -- Heat up the water
       -- Shampoo my hair
       -- Scrub my back
       --
Be my personal soap dish (his mouth)

7:45
Towel me off.

7:50 - 8:05
I'll eat my breakfast now...in my bathrobe with him giving me a quick pedicure.

8:05 - 8:35
Time to bring me to my first orgasm of the day (or as many as I like).

8:35 - 8:45
Time to bring him close again...and deny.

8:45 - 8:50
He has 5 minutes to get soft, or I'll have to ice down his penis

8:50 - 9:15
Calisthenics - Jumping jacks, pushups, stair climber, and sit ups. I'll be sure to sit by him and count each repetition. I might make things like situps a little more interesting for him...squat over him and have him kiss my butt on each rep, or kiss my foot on each push up descent.

9:15 - 9:20
He has 5 minutes to shower and shave (including his genitals) - He better not cut himself.

9:25
The CB-2000 goes on.

9:30 - 10:30
Bondage hour: He gets tied in several positions during the course of the hour. Blindfolded, earmuffed and completely immobile. Standing, sitting, and lying...spread eagle and hog-tie. He is left alone for short periods of time or is forced to smell various items of clothing or body parts. No erection is allowed due to the CB-2000...poor baby.

10:35
The first of several whacks: Kneeling in front of me, hands held behind his back - Face slaps (55 of them)

10:45 - 12:00
His first Challenge - "Anchored Organization": His hands are cuffed both in front of and behind his neck (handcuffs in front, thumbcuffs behind) and he is naked (except the CB-2000) on his knees. His pants are removed and a 5 lb weight is attached to his scrotum by an 8 inch rope resting on the ground beneath him 41 pairs of my shoes and boots are placed in a pile on the far side of the room.
 
His challenge is to make his way over to the pile (pulling the weight behind him) and, using just his mouth, arrange my shoes in size order within color (light to dark) in pairs in neat lines. If he succeeds in this challenge, he will be allowed to kiss each pair before he places them back into the closet.

During this challenge, I will sit back and enjoy a good book. From time to time, I may need him to work his way over to me on the far side of the room and smell my toes or kiss my ass before returning to his challenge.

12:00 - 12:30
Lunchtime! Well, at least it's time to eat again! In other words, time for my second orgasm. As a special treat for him, I'll sit on his face and reach back and squeeze his balls in the cb-2000, while he eats me.

12:35 - 12:45
He prepares a light snack for me. He'll have to wait until he takes me out later for dinner to eat.

12:45
I attach a thin rope from the base of his scrotum (outside the CB-2000) and up through his butt crack to the loop at the back of his jeans.

12:50 - 3:30
Time to go shopping! To the local mall, to pick out clothing for me :) Periodically, I'll grab the rope at the back of his pants and give a good tug. His job is to follow behind me as I walk through the stores, hold the packages, and offer his genuine interest and opinion on the items I examine. He can kneel outside the dressing room while waiting for me to try items on. Time to buy a pair of boots! No salesman needed, he'll gladly assist me in putting them on my feet.

4:05 - 4:15
It's time to soften the nipples...they will expect a great deal of attention tonight. He'll start by counting 55 smacks with the riding crop on each nipple.

4:16 - 4:20
Nipple clamps on the nipples. I know they're sore, so he should thank me profusely as I tighten each in place.

4:25 - 5:25
Time for more frustration: First, I'll put on my favorite leather slacks. They're lambskin, tight, wet, very aromatic and he loves them. Then I'll tie him spread eagle, face up on the bed. Next, I'll gag him by putting one of the socks I wore inside my boots all day into his mouth, shoving them all the way in and tying them in with an ace bandage around his head. Then I'll climb on top of him and sit just above his head facing his feet. I'll linger there pulling the chain between his nipple clamps knowing that, gagged in that way, his only air must come through his nose and he'll be inhaling nothing but leather perfume. After a bit of this, I'll lean over and remove his CB-2000. I'll extend my legs to either side of his head then grab his head from behind and lift it and clamp my thighs tightly, holding his face as far as it will go into my ass. Then I'll rake my nails across the head of his erection. He'll jerk, but between the ropes holding his ankles and wrists to the bedposts and my thighs immobilizing his head, he won't be able to move much. Next I'll switch to a light touch, barely touching the most sensitive parts of his penis and scrotum until he's straining for more contact. Lastly, I'll masturbate him quickly, pulling the chain on his nipples, squeezing his head. I'll stop just before his orgasm, get up, and walk out for a while.

5:30 - 5:45
When I return, I'll remove his nipple clamps, check his bonds, replace the CB-2000. Then I'll climb on to his face and enjoy another orgasm.

5:50 - 5:55
After my orgasm, I'll return my attention to his nipples. I'll twist them in my fingers before replacing the nipple clamps. Then I'll wait about 30 seconds and remove them. Then I'll replace them again and remove them again. Four or five iterations, waiting 30-60 seconds in between will usually reduce him nearly to tears (to make it more tolerable, he can suck my toes to pass the time). Then I'll put them on one last time, untie him and send him to the shower to get cleaned up for dinner. He will dress in his tuxedo (without the nipple clamps). He'll be overdressed, for certain, but that's ok with me.

6:15 - 9:00
He will take me to a wonderful resteraunt. I will enjoy my favorite dishes and drink wonderful wine (which he will gladly pour). He will enjoy his dinner
consisting of salad and water
'll take home some left-overs perhaps for him to enjoy off the soles of my feet later in the evening.

9:15-9:45
On the ride home, he'll enjoy the pressure of his nipple clamps back again, and he'll sit on a softball as he drives.

9:50 - 11:00
Removing his nipple clamps, it's back to the bedroom for some more fun...
Over the knee for his 41 + 1 spanks, first 42 with my hand, second with a paddle. Then I'll hog-tie him on the floor on his belly and let him kiss my feet 42 times on each foot while I whip his butt with my riding crop...one stroke, one kiss.

Next, I'll retie him spread eagle, face up on the bed again. I'll tease him with my feet again, put the nipple clamps back on again, and masturbate him close to orgasm a few times. Then I'll remove his clamps, light a colorful candle, put a condem on him, and mount his penis. I'll drip the wax onto his nipples and ride him until he begs me to stop because he'll come if I don't. I'll let him enjoy his well-deserved orgasm. I'm sure it'll be a good one! I won't stop riding him until he's begging me to stop again. Then I'll dismount him and grab my dildo, invert his condem onto it, inside out, and have him suck it until all his semen is gone.

11:05 - 12:00
It'll now be time for my final orgasm of the day. He'll bring me to a final climax using his fingers, tongue and a vibrator. Then we'll snuggle for a little while and I'll roll off to sleep while he massages
my back.

I am genuine and real. I have found it difficult to communicate who I am.... so I have written this to help folks. I do hope it does not offend. I realize it may sound demanding. It is - but only so that we do not waste time and hurt each others feelings. In the end I care about you, me, and our relationship together.  
   

I am submissive to you - but no wimp.   
 

I am submissive to those you chose - but NOT theirs - not ever.   



I am open to adding adventure to our love life - including others - always at your command. I am not gay - just open to YOUR pleasure.  



I am into massage, pampering, and doing girly things with you too - but I am not a twink or a man wanting to be with men. I just really adore seeing you glow with whatever energy hits you at the moment.   



I am in shape and fit. I want someone who has a proportionate body. You don't need to be a super model - but I enjoy being active, bouncy, and having high energy and I want someone who is the same and who can keep up.

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