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Hetero Male Dominant, 69,  Washington DC, Washington D.C.
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Stern master seeks ladies in need of discipline

Hi! My name is Stefan. Im single, 69, 6 ft. tall, and weigh about 180 lbs. I currently live in Mount Rainier, MD and am retired the Library of Congress. Im an experienced dominant and have been in the scene about 18 yrs. Im seeking a female submissive for light to moderate bondage and discipline. (You will probably be able to sit down afterward, but you might need a pillow)

Im just the old-fashioned sort of top who likes to tie (chain, cuff) up women and spank (cane, flog) them. Im not that interested in really heavy play or anything dangerous. However, I would be willing to expand my repetoire for the right person. I have an extenisve toy collection, and I would be eager to share them with an appreciative partner. Im also interested in acquiring a part-time slave nothing too difficult, massaging my feet, feeding me grapes, and that sort of thing.I seek a partner to act out our kinky desires in a real-time relationship, preferably an ongoing one.

Ideally I would like something long-term, but a casual play relationship can also be fun. I would be interested in exchanging email or phone calls, but only as a prelude to a face-to-face meeting. Although Im basically looking for a play partner, I would also like someone who I can think of as a friend and whose company I enjoy in vanilla settings. Im not looking for a more serious relationship, but if something develops I probably wont discourage it.

I realize that before I can strip you and whip you, I have to convince you that Im a nice guy who cares about you and your needs. Im interested in women of all ages, sizes, shapes, colors, and levels of experience. I will answerall serious replies.












 Dominant Male

 Washington DC 

 Washington D.C.

 6' 0"

 180 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

 Lives For:


 Spanking you (Expert)

 Historical Shows (Expert)

 History (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)


 Movies (Expert)

 Museums (Expert)

 Yachting (Beginner)

 Blindfolding you (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Canes and Crops

 You wearing my collar

 Local BDSM Community

 Being Massaged

 Shibari (Beginner)

 Tickling (Expert)


 Board Games (Expert)

 Horror Movies

 Newspapers (Expert)

 Simulation Games (Expert)

 Web Surfing

 Online Auctions (Expert)

 Writing (Expert)

 Classical Music

 Folk Music


 Auto Racing (Expert)


 Fine Dining

 Going to the Opera (Beginner)

 Walking (Expert)

 Cages (Beginner)


 Rear End Play

 Foot Worship

 Gags (Beginner)

 Hoods (Beginner)

 Placing you on a leash

 Masks (Wearing) (Beginner)

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 Obedience Training (Beginner)

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 Chess (Beginner)

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction (Beginner)

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 Liberal Politics


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 Speech Restrictions (Beginner)

 Wax Play (Beginner)

 Card Games (Beginner)


 Online Chatrooms (Beginner)

 Libertarian Politics

 Curious About:

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Theatrical Scenes

 Lifestyle BDSM




 Victorian Lifestyle




 Conservative Politics

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