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Male Dominant, 45, Syracuse, New York
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Male Switch, 27, San Jose, California
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About SpankologistTX
Strict No nonsense Dominant/Mentor/Disciplinarian with a firm hand and a good heart. Have many, many, many years of experience in providing behavior modification Therapy (Non sexual Spanking) to adult women. Presently seeking a woman seeking direction, assistance and interested in or seeking an authoritative Disciplinarian for an introduction to or ongoing Disciplinary Punishment sessions. Primarily use of Corporal Punishment for real life accountability issues! I am a safe (references to prove so) and sane Spanker who will follow through and always take your best interests at heart. I will not waste your time nor during a Punishment session feel sorry for you no matter how much you beg, plead and cry. I will however remind you that what is being done is being done because you earned it and for your own good! You can be sure that I will follow through with your Spankings! My intent is not to harm or hurt you but to help correct and motivate you and help push you past your limits. Another goal is to help you achieve a cathartic release (cry/sob) during some sessions. I know that being able to do so helps to relieve so much stress and frustration in your daily lives and doing so can help you refocus and once again feel grounded and stress free. In Discipline I utilize many old fashioned protocols including Scolding, Lecturing, Corner Time, Writing Lines and in some cases Mouth Soaping when necessary. I have resorted to figging in the past to ensure that Spankings are well taken. Through my years of experience I have developed a checklist which I can use to monitor various aspects of your everyday life and behavior and would include such items as helping you to stop smoking, stop using addictive drugs, control alcohol intake, ensure you take daily medication, follow your diet/eat healthy, weight loss, daily exercise, stop tardiness, procrastination, swearing, bad spending habits, going to bed late, excessive computer use and several other issues that can bog down your daily life. If you are a student looking for a Mentor/Parental/Daddy/Father Figure I will hold you accountable to achieve and maintain a 3.0 average or better while in school. I will monitor your school work, punctuality, attendance, exams and ensure that you turn in assignments completely and on time. I will ensure that you always give 110% and always do your best. I am also experienced in helping to create meal plans and chart an exercise program for you if you wish me to do so. There is a website which I am a part of which is very informational and will help you keep track of your daily calorie use and intake. I would have you join that website so that I could monitor you on a daily basis. My biggest success being helping one woman lose quite a bit of weight over a years time. References are always available and safe calls will always be arranged prior to and after sessions until you get to know me. What I do is not done for sexual reasons it is done to help you! Women have often asked me, "Why do you do it". Why? Simple, because it helps and it works and is done for your own good, personal development and it will help you put things back into perspective! After each session there will be an after discussion, hugs, encouragement and ongoing reassurance. I can travel to you or can arrange for your travel to me. Thanks! and I look forward to earning your trust and helping to bring back some order into your life! I truly understand your need for needing an authority figure in your life and having someone who will provide guidance, structure, accountability and consistency in your life! Does having Spanking in your life make you feel loved, cared for and safe? It will allow you to pay for your wrong doings and help you let go of your guilt and allow you to vent strong emotions such anger, anxiety and sadness. God Bless You and Take Care and be good to yourself and others! Those of you that are interested. I am a man of substance who is a career retired public servant who spent many years volunteering in many capacities to the community and presently employed in a second career serving the elderly in my community and others . I am a person of complete honesty and integrity!
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A few nights back I was having a conversation with a lady that I used to have conversations with in regards to spanking and getting things done. We hadn't spoken in two years and couldn't meet then since she still had a teen in her house. Turns out that our talks on the phone and off line helped her get through and achieve her degree of which I was astonished to hear. So, there you have another example of what I can help any lady to do! In the near future however we are finally planning a real life meet as she has spiraled into some issues in the last year. I'm sure that it will be an experience that she wont soon forget! |
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E-mail from a Spankee:
style="font-size: 9pt;">You know, I can't thank you enough for all your help. I have to ask...the
way you ended the spanking by helping me to cry...making sure I was
ok....putting the cool lotion on my bottom and thighs...only to let me
know the spanking wasn't finished yet. Did you do that by design or did
it just work out that way? The reason I ask is receiving the final 44
with the strap was bad....knowing you were going to apply them extra hard
because they were the final set was worse...but then receiving them on a
recently lotioned bottom and thighs...well it felt as if the lesson was
being seared into my bottom with a branding iron.
