SirNomdeplume

I have paid my dues these past few weeks. 4 from Ghana and two form Nigerian that want me to pay for or partly pay for their relocation cost. There is never a recovery from money sent to these sub/slaves and I as a matter of practice pay for relocation until a salve shows up at my door. Now is there any other way? I just don't think there is any other policy to have. I still wish I could find a slave willing to be trained or willing to submit to a Master's will for pleasure. I still seek a slave.

I have been very busy in the relocating process and not too good at seeking my slave. Things are changing but I am not sure where they may end. I still am seeking a slave to live here or at least be close to come here regularly. I want someone with a brain and body that is interesting to be with. Other aspects will grow from the interaction. I want a bondange and sexual courious female. Is the any out there?

As I have not made it to Brisbane and had to relocate to the US in Florida, my Journal needs a few pages to catch up. I am still surching for a slave to join me, only now I will live in Florida just north of Tampa. I still have a bum leg. I am trying to wait for it to heal, my mobility is limited. I still serach as much as I can. I was asked to expond on my thoughts of a Master and what I think of my as well as thier searches: This is what I wrote:

Personally, my innermost core philosophy is founded upon trust. Because the Master-slave dynamic is far more intensely intimate than any other type of relationship, including marriage, the level of trust between a Master and his slave must be equally intense and it must be apparent from the very first moment and continue to be relentlessly maintained.

Trust may, also, be used as a litmus test for sifting out the true slaves from the confused neophyte subs. A true slave has an unusually high degree of innate trust in strangers; others are generally mistrusting, a trait that's enhanced by the superficial society around them. For the new candidate, I will inquire about the specifics of their loves and fears, and then I will devise a request/challenge that is completely non-sexual for them to do based on those fears. A true slave will want to serve your request and place her trust in a stranger to help her perform it, while a mere sub will think it is stupid because it holds no level of sexual excitement for herself, would never allow a stranger to know about or help her with his secretive fears, and she'll realize you are not the BDSM top of her masturbation fantasies, and you'll probably never hear from her again. Granted, there is a level of trust required to allow someone to bind you immobile for a weekend of clit, tit and ass play. But, it is a finite time limit, and the sexual component is so great that a sex-based sub will gladly endure the intensity just for the sexual adventure weekend. There is a vast difference in the quality and depth of courage between someone getting their ass and tits smacked and crushed for a weekend and someone handing over their mind and body for life.

But the Masters of Masters, the men I respect most, are the ones that are acutely aware of a submissive's vulnerabilities and they choose not use them as a target of abuse. These Masters will take advantage of a slave's strengths, build up her weaknesses, and protect his vulnerabilities. Of course, this takes much more time and effort by the Master, but this is the only way that those deeper levels of trust can be built and exchanged.

In general, I see 3 types of Masters...

- Sexual Tops - the actors with toys, creative, intense

- Bullies - the vulnerability hunters, lazy, lacking self-respect

- Mentors - the spirit guides for grateful submissive

There are Doms and subs in each category and they can successfully pair up like pots and lids; no type is better than the others. It is the purpose of the experienced Doms to help educate them all so they can seek their soul's satisfaction.

The quest continues. So far I seem to be able to chat at least for a few emails to find out the potential slave is interest in being my slave only if I can send money to support them there and not here. I am looking for a devoted slave that is interested in serving me here in my house. I am willing to completely support the slave and all of her needs here, not there. The slave must also be able to travel at here at her expense. Once she is here all of here needs will met by me. It is what I will require to show determination and devotion to the Master she wishes to serve.

Time marches on and so does my quest. I have interviewed several potential slaves who seem to want to become my slave only to hear they need money from thier master or potential master so they may do this or that. I don't send the money and say I will not. The next event is slience.  I do not hear from them again. I have my money and can very easliy support a slave and think it best to keep it for the slave who genuinely wishes to be a slave not a money pit with no iddea of any submission.

I look for my pleasurable slave and feel like I believe many fishermen feel. (I do not like to fish and don't). I sit in the boat with my line in the water and only fine a nibble from time to time. The truly frustrtating element is that those who know mw and whom with I play all think I should not have any trouble finding a devoted slave. I believe that thier prespective is that they are in a stable caring M/s relationships and see no reson I am not. Well My quest goes on.