SirPatrick0fRI

  So apparently a lot of these new so-called "Masters" and "Doms"  thing M/s and D/s means one way street and it means being a prick.  You can be assertive and Dominant without being a prick!

  You can be a Master to one, but not a Master to all.  The terms Mister, Sir, and Master are EARNED.  TRUE Dominants always introduce themselves by thier name first. 

  There is a hell of a lot more intailed in being a Dominant than being mean.  You have to do a lot for subs and slaves such as nurture them, take care of them, provide structure for them, train them, give them aftercare, set an example for them, make sure you keep their adoration, and MUCH more!

  You MUST give subs and slaves what they give you as well.  It's only fair to be as into them as they are into the Dominant.  Subs and slaves NEED thier time and they NEED to know where they stand on your list of priorities! This is where HONESTY and not hiding behind your Dominance is needed!

A Domme friend of My lil taught me about this a while back. All you need is a wire or a straightened and cut down metal clothes hanger and a lock. You use the wire or metal coat hanger to make holes in the neck and loop it through the zipper and tie it off well and lastly you lock it shut. Just ask My lil about how hard it is to get out of in a hurry... Also this is perfect training for those nervous about bondage or confinement because this is LIGHT bondage. Not to mention that adding a diaper for punishment while doing this is a nice added touch! :D ha ha ha

I look forward to doing more of this with My lil and working with TessBabeX in maybe trying to make special PJ's for such a thing. I'm trying to find ways to atler some footy PJ's with a lock and a zipper with a hole large enough to get a small ring through to lock in place or something similar to that!