StrictWhapW


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See my WickedMzToni profile on .com or CruelladeWhap on aol.com

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I live in a republican suburb of Portland Oregon but I am not a republican. We don't have any fetish clubs here per se, but we do have a lovely network of private parties peppered with quarterly events.

Single. Not married. Am open to a relationship, but not seeking one. What I am looking for is a few good victims :)

I absolutley DO know that I have a geek fetish and am only interested in science types -- CS, EEs, Physics boys and the like. Happily they are highly represented in the pervert population.

WhAP style domestic discpline which includes corporal punishment using paddles, hairbrushes, canes, straps, tawse, birch, ruler, floggers and singletail. There are two emotions have been scientifically proven to increase one's memory. Fear and pain. I am quite skilled at engendering both. For a personal testi-moan-ial, ask plsownme.

I enjoy:

My collection of CBT Toys, my gynecological table..great for administering exams, enemas and prostate milkings either by manual expression or via insertion of a phallus-shaped device.

I love drycleaning bags and rope for breathplay and strap-ons for helping a boy viscerally understand his place on the bottom. I very much enjoy tag-teaming with other women, especially other sadistic women and loaning my boys out to provide service* to my friends. I don't have any particular favorites. I take a baseline assessment of my victim and develop a treatment plan based on the raw material. I am tough and exacting but extremely fair. I have no use for safewords in a LTR, however in the absence of such a grand commitment they are ALWAYS honored.

I do NOT believe in SSC, as the definition of safe and sane are arbitrary -- after all, the average fundamentalist would not consider flogging or spanking their partner as safe or sane (they save the good stuff like beating for their kids).

I believe in RACK -- Risk-Aware Consensual Kink.

My Avocation:

Re-education Specialist/

Not only do I want a boy who is accountable to me for his actions, but I prefer he have a chivalrous heart and be willing to suffer for my pleasure or comfort.

Although he will be subject to rigorous corporal ministrations, he may be equally as likely to find himself with his nose in the corner while wearing either a dunce hat or 'depends' (for acting like an idiot or a baby or both).

Because I am not interested in an LTR, but still have sadistic needs to meet, I am open to playdates -- so yeah, it would be possible for you to save on prodomme fees however:

My dungeon/your toys. I don't want to wash any toys. If you have lame toys, you will be required to wash mine afterwards -- which cuts into torment time.

You may be invited attend a play party with me. If you are afraid of other people seeing you suffer, this would not be a good option for you. Play parties are on Friday or Saturday night.

I will NOT accept anyone who has a 'no marks' policy. I don't care if you are married, but I don't want to be limited by worrying about whether or not I mark you, nor will I be interested in someone who is visibly missing teeth. I have a phobia for those who are 'dentally challenged'

This Friday a femdom friend is having a party. I am looking forward to it -- now I have to dredge up a victim.

I met a boy who has a fantasy I'd like to help him fulfill -- see how nice and helpful I am.... He was hoping to find someone to make him suck cock..."make" is a relative term. Some boys just can't seem to own their desire for cock. Happily, I really like boy/boy -- esp when they HATE it.

I've been offline for a few months. Too much work and not enough time for torture.

It is extremely warm in Portland. I had to pick 100 degree weather weekend to move. Even moving at night sucked. MsDebbie volunteered her nephew who ended up getting waylaid. Good thing almost all my exes showed up -- My ex husband & his new wife (wife & I share same birthday, so we get along fine) and my last boy, Peter. MsDebbie brought her boy R* and he helped hulk the couch over the balcony. My kink-sized bed was the worst. My ex asked me why I needed such a heavy headboard & footboard. I said, "How else am I going to be able to sink a screw-eye tie down into a bed?" He just shook his head...he never minded getting his ass rogered with a 9 inch strap on, but somehow getting tied to the bed was over the top. Go figure.

Play party with piggiepigpig, I did a man-gina on him and he didn't even whimper. The electrical box I brought wasn't working right. Pissed me off.

Had a playdate with a big piggie who was a 'loaner'. Normally I have to spend a lot of time mapping someone out figuring out how far I can push them.

This boy could take a LOT! Pretty much anything I wanted to throw at him. He'd scream and say ow, but keep on tickin' while I was giving him a licking.

It will be fun to share this one, but that is all the use I see for him. Since he is a loaner, there is no use for him emotionally, so he is just there to meet my sadistic needs. Unfortunately I get what I need where he absolutely hates it but does it anyway. This boy likes everything, so the only use I can see for him is a party favor.