Whether the last bit of the session was by design or you were just
following your instincts, it was perfect. The session was everything I
needed it to be (it certainly made obeying the speed laws on the way home
effortless). You were understanding, caring, and gave me a bit of
latitude for which I am grateful (and will do everything I can not to take
advantage of)...but at the same time, showed solid resolve in punishing me
fully for those areas that I really needed help with. I know you have
heard all of this many times before but I will say it again. I can't tell
you how grateful I am for finding someone who I can't manipulate...who
challenges me...who has the ability to pierce my heart with just a single
sentence....knows how to read me...seems intuitively able to get to the
truth...and has the ability to put aside his own concerns and needs for
the benefit of another. I am incredibly fortunate to have been able to
cross paths with you.
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I keep finding taken women's profiles. I'm looking for a woman local to me (300 to 500 mile) radius who is serious about what and who she seeks and really wants . I keep finding local players or local women that are connected to long distance Doms that I am sure wont even lead to a connection. So why not connect with a local Dom/Disciplinarian.? What makes me so scary? Is it because I spank? Most of the women that I meet that are serious about what they want are half way across the country. Which is okay but it would be nice to find someone within the geographical area Arizona, New Mexico, Colorado or Texas who is serious about meeting a really nice guy who Spanks! I'm looking for a woman that is not talking to another Dom and is not under consideration!
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Another woman told me about how she relocated twice to be with again supposed doms and both times she got burned. The first guy was a mama's boy and wouldn't stand up to his parents. The second abandoned her when she got sick. If any of these supposed doms would have cared about this woman. They would have done the right thing. Unfortunately they weren't real doms, a real dom/disciplinarian doesn't abandon those that he helps or is supposed to be teaching or with. Unless it is something that is agreed by both parties. But for a person to lose all of their personal belongings not to mind plenty of money is just insane. |
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I don't understand the mentality of some of these guys on this site. One woman told me about how she went to meet a supposed Dom. Anyhow she was late and tried to explain that her child had been sick. He quietly took her to his bedroom and locked the door. Her friend went along for safety and couldn't get into the room. While in the room he beat her black and blue (Punched her and beat her on the face and neck with his Paddle.) She took it, just sat there and took it. He let her go, her friend saw what he did and cursed him. Her friend then took her to the ER. She never did anything about it. No Police report or anything else for that matter. Unfortunately she has no family in that town or anybody else in town that can help her. |
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Are there any women that aren't collared or under consideration here. This site is begining to sound like Bondage.com same thing on that website. Seems like 75% of the profiles here are women that are already collared or under consideration or are one of one Dom's seven or ten slaves. I think that if a woman is already collared or is under consideration her profile should have a flag on it or her screen name colored in a different manner. |
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Shyandie from this site said: It seems like people on here love to look at someone's age before talking to them. Its either they are too young or too old. Why does it matter on the age so much? I couldn't agree any better! What happened with maturity or a Doms wealth of experience. Doesn't that count for anything? How about sincerity and integrity? There are some of us out there that are very sincere and integral. I read so much disappointment from those that have had bad experiences. Don't let those experiences totally influence you in meeting somebody else. Yes, have your guard up but take a chance! Life is all about taking chances! |
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I know I say that I can travel or have others travel to me within a reasonable distance or who live along a route of travel that I cover. But I just dont understand the long distance Master issue, for example there is a woman in my city who has a Master in Wisconsin (1400 miles away). I asked her what the possibilities of her ever meeting him were and she said probably nil. If that is the case then why have a long distance Master and not try to look for a local Master for possible real life meeting (after all she wants to try that) or even online training as an opportunity to meet later on down the line. I was looking at another womans profile who is in Washington state yet has a Master in Florida and has a local boyfriend. I dont get it why not look for a local Master or someone considerably closer that she would/might have a better chance to meet with at sometime? I don't get it! Just like a local college gal that I met that wanted to have a Mentor (me) but wanted me to Mentor her at the direction of her (Dom Daddy) who is some 1400 miles away (Kentucky). Ahh no, I don't think so. If she wants me to Mentor her then it is at my way of doing so! |
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