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About DCDyke
Lifestyle Leather DYKE seeks partner(s) and/or house slave (READ NO MEN seeking sexual relationship NEED RESPOND - PLEASE DO NOT WRITE IF YOU ARE a MALE unless you are looking for a SERVICE only situation).
I am an Alpha Femme Dominant Poly Queer Switch Dyke (bottom as a masochist - not a submissive, top as a dominant, sadist, and/or "top") seeking a (butch) leather dyke Daddy/SirBoy/Boy/Boi/TG FtM only/girl for ongoing bdsm relationship and play. Particularly interested in butch sex tops who know how to work the hips for some deep and hard, but also know how to treat a lady outside the sling. Prefer Local. Not seeking live in situation. No bio males for this "position".
I am also seeking a live-in house slave - any race/gender/orientation okay - but this will not be a sexual relationship. I can provide room and expect service but I can not provide full support.
I am an experienced BDSM lifestyler with a national profile, teaching experience, leather association memberships, and references. I am willing to play with those with all levels of experience (including those without). I have a range of skills but am particularly fond of medical play, role play, bloodsports, geniplay, etc. NO straight BIO MALES, PLEASE (I do enjoy keeping up the CBT skills on the willing gay bottoms).
I welcome all racial backgrounds - finding other factors such as education and social class of more importance. Please be financially, emotionally, spiritually, and physically stable. Non smokers only as I am allergic. NO BIO MALES PLEASE - if you are a biological male seeking a sexual relationship please do not write.
I am also interested in meeting other LOCAL leather folks for friendship, social activities, and leather community building. I have interests outside BDSM too - and I ride a Harley Dyna.
As a side note - I am not French - so I am not a "domme". I am simply a "dom" (neither is it "Dom" except at the beginning of the sentence). I prefer the proper use of the English language and do not desire that you use caps or lower case improperly (such as "i" when refering to yourself). I personally would never call a submissive a "subbie" because I am not into demeaning people - but if that is your kink - please don't bring me into your scene non con outside the dungeon via email. I am also not a "Mistress" as I am not the lover of a married man - do not address me as such. I am a young woman - neither am I a "Ma'am". I'm sure there are several other pet peeves that I am missing - basically, make no assumptions regarding protocol as we are not yet in any relationship and we will do just fine. Also if you are a biological male, please don't write to express your bitterness that I an not into the bio cock - it's simply not my kink for receptive intercourse (CBT notwithstanding). Don't waste my time please - if you are a submissive/obedient - show some respect. If you're a het dom - there are other fish in the sea - I'm not recruiting straight women don't worry about me. Thanks!
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Looking for work due to economy changes locally...seriously in the real world. Probably have to move AGAIN. I need to choose more wisely this time. No more small towns. |
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If you send a one liner - you'll get no more in return (if that)! That is so weird to me. It's like a mass mailer! It seems impersonal and insincere. |
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It's so boring in this town, I am going to go insane. |
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OMG some guy sends me pictures of his wifes cunt - like I want to look at that and imagine where some man drops a big load of semen. It was all hairy and nasty too. Guys are so gross sometimes - being visual they may want to look at that, but leave a little to the imagination and get a damn clue! Maybe that's why I like burlesque over a strip joint. Ewe - and I had to look at it before breakfast - now I'm going to be nauseated all day long how non consensual. Bleck. |
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Going to IMsL May 1-4 in San Francisco. If anyone is going to be there and is interested in meeting - please drop me a line. |
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I relocated to Southern Oregon from the East Coast. I am seeking both play/LRT partner(s) (local or weekend commuting distance) and also seeking a live-in lifestyle butler/house service slave. I can supply room/board but not full support. Mental, emotional, physical and spiritual "fitness/health" are required. Home management, cooking, cleaning, gardening, light maintenance, and similar skills highly desireable. |
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I would really appreciate it if men would not email women - such as myself - who clearly request that they not email them.
I am a dyke, lesbian, homosexual. I am not interested in a relationship - sexual, D/s, or otherwise with a man - especially a heterosexual man. I do not hate men (only those who try and insist that I communicate with them). In fact, I like many men and even love a few. I just don't want to have a sexual, D/s or similar relationship with a man - nor do I want to hear from a man interested in or seeking such a relationship from a woman.
I am also particularly offended by men who would suggest that they could substitute for a woman because they have "oral" skills. This is insulting on so many levels - primarily (but not exclusively) because it suggests that this is the primary means of sex for lesbians. This is simply not the case. I do not have oral sex for a particular reason that is frankly not anyone's business but for educational purposes - I will share. I enjoy it from the right person (NOT a man but sometimes the right woman) - but I am prone to bladder infections from oral sex. A dental damn would reduce this risk however, I also have piercings which pierce a dental damn and also saliva causes piercings to be infected and/or irritated very often. So you see - oral sex is NOT why I am a lesbian! And, a MAN can not substitute for a primary attraction to women. NOPE! |
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I want to correct a misconception of the term "dyke". Being a dyke and being feminine are not mutually exclusive! I am "high femme" and I personally fully embrace the term "dyke"! I am also PhD educated, professionally employed, well traveled, physically/mentally/spiritually healthy, and financially secure. I just happen to enjoy alternative sexuality - so I prefer to be called "dyke" - that's "leather dyke".
From my research librarian friend - here is a more complete history of the origins of the word:
DYKE:
This term for a lesbian is a clipped form of bulldyker, an American slang term
that dates to at least 1906. The clipped form dyke doesn't appear until 1931.
The origin is unknown, but the fact that bulldyker is the earliest known form
by several decades limits the possibilities significantly.
Douglas Wilson, in Comments on Etymology, Vol. 31, No. 9, May 2002, outlines an
interesting hypothesis. He speculates that it may be from Boadicea, the Celtic
warrior queen who led the ancient Britons in battle against the Romans.
Boadicea's name is also commonly spelled Boudicca or Boudica--forms which can
be easily corrupted into bulldyker. The metaphor of an Amazon-like warrior
queen for a man-like woman is clear. Boudicca's true sexual orientation is
irrelevant (and impossible to determine after two millenia); what is important
is the image and the metaphor. Wilson suggests the appearance of the term at
the turn of the 20th century may coincide with a renewed interest in the story
of Boudicca. A famous London statue of Boudicca in a chariot was dedicated in
1902 and Queen Victoria's death in 1901 invited many comparisons with past
English queens, including Boudicca.
Wilson is not the first to make this leap. Judy Grahn suggested in her 1984
book Another Mother Tongue that Boudicca may be the inspiration for bulldyker.
But Grahn suggests that that the term dates to Boudicca's days, which is
completely untenable. The term is recent, even if the source of its inspiration
is old. (Note that the Boudicca hypothesis is speculation. It's interesting,
but speculation nonetheless.)
The word is apparently unrelated to dike, meaning an earthen bank used to hold
back or control the flow of water, a dam. This sense of dike dates to the 13th
century and probably comes from the Old Norse dik.
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