I love my new house and I want to have a party now! Too bad it can't be a play party. This Thursday I have a 'mapping' date where I pull out all the toys and see what each does to the particular victim in question. If he can take as much as he says he can, I'll take him to the PLAyday party with me on Saturday night.

MsDebbie is having a take-back-the-house-after-the-kids-move-out party the weekend of September 8th, the weekend of the fourteenth is a tea party at The Wet Spot that Ms Anne has asked us to come up for. I invited a piggie maso I know from SF to come up because he has had tea service training and was an LMT and does reiki. I think he can add something to the party for the other ladies and we can kick the crap out of him afterwards. MsJenifer from Tacoma will hopefully be there, she is having a busy work life as well, so until she confirms I can only hope she'll have time.

My boss was in town from Vegas and had asked me to stay late. I couldn't very well say no, so I had to postpone my playdate. I was very disappointed, but work comes first. I was glad I did, I ended up with a nice, fat and totally unexpected bonus check.

Leather pride week is this week. A boy I had been considering is visiting as is my sadist friend Susan. I like the boy's energy, but am having trouble seeing him as a LTR.

Today I got an email telling me I was 'flakie' (sic). I suppose it can look that way when I work fifty to sixty hours a week, am in the middle of moving and have other social obligations and have expressed interest in meeting him, but haven't been able to follow through because of competing responsibilties. My priority is family, work and sadism. I don't see that changing any time soon. Hmm, what should I pick? Keeping my company on track or beating some needy boy's ass on his timetable? Gee, that's a toughie.

I missed the barn party, I woke up too sick and stayed that way. I met a boy at the She-Makes-The-Rules munch. He seemed like just what I wanted, smart, geeky, masochistic. I was really looking forward to getting to know him. We conversed in email and the answers were promising, so we had dinner together. I asked the big question - Why yes, he was married. Pfffft, my interest went out the window. Not to throw out the masochist with the bloodwater, I asked about the possibility of this being open. I don't like sneaking around. Yes, this was definitely a possibility and he had been in an open play relationship before. Bruising was just fine, so I didn't have to worry about that. Thursday night is our first play session. I went to get suture and needles last night in preparation. I want to make a mangina -- where you sew balls around the cock and make it look like labia and a clit

Barn party this weekend. Ms Anne is coming down from Seattle. Hopefully, Ms Susan can come from Medford. Now we have to find a few good victims.

Geez, I gotta go to Seattle tomorrow night for work. The Portland-to-Seattle mambo is getting old. Maybe I will finally get some time to meet boys in Seattle. That would be nice.

Last night MsDebbie, MsSusan and I went to the barn party. We had a lovely time!!

I learned how to do 'cell popping' and made a nice design on Susan's leg.

MsSusan beat pigdog pretty hard, (little did he know she was going easy on him).

I topped a boy whose wife wanted to learn how to 'send it back', which is where you send the cum back towards the balls to keep a boy from cumming.

Unfortunately, he got a little excitable and had an oopsie... So I got to punish him for it which involved a lot of pinching, poking, slapping,nipple twisting, etc.,once he was encased in saran wrap.

I was told that he screamed like a girl (which I didn't want to listen to, so I gagged him -- which hampered his ability to ask for permission to ejaculate. While I took full responsibility for the gag, I explained that ultimately it was his responsibility not to scream like a girl. I then explained that I had bar of soap for the mouth of boys who choose to scream like a girl.

For me, I was not that mean -- to him, that might be another story. I was able to 'read' him -- when I put my hands on most people, I can feel what they feel. It is a real bonus when pushing someone hard. I used duct tape on his hairy chest and teased him about how it was like getting dog hair off.

All in all we had a lovely time. His wife was very appreciative and we have a tentative rematch in the near future.

Yesterday MsDebbie and I had dinner at a place called "The Deck". It was nice to get away and have a visit. Ms Susan called wanting to come up from Medford & take a new victim to a party this weekend. We all decided we'd meet up at the barn. Ms Susan said she'd like to share (we really, really like sharing) but she didn't think he was up for being shared.

Guess I'll just have to fend for myself ;-)

You know how you think to yourself...I need to go out & take a walk...but you get too busy with life....but if you just went out & DID it instead of thinking about it, you would feel a lot better?

Beating the crap outa someone and listening to them cry is something I really, really need to do... I know I will feel better.

My dommelette is gone for the weekend.

Perhaps a quick trip to Seattle and the Microdungeon!

I took the WHOLE weekend off!! I should have worked, but I wanted to have some of my life back. I still have a paddle set needs to be 'christened'

MsJenifer from Tacoma recommended a local maso. I need to get out and get my claws into someone.

I went to Seattle for work and met up with Ms Jenifer, MsJan and MsJean at the microdungeon in Tacoma. These lovely ladies kindly shared their boys and their toys with me. MsJan had a rubber slapper that I coveted. Her boy was quite the maso. We had a lovely time!! I am hoping to have an excuse in May to go back :)

Kinkfest made me remember how much I love to torture. With all of my work responsibilities and the fact that I've had to use a lot of my domination skill set in my work lately, I've been getting more of the guidance/ domination needs met and have not been interested in much more than having my house cleaned -- which I am perfectly able to pay for and I don't have to put together a 'playtime' for someone as I am perfectly aware that there is no such thing as something for nothing.

One by-product of my sedentary corporate job has been what I like to call 'the porkchop effect'. I don't mind being a big girl, but I do mind being *this* big. I am thinking any spare time I have should be spent at the gym.

Had brunch with MsDebbie this morning. She showed off the new collar she got. She will present it to the boy she has been considering

I am taking a break right now. My sister is visiting from TX and will be here through the 26th, then Kinkfest, is the weekend of the 30th.

I had some dental surgery and didn't feel well for a while, so I've not been online much. I am all healed and healthy once again.

I am looking forward to kinkfest -- www.kinkfest.org.

Real life keeps intervening. I really, really need to bite someone while raping him -- esp if he hates every second of it.

Too bad, I am too busy with that durned real life. Summer school is starting soon -- I have to finish my danged cpa some time soon!

I have a group of Femdom friends I see regularly. Today I had brunch with MizDebbie who shared with me that she was going to be trying out a new houseboy after our brunch.

We had a fun time discussing all the implements you could attach to a dildo or gag (feather duster, toilet brush, etc.) and I offered to loan her my locking buttplug harness if she felt the need for one.

She also offered to send him over to tidy up my house. She explained his kink was, "Clothed woman, naked man" as well as getting everything spic and span.

I thought that was a very nice kink and wished her well and thought it was nice of her to be willing to share :).

I am happy to report that she was pleased with his efforts. Nice to see a boy who is useful!

Today is Sunday.

I want to go to work and get a few things done. I'd leave him home to take care of the laundry and get ready for the coming week, but this morning I am in the mood to cum, so I would have put the thigh cuffs on my thighs and collared his face between my legs until I was pleased. The dommelette is at a volleyball tournament all day, so we'd have the house to ourselves.

After that I'd go off to work for a few hours and come home to the dinner I requested and hear about the volleyball tournament, check the laundry for missed stains and offer my encouragement/critique of his cooking and laundering skills.

I'd tease him, but leave him in chastity and put him in the cage to sleep tonight.

Today is Saturday. Today, I went to breakfast with my dad. My dommelette made us late. If I had a boy, I would have made him stay at home until she finally got done and I would have arrived on time and would have ordered something for her that she was not entirely fond of like an omelette then told her that since she didn't have the courtesy of being on time, that I wanted to make sure she got her breakfast on time.

I'd also order for my boy -- but something I knew he liked, something that might even be a treat for the dommelette...like eggs benedict or french toast. But I don't have a boy, so that didn't happen.

We had a nice visit with my dad & stepmom.

After breakfast we were all over-fed and sleepy. I would have had my boy rub my feet until I fell asleep in my magic (super-comfy) bed.

There was a party last night, I would have taken him to it and put him on display and tormented him for my personal amusement. I would have soaked up his screams like a greedy sponge and taken him in the ass with a strap-on in front of everyone. I might have had another domme friend fill his mouth with her strap on and we'd play ping-pong with him.

Lately, boys have been asking me what life would be like in my service. I decided to add that information in my journal.

Today was a holiday. Lazy day with late night so I had a good sleep in this morning. I would have let him sleep in until about 10:00 and then unlock him from his chains to go make breakfast. I was a in a cuddly mood last night, so I would have chained him, rather than caged him.

I would have sent him to start the laundry before making breakfast of scrambled eggs, toast and tea. The dommelette dislikes egg, so if she was up, he'd make her oatmeal.

After breakfast, he'd clear the dishes and I'd send the dommelette to her room to shower or just get out of the way. While he was washing dishes, I'd put my hand down his pants and whisper 'exciting' things in his ear -- even though he would be in chastity -- I get aroused by a boy doing dishes...I am weird like that. I'd thank him for the breakfast if it was cooked properly and put a mark on the chalkboard if it wasn't..as an I owe him

After dishes, I noticed the floor needed scrubbing, so I'd have him scrub the kitchen and the entry.

I'd send him upstairs for a shower and to get dressed.....

I made a mistake at work. I was slammed with getting things ready to file our corporate taxes, so when my assistant called in sick, I had to ask her to come in for an couple of hours to coordinate the shipments that are part of her job.

Big mistake. Three people have missed the last three days. Today I caught it. I am hoping I don't cough up a lung and that I get better in time for my play dates!

I have a couple of playdates coming up. Both from non-locals that I won't ever get to see again.

I like that feeling of having shared a moment and then it just fades to memories. Sure, when playing with someone new, it can be awkard at first and that part is not my favorite -- but I do like drawing on a fresh canvas.

I appreciate that boys are willing to just put themselves into my hands and I try to create a WIN/win situation -- where I get everything I want but I frame it around the intersection of our mutual desires. Of course, getting what one needs is not always getting what one wants.

I eventually want a relationship, but right now, I just need to keep my teeth sharp

I went to the play party after the Vendor's Fair in Portland. It was a spur of the moment thing, so I didn't have a date.

MsTrish was kind enough to loan me her little piggie boy, Spanky. She told me I could beat him all I wanted to, but I couldn't make him bleed very much. Spanky's bruised and bleeding butt is on my website, so she knows what I like to do.

I had one new leather paddle that had a piece of metal stiffening it, but that metal wasn't very hard and the paddle bent. I straightened it out, no problem but decided that wasn't what I was looking for. I went through floggers, paddles, canes & singletail (just light thumps, no blood).

I took a sharpie I keep in my toybox and wrote a note on Spanky's shoulder, thanking his Mistress for the loan and went home to my comfy bed and had a very relaxing sleep.

My mom died today. I knew it was coming, but it is still a shock. I am not going to be looking for a playdate for a month or so. Thanks to all of you for letters of support

I had dinner tonight with a couple of femdom friends. We discussed how sad we were that more women hadn't discovered the joys of our lifestyle. It is such a lovely & intimate way of relating to someone. I don't know how something so beautiful is seen as sick by so many.
Afterwards, I got to thinking...No offense to any Christians, but sheesh... vanilla people watch that Passion of the Christ movie and talk about how much Jesus loved them to have suffered like that for them, but think it's sick when their love wants to suffer for them.

I had a visit from the drama fairy last night. If I ever find her, I am going to pull her wings off!

Sometimes, when the weather changes drastically, I find myelf unable to sleep. Late at night, a girl's thoughts turn to torture. I am moving next week and am not sure I will have a dedicated playspace. That doesn't mean things can't be 'pervert-able'. The arm of a sofa makes a fine spanking spot.

I am thinking of turning a stand-alone garage into a playspace. Anyone have any experience in sound deadening?

There is nothing better than cracking a boy open via the application of terror and pain and getting to the gooey center of him. I am missing this more and more. That moment of surrender, when I can feel him give up his will to me....:)

Ugh!! Work is crazy right now. I wanted to meet a foot-slut boy this week but nooooo, I had to do year-end close at work.

Don't get me wrong, I love my job, but I also love torture and creating agony....

Maybe next week.

Thanks to all of you who send kind words of encouragement & shared your own stories about losing a loved one to cancer.

Now that the news has sunk in and she is doing fairly well with the help of hospice, I find myself in need of some recreational play.

I am not looking for a relationship right now, but I am open to serendipity. As before, I have my geek fetish, so a limit would be a LTR with a non-geek.

However, I am open to playdates/victims with preference given to those who are local and who have a short limit list.

I try to answer all email, though some smack of the vagueness peculiar to form letters. I realize boys are hunting needles in haystacks and I am not going to get upset over a time-saving technique.

However, I should make it clear that I am not fond of non-locals, cross-dressers or diaper types and any of the above will not get an in-person interview.

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